5' 6 Senior in highschool

Unboundaries · 2019-06-23T06:15:12+00:00

In high school it's all status, nothing to do with height. If you play football they couldn't give a damn about your height. Likewise, you could be me, 6 foot something, and still get nothing because the girls in high school were all brain dead, and this was even before all the social media tinder shit that exists today

wanker7171 · 2019-06-23T06:44:40+00:00

How do I find success with shallow teenage girls with my short height? I would appreciate it if someone who is also short and has found success with girls to comment and help me out.

The best ladies' man I know is your height and he slayed in high school too because he's a natural. Hell even my ex from high school essentially begged him to fuck her a year or so ago.

Looks only help you get in the door. Height isn't nearly as important as style and your physique. Although again looks only help get you in the door, because it's easy for a girl to think Daniel Craig is a badass like James Bond because he looks like James Bond. It's harder for her to look at an overweight guy playing pokemon on his gameboy and think "That guy is probably super cocky and fun"

The hotter you look the more easily girls will lend you their time but if your game and frame suck than they'll quickly disappear. Focus more on your game and not your height, it's not limiting you as much as you're making yourself believe

TheGoblinTurkey · 2019-06-23T09:49:39+00:00

Get flirty with every girl in school. Let them see you flirt with other girls.

Once word gets out that Stacy caught you talking to Christine, when you were bowling with Karen the night before, every girl you know will be after you.

Jealously is a powerful thing.

thepervypumpkin · 2019-06-23T13:06:57+00:00

Get shredded I am 19 and 5 feet 7

Because I am above average in terms of my physique I have no issues with my height.

Women don't want men around them who are insecure. Start lifting and you confidence will skyrocket which in turn will decrease your height insecurities

Good luck g

dj1041 · 2019-06-23T07:09:27+00:00

jeff is a Canadian body builder and he's 5'6 I think and he would have no problem pulling if he was single

tacopower20 · 2019-06-23T14:03:03+00:00

I’m 5’5” on my best day. It’s never been an issue. My LTR is a very attractive 5’7” blonde.

JyoungPNG · 2019-06-23T14:35:33+00:00

If you’re fit and you develop style (good haircut, clothes), you can get your foot in the door by simply talking to girls. Be charming and cunning. Always remain mysterious. Invite them to talk about themselves and attempt fractionation, ask them about something that made them terribly sad, and then about something that made them incredibly happy. The cyclical nature of their emotions will allow them to build a connection with you. After you have established an attachment, withdraw, but not too much or too early. Retain a frame of mystery, masculinity, and charm. And never, ever, laugh at your own jokes. If you don’t already have a strong social group, try to associate with the guys who hang around the hot chicks. Also, search for underrated dimes. Too often the “popular” guys will overlook some of the feminine dimes in your grade. Pounce on this opportunity and demonstrate that you’re the prize. This is exactly what I did senior year. Before senior year, I was an absolute beta nerd but once I built up my masculinity and started openly charming girl, I attracted a crowd of guys and girls alike.

masterpiece00 · 2019-06-23T09:03:25+00:00

The girls your age will be fucking people in their 20's/30's, focus on school until you build yourself up.

five_eight · 2019-06-23T12:10:17+00:00

Social proof and pre-selection...are much harder to beat in the high school environment. But after you graduate and move on start making the scene with an attractive woman. Otherwise you're paddling upstream/invisible.

RealMisogynist · 2019-06-23T12:35:29+00:00

How do I find success with shallow teenage girls with my short height?

None of what's on the sidebar or this or the main sub-reddit depends on you being a certain height. The answers are the same for people who are taller or shorter than you.

papertowelfreethrow · 2019-06-23T21:55:31+00:00

What helped me was definitely developing game and frame. I didn’t start working out till college and was pretty small in high school but I still gotten attention from girls but never acted on it because of self esteem issues and social anxiety.

