LTR and I are having a main event. She left yesterday to go to her moms house.

She was originally going to break up with me but I talked her down from it. Regardless, she still left saying she needed to leave for a couple of days. I could have probably gotten her to stay but I needed a break too. We fucked three times before she left. I dropped her off at her moms after. We are both 28 years old. Both been married before. Have a great sex life.

Since she left I've been making the most of my day. I've straightened up around the house, arranging things to my liking, even moving some of her belongings. I've been busting through paperwork I've been putting off. I've made a to do list of important things I need to do this upcoming week. I'm about to go running shirtless and prepare for an upcoming fitness test I have as part of my employment. I'm going to enjoy it.

I really like this girl. We've been dating for about a year and a half now. I've been Red pill aware for about seven years. I have had a lot of experiences as a red pill man and I feel like we have a lot of potential here for a really good long term relationship. I think she is an excellent candidate for an LTR but there are definitely things she is lacking/ not doing. Throughout my time with RP I have elevated myself from a fat slob into a fit man who gets IOI's daily. Blushing, etc.

There's only a couple of things I don't like about her and I'm going to have to figure out if it will end the relationship for me and it sucks because there's a lot of potential. She checks many of the boxes an RP man would expect from a LTR but she has typical female behavior which I've never liked. She is very nurturing towards me, supportive, loving, and she enthusiastically does whatever I want in the bedroom. I'm trying to decide if my frustrations with her are something I will have to get over because I am under the impression from her that she isn't going to be changing it. I also don't know if my expectations are realistic as I will talk about below.

I could break up with her if I had to. I've basically been living today as if we did break up. I will also live tomorrow as if we did break up etc. etc. until she comes back or even if she comes back.

But I really don't want to. I'd rather improve myself as a man and stay with her and I feel like her reasons for leaving were semi legitimate. I lashed out at her yesterday when I came home. She was behaving shittily and I told her to get out of our room. She said she was moving out. The next day I lost it when she was moving her stuff out. I said things just to hurt her and I said things that I will regret and have to pay for if we continue.

In my defense, I've been pulling all the weight in the relationship and I've been stressed out lately. I've been having little tolerance for disrespect and shitty attitudes. I'm struggling with getting her to do the things I want, as often as I want, and I'm having an internal battle of whether or not I'm expecting too much. For example, I feel like I am having to pull much more weight around the house than I should have to like doing the dishes every day.

I'v been working on a big project that's going to set me up with a life long career and these past 6 months have been really hard for us. It is all coming together though and my efforts are set to pay off in about two weeks. It's funny because in my experience, relationships with women always hit rock bottom during a time like this. A time where it seems like the ship is going the roughest but the pay off is right around the corner, they always try to bail. I think women are scared of change and in the past I haven't been able to keep girls during these times. I think they try to break things off so they can evaulate and explore their options as much as we hate it.

Her and I have a lot going on. We're about to move. I've had huge things happening at work. There are side projects I'm working on. I have a solid plan and I'm taking care of it but to her it probably seems like things are out of control.

I really want her to stick around. What I've been working on is huge. There will be many good things coming her way. A lot of opportunities for her to improve her own life that she would never have elsewhere. I think it says a lot about the strength of our relationship that things have been as chaotic as they have been but we've still stayed together and our problems are as minor as they are. I really want her to stick with me because our lives are going to be radically different and I could provide so many opportunities for her. Opportunities she and I have never had.

Anyway, here's my worthless question.

I have been no contact with her all day and she just texted me asking me a question related to my work. I feel RP would recommend ignoring it but I'm wondering what the consequences of that might be? Is there some legitimate emotional need she has right now or is it typical women probing, trying to see if I'll cave in and be her beta?

I'm probably going to ignore it. I don't really feel it's important but I want to make sure I'm not missing something here.

Thank you for your time.

Also, In regards to her behavior during the event. She was crying, saying she didn't want to leave. She loves me. She doesn't think it will work in the long run. What we had was good, perfect at times. She seemed like she'll give this one more chance. I'm hoping she will give it one more chance.