I need somewhere to vent about this, with men who actually understand RP concepts. I’m going to summarize a bunch of things because I could write a novel about how she disgusts me but that is not the point.

My mother in law is married. She has a boyfriend. Her husband knows. I was the first person to point out that she is fucking someone else. I only pointed it out to my wife and did not discuss it with anyone in her family.

My mother in law has 3 sons and 1 daughter. All of her children are accepting of her behavior because “she has good reasons” which are just excuses for her disgusting hoe behavior.

The way their family is structured is that she is not the queen she is the King/ God. She is the man of the house and the top of the family tree.

When my wife and I moved to a different city, my mother in law found a way to force herself into my wife’s life. She shows up unannounced. She asks my wife “do you miss me?” And she has to talk to my wife every day.

She uses discreet manipulation tactics to keep my wife on a leash. She is never straight forward when she wants something but rather she uses indirect words to get people to bend to her will.

Why did I marry a woman with a horrible mother? She did a good job of hiding this behavior but at this point it doesn’t even matter.

I want to know how can I take back my wife from this evil bitch?

My wife is at home raising our son and my mother in law is a lazy bum who has all the time in the world to sit around and jaw jack.

EDIT: things that I want to put an end to, specifically- my mother in law has one more set of grandkids. We just had our first son last year. She makes jokes, to my wife not me, about “throwing him in the trash”. While this is a joke, I find this very disrespectful. Bottom line- I don’t like it. She does not make this joke about her other grand kids.

She gave my son a nickname that was the name of one of her dogs. She tried to nickname him this at first and it did not catch on. No one in the family said it. Eventually she forced her family to say the nickname. I told my wife I am going to address it but she asked me not to and said she would handle it. My wife has told her not to use the nickname, she stopped for a while and then continued on. Again I find this disrespectful.