High n count

johneyapocalypse · 2019-09-17T00:10:03+00:00

Holy fuck, lower than 3.

Christ on a crucifix that is absurd.

I have learned much from MRP.
I have gained much from MRP.
I have benefited tremendously from MRP.

But I pick and choose what's right for me alongside what I think is outright insanity and a giant, steaming crock of shit.

The most boring lays of my life were <3-n-count, while conversely, the most fun were above that, and usually way above that.

The idea that (1) men should be out slaying while (2) women should be, hmmmm, baking pies or something, is so... stone aged.

So... biblical.

So... silly and unnecessary.

But... subjugate the women!

Like with the assholes in the middle east, it's all rooted in men's insecurities. It's fucking pathetic.

Sex is fun dude.

It's allowed to be fun for women, too, and you shouldn't be afraid of that.

My god in heaven my wife fucked other dudes and sucked other cocks... whoa's fucking me... my ego... my manliness... boo-hoo-fucking-hoo.

Goddamn unrealistic cry babies - more absurd than the very disney fantasy of happy-ever-after and all that shit.

p.s. Don't forget the tattoos. Evil, god-forsaken tattoos. Nothing makes a whore quite like a tattoo, except perhaps a gang bang.

BobbyPeru · 2019-09-17T00:33:47+00:00

If you are worrying about all this, you are an insecure faggot. Go lift some heavy stuff and read the sidebar

AMHash77 · 2019-09-17T00:09:25+00:00

High notch count women are more fun. I want a women who knows what she is doing with the experience to back it up. If she cheats or whatever then who gives a shit, just move on.

hack3ge · 2019-09-17T00:09:28+00:00

Most of us are married faggot and it’s a little late to give a fuck about that. Women are AWALT - even girls with a n count of 1 will cheat if you are a giant faggot or maybe just because they feel like a snack.

Why do you fucking care so much about what she is going to do anyway?

Redpillbrigade17 · 2019-09-17T00:13:01+00:00

No hard rules and individual cases may vary, but generally a lower n count indicates a higher quality, more trustworthy woman.

Also as a general rule (paradoxically if you will), the more a man cares about a woman’s n count, the more likely it is he’s insecure and he either ends up with someone who lies to him in the beginning, or cheats on him toward the end.

Recognize it’s only your turn anyway. She’s never really yours, n count high or low. The better man you are, the stronger chance you’ll have your turn will take a long, long time, it will be enjoyable and a net value add to your life.

scarmine34 · 2019-09-17T00:12:07+00:00

I don't know if my wife's n count is less than 3 because we've never really talked about it. I've made a point of not caring, but from the few discussions we have had about her life and her past boyfriends I think it is less than 3.

She is 100% faithful. She isn't interested in going out an partying on her own/with her friends/without me. She isn't a big drinker, she likes to be at home with me.

She has also made a point that cheating is a really, really big deal for her, so there's that as well.

So - my experience for what it is worth is that the low n count matters. But - it may also be more like the personality type that results in a low n count is less likely to cheat anyway...

coinbaserep · 2019-09-17T00:47:09+00:00

I’ve been together with my wife 18 years. She’s 38 , Takes care of our 2 children is a great wife , takes care of the house. Her family is her life. She spends 100% of her time with me and the kids.

She has no obiters , no Social Media , and really is not into gno or other games

Found out that she was on the carousel during 2 years of university.

Never had a real boyfriend before I met her.

Idgaf. I bring that inner slut out of her often and enjoy treating her as such.

She had her fun so it’s unlikely she will want to experience it again and risk it all. But if she does. It was just my turn

red-sfpplus · 2019-09-17T00:42:53+00:00

Eat their ass.

Do they flinch?

Does it gape a little when you open her cheeks?

If so, you have a high N-count whore.

I have fucked em all buddy. It doesn’t matter.

I personally like to anal train my girls. That is the virginity you wanna take from them.

A high N count college gal can pair bond just as easily as a virgin with the right man.

A high N count MILF? When was she high count? College? See above.

I personally believe, in my age bracket what is most important is her N count post Divorce.

She a ho post divorce?

Not LTR material in my book.

A 35 year old grown ass woman shouldn’t be hoping on a bunch of dicks if she wants a HVM.

Who am I to judge what she did in her 20’s?