In college I found trp and started lifting but still struggled. It wasn’t until I put myself in situations where i had to be responsible for my actions. I joined clubs and eventually got a leadership position. This gave me goals to achieve as well as social proof. I read some books that changed my mindset around sex, women, all around social interaction.

Some things I read were: The book of Pook

Sex god method

How to win friends and influence people

Stoicism books like meditations

Also did: Actual meditation

Rereading the sidebar a lot

Listened to the black Phillip show

Watched a lot of old rsd videos

Got my fitness up by read and applied starting strength as a foundation to lifting. Study becoming a supple leopard by kelly starret

And practiced cold approaching and talking to everyone without trying to get anything out of them.

A quote said in an rsd video that resonated with me regarding social interactions,

“How would you act if you were trying to get $100 dollars from someone? Now how would you act if you were trying to give someone a $100?” aka leeching value vs giving value

Edit: formatting

acp_rdit · 2019-06-23T14:17:58+00:00

I can guarantee you that there are girls there that are into you, but you might be overlooking them because they aren't the prettiest ones that catch your attention.

Also don't discount girls taller than you. The percentages might be low but they aren't zero so don't let your biases deny you wins.

TheRealShafron · 2019-06-23T15:13:17+00:00

My room mates/friends in college are fairly short themselves and they have no problem getting laid. It's all about how you present yourself, being fit, dressing nice, and having a good social reputation/being confident with the way you talk and walk.

HastaPronto90 · 2019-06-23T17:18:59+00:00

Height is a factor, but not the only one! If it's about girls, most want same height or up. At 5'6 there should be a lot of options. I am from Germany, average height here is 5'10 or 5'11 and I still see shorter guys with girls hand in hand. Wear sneakers or boots with high soles + 1' lifts and you are fine. How old are you exactly? If your growth plates aren't closed you could squeeze out some more height with HGH, Mk677 or other GHRPs.

Cheers

alphatom63 · 2019-06-23T15:15:10+00:00

Height is overrated in the sex/relationships scene. Get in the gym and work your butt off. I am 21 and I am like 5' 5 if not 5' 4, but I workout like crazy and eat chicken, broccoli, and rice everyday for each meal.

There are a bunch of girls who say they won't date anybody under 6 ft tall, that is until they see a short guy with boulder shoulders and a nice wide chest.

Don't let this natural thing get you unconfident, you just have to try extra hard to make up for it in the weight room.

caralto · 2019-06-23T12:54:54+00:00

stop thinking about ya height, be rich, talk to a girl :P

boy_named_su · 2019-06-23T19:57:48+00:00

Talk to your doctor about human growth hormone to see if you can get taller

beardestbird · 2019-06-23T20:02:20+00:00

I’ve seen a recent alpha male strategies video on YouTube where he talked about how a short guy got more girls than everyone in his school. I’ve also seen it in my school.

Height seems to be a factor but not the end all be all. If your game is right and you have good status then you can get plenty of women. Obviously lift too

UpperRedSide · 2019-06-23T21:01:03+00:00

Height is not as much of a thing as you think it is.

An old friend of mine was 5’5” and got all kinds of pussy in high school. He was on the football team and was jacked. He was also black and got with girls from any race.

Girls in high school want to feel important. Dating someone important makes them feel important.

So, status. Not height. Height helps, but it doesn’t do half as much as you think it does.

Aymane221 · 2019-06-23T23:23:26+00:00

Kid in my hs was 5’9 and slayed the most chicks. He was pre selected early as hell in like 5th grade

WalterHuey · 2019-06-23T15:41:22+00:00

I am 5'4 ripped. I would say this, all chick say they want a tall guy, some chick cannot date a short guy. So the truth is, height does matter, you just need to find a chick that is okay with your height, in my experience, as long as they are shorter or equally height as you it does not matter. But some short chick want a tall guy, than you just need to accept it. Hence the dating pool for short guys are much smaller than if you're tall.

Title	5' 6 Senior in highschool
Author	theparadoxapple
Upvotes	31
Comments	71
Date	June 23, 2019 6:12 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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