im sure i'll get some hate in here..but I've seen some relatively drastic improvements in my LTR since the start of 2017 . not really sure whats causing it though. is it me just keeping a frame and trying to stay in it ? or is it something organically happening?

So flash back to Christmas and New Years .. LTR was "sick" for Christmas.. but we still ended up doing what we had planned. New Years , I had wanted to go out , but we were unable to make something happen , and had a sick 3 year old.. so in the end we stayed home. a week later the LTR was Sick again , this time for real , took a week out of work to get better , but by the Thursday of that week I got a text from her " I need your cock now" which is totally unlike her for the past 5 years.. I haven't gotten a semi dirty text like that. we ended up having sex 2 of the 3 nights that weekend, a definite change of twice a month.

Last Friday the LTR has her usual issue with figuring out what she wants to eat ,after I made dinner for the kids and myself ( she chose not to eat that) we do this for a few hours.. I generally kept to myself didn't say much ,and told her if she decides , I can make something. she ends up getting pissed about dishes not being done... has a fit , and goes to bed early. I stay up for a bit to relax , and then head to bed.

a few weeks ago , my LTR's friend and her husband asked to go to the shooting range. so I setup a trip for last Saturday with my LTR and the other couple , along with my dad ( who has the guns and club membership) initially the LTR kept saying she'll stay home , watch the kids, (but never outright saying she doesn't want to go ) etc.. but in the end ,I took care of finding sitters and she went , and we all had a good time. Me the LTR and her oldest son went out for dinner and a movie after , we talked about shooting and stuff the whole 90 min ride home, got home pretty late.. nothing happened that night, we both crashed

Super Sunday comes , and I'm running around all day. getting errands done , and she's home doing house stuff. sit down to watch the game.. and by the end we watched the Patriots stage that comeback and even the girl was into it. around the 3rd quarter she says to me.. lets go have a quickie... but it didn't work.. 3 year old wasn't asleep yet... soon as we drive in that TD for the win , she again says she wants the D right now.. so we head to the bedroom lights on and everything , and do the deed.. very out of character for her.. for the last 5 years anyway. then we went back and enjoyed the rest of the post-game patriots coverage.

so yea.. not sure what's causing it ? I like it , but always in the back of my mind is a concern as to why she's all of a sudden into it.

one other thing that may be in play here.. her GYN changed her BC pill to something new.. I think its the " mini-pill" so it just has one horomone I think it has no estrogen , or androgen.. possibly increasing her libido to where it used to be??

I've been trying my best to hold frame.. let her do her rage, but not really reacting to it externally , trying to amp up the fun and sexual vibe with her.. but that is still a work in progress. also trying to own shit in the house better.. doing my share , but trying to enforce that she needs to step up as well , I cook dinner ~4 nights a week , I expect that she can at least handle the dishes.