It doesn’t matter.

Rogue68486 · 2019-09-17T01:58:15+00:00

Hot crazy chick = high N count

Comes with the territory bud

JameisBong · 2019-09-17T02:17:34+00:00

Define your boundaries early and enforce them ruthlessly... that's the only method that works. Be high enough value and maintain your abundance always. If he N count is 1000 she still won't want to lose you if you are the highest value man she can lock at whatever stage of life she's at.

Big_Daddy_PDX · 2019-09-17T05:22:13+00:00

Most of us that are RP don’t fucking care enough to ask about it.

SorcererKing · 2019-09-18T20:27:54+00:00

harder to be with and more likely to cheat.

This is greatly over-simplified. Ideas like "high-n" as a proxy to bad behavior or disloyalty may have some strong correlation, but the relationship there is complex. I think this rule was concocted by butthurt guys envious at how easily women can get laid.

Would you say a woman who is 60 years old and has an n of 3 was promiscuous? How about a 16-year old who has only been sexually active for a month? Now you're beginning to see an important idea: rates. Rates are events per unit time (new dicks/year), and they are the appropriate measure for almost everything. When TRP talks bout n-count, it is almost always assuming a very young girl.

The trick then becomes to understand what is a high rate in general. Is sleeping with, on average, 4 new men per year too high for you? How about 3? 1 new guy every 5 years? You'll soon realize you have no good answers because the whole exercise is fucking retarded.

So wut do instead? What you really want to see are things like:

Did the girl have two parents at home or is she the product of divorce?
Does she have a similar SES and upbringing to you (supposing yours are good)?
How does she act in public?
What sort of company does she keep?
What are her stated goals and values for the future?
What does she do with social media? Attention-seeking or just interacting with friends?

What you're looking for is indicators of low self-esteem/narcissism and/or nihilism. The girl who will fuck your best friend while you're out buying smokes is the one who is secretly so insecure that she has to see if every man wants her. (If you're involved with one like that, it isn't about you at all and you should get out.)

If you meet a girl at a party, and she is wasted, kissing other girls, flirting with all the guys -- what do you think she's looking for? A White Knight to "save" her, or a good time? Are you willing to be that good time? Good, go to it. But don't expect that to be girlfriend material. That is a woman reveling in her sexual power; you have nothing to offer her other than the good time.

So if you're serious about having a woman in your life for the long haul (remember: don't sign marriage paperwork), you have to vet on real things, not on trite little rules. And know that in the end, all the vetting in the world can't guarantee that bad things won't happen; it can only rule out ones that are obviously troublesome right now.

Imaginary_Historian · 2019-09-17T17:24:21+00:00

I think the only time there is a problem would be if a high-n-count girl wants to be a born-again prude and go back to vanilla sex when you know she's done all manner of crazy shit with chads. This is especially bad if it's your wife trying to be a "good girl" only with you.

I had a girl try that with me last year. I knew she was high-n but she wanted to "take it slow" with me so I soft-nexted her. That turned things right back around and I got to have my way with her six ways from Sunday the next time we met. I hard-nexted her after that.

skuttt · 2019-09-20T01:00:09+00:00

Yeah it fucking matters. Ignore the people saying it doesn’t. Alpha widow syndrome is real. It means she probably has an alpha in her past that fucked her great and she will always compare you to that.

You have to be better.

My wife has an n count of 30. I am 29 on that list (blue pill period). Her widow is 24.

The thing about it is: she’s a great fuck. She learned how to open up. She knows what she wants. She learned how to come easily and make me love the act. How to act.

I’d rather have great sex because she has experience than mediocre starfish sex with a noob.

But I have to be better, to make her never think of the other experiences she’s had.

You have to be the best.

Once you’re the best you don’t give a shit about her previous lovers and she doesn’t either.

Goobergus_Gubbins · 2019-09-20T11:25:48+00:00

Wife and I n=1. Together for 30 years. 95% of standard RP strategy still applies. AWALT and hypergamy still apply. Perhaps easier in some ways, but you still have to do the work.

maljo24 · 2019-09-17T01:51:24+00:00

N count is the least important characteristic of a person. Don't ask, don't tell.

Title	High n count
Author	JungleBeanr
Upvotes	4
Comments	57
Date	September 17, 2019 12:03 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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