So I posted this

And after reading what most of you guys told me. I took some time to gather my thoughts on what I really wanted. She had been upset for the day after. I kind of gave her space until I realized how I wanted to handle this.

I came home the following day. And she was still acting weird as expect. Texting me telling me she was going for walks and stuff.

I told her Look it was a hard issue that I brought up before I had gather my thoughts completely on it. I wasn’t trying to hurt her or punish her I just wanted to honest with her on how I felt.

After some back and forth I didn’t change my mind I told her look I love you. I want to be with you but I know there will come a time when I am going to want to get sex else where. It’s just how I am. That I still will only be with her and nothing will change. But it’s going to happen and it’s up to her to either be okay with it. Or we needed to part ways.

I could tell she was trying to wrap her head around it. Throwing all kinds of “just don’t do it” “you need to go talk to someone” “who wants to do that type of stuff” “that isn’t love” yadda yadda

Again I told her I understand this must be difficult for her to hear or wrap her heard around but I love her. Still want to be with her. But that’s how it’s going to have to be.

She didn’t say much after. She was clearly upset. I gave her a chance to breathe and think a little and then I went over to her and started to kiss her. Hug her. Tell her I love her and got her laughing. After not only did we have awesome sex. She let me fuck her in the ass which I have never done! (Have tried but it usually hurts her and we stop. This time all the way. Even came in there).

The next day I come home from work. And I bring It up one last time because I didn’t get an answer to what she wanted to do from here.

She told me. I don’t want to talk about it again till it happens.

Woah! I think she is starting to accept this. Has my dream come true? (I knew she views me as such high value that there might be a slight chance she would agree but I wasn’t sure because I knew it was something she had been told her whole life is wrong.)

I say so when it happens are you expecting me to tell you?

She said YES! I said no. Bc You don’t want to know. Smacked her ass and left it at that.

So for you guys who have more experience with this type of relationship with your wives. Do I tell her when it happens or just shut up about it? If she finds out how do I handle this? Is there still a need to deny deny deny, or not? Are there other things I should be enforcing or looking out for here?