So yesterday my wife gets home and nearly immediately lashes out at my son, I might add cruelly. Obviously this was wrong of her. She had a frustrating day at work, or let me put it this way, she found it stressful. As nicely as possible, I advised her to be more respectful, to which she didn't outright agree with but at least ceased, to her credit.

Later on in the evening we discussed the problems she's having with her new job. It's been sort of an habitual thing recently which crossed over from her previous work place. She moved to this company about two months ago, because the the last one was adding was stress to her life. It's like on repeat it seems. Obviously, I've been observing something of a pattern.

This was my suggestion: she either get a sort of part time job, or just stay at home. My job is easy as hell so I'm willing to pick up as much over time as needed to make it work, meanwhile cutting back on a lot of 'discretionary' spending. This wouldn't be terrible for me either, since in such case I wouldn't need to do anything at all around the house to pull my weight.

Mainly though, it would be better for everybody in the family. It's just not good for anybody when she comes home in a bad mood talking shitty to people and all that. We have four kids together and she does almost of the scheduling and organizing of everything which is a major job itself. In my opinion, these things should be her main focus. She happens to agree, for what it's worth.

After and during this conversation, I'm here and there touching her butt, hugging her, and pressing my boner against her and all this kind of stuff. I probably could have banged her at the time but we had a lot of shit going on, football practice, karate, school orientation, whatever. But I had to sleep tho too for the graveyard shift I'm currently working at the moment lol. I suggested I can make dinner while she does the running around, but she can wake me up before work, if you know what I mean.

Ends up she doesn't get me to rise, if you get what I'm saying. In the past I would have been quite angry about it, but somehow I'm not upset right now. Oddly enough, I give credit to lurking here and trying to apply some red pill concepts to my life. I'm sure in the opinion of some, this marks notable simp behavior. Here I am agreeing to work overtime so she can stay home, meanwhile I don't even get laid.

Hear me out tho. The most important thing about life in general, from what I've read at MRP so far, is maintaining frame. I think a lot of red pillers would argue I lived in my wife's frame last night. So here's my question: shouldn't a man's wife, and by extension his family, be his frame?