Where is that sweet spot for looks vs personality in dating? This is with a red pilled lense on managing the relationship of course. you see my dilemma and that of many of my friends is this: at our age group, there are very few traditional/ conservative and basically high-quality girls whom would be worth a LTR with left.

now yes, we could just fuck around and plate randoms, who cares about vetting them. But once that gets old, say for the hypothetical you considered a relationship for the time being. Well my options seem to be sluts who are proud their sluts, sluts who are clearly sluts and lie about it, and girls who are ambiguous about their past/ N count or their pasts/ mental status make them undatable or *shudder* feminists..

so I ask, to what extent should we guys take into account a personality that gels well with ours, (feminine, obedient, tolerable to be around lol) vs straight up looks? obviously finding both is ideal, but would you give say a solid 6 a chance, what about a 5 with all the traits you look for in a woman? interested to hear opinions on this.

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Edit/Update: Thanks for the replies, quite a few made me laugh even, they were just such blunt truths. I think i underplayed my SMV a little, i dont really care what it is, im 21 and in shape, If I see something I like I usually give it a shot. I was just curious to hear from an older crowd some opinions on this topic, its helped so thanks.