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[–]HornsOfApathyMod / Red Beret[M] [score hidden] 5 years ago stickied comment (4 children) | Copy Link
Former Alpha here guys. The meme has landed.
[–]ThrowRA_souffle0 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Is there something wrong with the post? Do I need to change the title?
[–]HornsOfApathy10 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
No, it's perfect.
[–]ThrowRA_souffle1 point 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Appreciate you
[–]redwall923 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
The ego speaks.
[–]Cloudy_Pirate11 points12 points13 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Prior to meeting my wife, at 28, I slept with 30+ women and had no problem creating attraction... I posses a lot of the alpha traits Sub 7:00 mile, 275 BP, 365 BS, 425 DL, 270 Power Clean, etc.. I am a martial arts instructor at an mma gym, a crossfit coach Started dressing nicer for work Financially I am in pretty good shape
Prior to meeting my wife, at 28, I slept with 30+ women and had no problem creating attraction... I posses a lot of the alpha traits
Sub 7:00 mile, 275 BP, 365 BS, 425 DL, 270 Power Clean, etc.. I am a martial arts instructor at an mma gym, a crossfit coach
Started dressing nicer for work
Financially I am in pretty good shape
So you have game, fitness, and finance. What could you be missing?
[–]ThrowRA_souffle1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Appreciate this!
[–]EasyDaysHardNights12 points13 points14 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Didn't read the drivel. No need to. You're no different than the rest of the rejects in the back of the bus.
Lift, STFU, Sidebar, OYS.
Off you go soldier.
[–]BobbyPeruRed Beret4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Please tell us more about your alphaness
Listen, slow down. This is a marathon, not a race. STFU and sidebar like everyone else.
Start posting OYS weekly on the main thread . That’s where you’ll see the big progress along with the readings.
[–]ThrowRA_souffle0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I greatly appreciate the alteration to the post and the useful advice. I will definitely be joining in on the OYS threads. I have been obsessively consuming podcasts, articles, and books. Had no idea how much I was responsible for deterring my wife, it allowed me to let go of the animosity I had towards her and focus on being better instead.
[–]BobbyPeruRed Beret0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You are showing big red flags of going Rambo. STFU for months-don’t be trying to implement your MRP knowledge until you really understand. You will think you understand, but you really can’t until you get months of experience. She shouldn’t notice a difference in your behavior at first. Implement very slowly.
[–]HornsOfApathyMod / Red Beret0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Deleted your post like a gay man I see.
[–]ThrowRA_souffle0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That’s weird, I have been questioning my sexuality lately. Thanks boss
[–]RP11272 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Are you an advanced lifter? Those numbers for someone who’s your size are really advanced. Or are you just bullshitting all of us and yourself?
[–]ThrowRA_souffle2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I have been coaching Crossfit for several years and would be happy to post videos or whatever. I have zero need to be dishonest when seeking help, I only imagine it would rain the advice. I have been lifting for a while and used to be obese at 240 lbs., but that was 15+ years ago that I turned the corner and found grappling as a means to get in shape.
I can already see that people are going to treat me poorly here, due to the fact that I’m not primordial ooze crawling out of the muck. Kinda shitty, but just a reflection of one’s own insecurities. That’s not directed at you, btw.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I'm not primordial ooze crawling out of the muck
Yes... you definitely made this clear to us in your original post.
You're clearly different from every other dude who has posted here before. I mean you're basically 99% alpha already, right?
Far from it, the domesticated/blue pill version of myself has really messed up my life and caused severe depression. I wouldn’t call myself alpha, if I wasn’t holding my wife’s desire previously. That’s why I’m here, to fix that. To become more alpha.
I obviously used the wrong title for the post. The rest of the stuff is objective data. I only posted that stuff because the sidebar said to include stats like lifts.
Thanks man.
[–]RP11270 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Why do you care how internet strangers treat you? You here to fix your marriage and fuck your wife or have fun chats with your buds?
Precisely because I’m asking for advice and what I’m referring to is not advice. It’s not helping my marriage or a fun chat. At least one of those would be useful. I’m new and still getting the lay of the land here, no big deal man.
[–]ancient_resistanceShit coming out my eyeballs2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
jesus the fucking ego here. get your ass to OYS like everyone else, faggot.
oh and spoiler alert: you're a validation whore, not a unicorn former alpha.
Thanks boss
[–]business---travel2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wow, really!? You got sent here from /r/relationships?
Okay.. You are no different then any of the new guys that come here.
Hit the sidebar
Lift heavy (4 to 5 days a week)
OYS
Oh, stay the fuck off sad sack subs such as /r/relationships. They are full of losers not doing the work on themselves to better their situation and life. Fuck them.
[–]slaphappy771 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My only advice is slow down.
Don't go rambo. Meaning stop making so many changes this early.
Obviously keep making improvement but don't scare her off with suddenly changing too much behavior.
Everyone who finds this place thinks of themselves as former alpha seeking redemption.
Sit down , stfu , Have a slice of humble pie and Welcome to the place that'll save your marriage.
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[–]ThrowRA_souffle0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Is that what we are striving to be?
[–]Ubermensch330 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Congratulations on the sex?
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