My wife was a bit distant yesterday and today, but it was probably due to her being busy at work. I briefly saw her this morning before work and she texted me that she made it to work safe (as she always does). I told her I love her and to have a good day. She said love you too.

She mentioned she was visiting a female friend of hers after work so they can catch up; it’s been about 3 months since they last saw each other. Okay cool, have fun.

We went the entire day without a single text.

She finally texted me at 9:30 saying that she was leaving soon. I said, okay cya in a bit.

She came home, was happy to see me and our dog. Took a quick shower and got into bed. I knew that her and her friend had a bit of wine.. I could smell it on her. She actually came to my side and cuddled with me a bit and we kissed for a little. I Kino’d for a bit and I sarcastically/jokingly said about how rough my day was cuz I missed her so much. She laughed and cuddled into me more.

We kissed a bit more and I figured I would make a move. I started talking a bit dirty to her and although she was into it, she rejected me; she said she had a rough day and was tired. I said, well let me help you destress a bit by eating that tight little p*ssy. She then proceeded to rapid fire about how awful her day at work was and how she wouldn’t be less stressed if we had sex because all she can think about is work. It completely ruined the vibe.

She asked if I wanted to spoon her, which I initially did, but it wasn’t comfy. I kissed her, rolled over and said good night.

She put on headphones to listen to meditation.

I laid in bed for like 5 min or so. I’m wasn’t tired. I got up to go into my office and she asked what was wrong. I said nothing babe, just not tired yet. I’m gunna work a bit more.

Not sure if I handled this interaction correctly. I’m truly not butt hurt as this is something I’m trying to hyper focus on and avoid doing. I’m really trying to handle rejection better.