Hi all. Longtime lurker. Burner account because my laptop at home probably would ping with responses. For the past 9 months, been trying to stick to the RP as much as possible. Read NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP and the sidebar generally. 32m, wife 29, married 5 years together 10. Discovered this sub through deadbedroom.

165lb, 5’7, bench 225, squat 185. College athlete so generally lean and do a lot of running as well and have been lifting for years. Career beta. Make great money as an engineer.

Around month 3, I started seeing some success with sex. More frequency, around 10 times a month. Wife way more into it than ever, dirty talk, generally all the things I like. I don’t know if I eased up or what the problem is, it doesn’t feel like I did, but the last 3 months have been absolutely insane regression. Back to twice a month sex.

This is all to say, because I’m such a pussy and seek one of woman’s validation, after another dry month, I check her phone to discover she’s been watching porn. After being told basically all month she hasn’t been in the mood, needs to feel loved bla bla bla. I absolutely cannot fucking shake the anger. I’m fuming like a bitch for the past 3 days now. So much so that my STFU has been absolute Rambo and been mentioned. I’ve resisted the urge but should I keep the discovery to myself? I can only imagine bringing it up would make me seem like such butthurt loser but at this point I’m at a loss. Aside from the general advice that I need to shake the covert contract, and get out of her frame, any advice on next steps would be appreciated.