Hi gents, not sure if this is the right area to ask, but I'll give it a shot.

Currently happily married for 8yrs, no kids yet. We're both in our early 30s. Good jobs, family, decently looking. We're been having threesomes for the last 4yrs. 1-2 times annually when we're overseas with hookers and such. We do it to diversify the sex life, treating it as a couple's activity. Mrs has no interest in trying MMF as she was a virgin when we met.

My question is, how do I go about finding, flirting, sealing the deal with girls to join us? Would rather a few semi regular non pros.

My work persona is quite friendly and professional, and I'm not keen on going with colleagues. Could turn quite unpleasant. Mrs work is not conducive for picking up either. We're not clubby/party sorts so don't come across many of those types.

I had a quick search of the subreddit and found warnings against threesomes due to jealousy and such. Our relationship is very strong so there is 0 risk in that department. The Mrs is very confident of her looks and intelligence. She totally gets that these chicks are just playthings. Once they perfect sex bots, we won't need to bother with hunting.

Appreciate your input!