AWALT. Forever.

MattyAnon · 2016-12-05T23:18:07+00:00

All gone

This is the problem with investing in a relationship with a woman. While you're investing, she's cashing out (either now or in the future). You become a stepping stone for her ambitions.

Don't do it. Don't give them the commitment to destroy you. Always focus on you, and assume that she could leave tomorrow.

Every single day, think "if this ended tomorrow, would I be ok with it or would I feel hard done by? What's my plan B if this ends tomorrow?"

Because one tomorrow it will end, and you probably won't see it coming.

amekooky · 2016-12-05T21:53:38+00:00

strive to be the prize, until then just plate women... i've been where you're at and its a damn shitty feeling. no contact (like seriously no contact) and time. until then fight the good fight

Retspihi · 2016-12-05T22:11:26+00:00

This doesn't just happen overnight.

You ignored hints, things she said, has done. She has been dying to fuck someone for a long time. It's not a matter of waking up to some dick. She wanted to do this.

SquireAshyen · 2016-12-05T23:27:51+00:00

Happened to me too. 2 years and she sleeps with a "friend" in less than a week. It gets better with time dude keep yourself busy no matter what. It's been 2 months and I still struggle. I'm Here If You Need To talk

loveydovey2121 · 2016-12-05T22:52:34+00:00

You'll get through this my dude. I know it sucks. But yes, AWALT. Now you are free to focus on yourself. Turn yourself into a mother fuckin warlord and when the ladies start pouring in, make sure you don't invest much feelings into your next LTR, but invest your sexual energy instead. Your LTR should have to change panties 3 times a day because she gets wet everytime she sees you.

Snooze212 · 2016-12-05T23:11:01+00:00

Remember: It's all a game. You LOST, she PLAYED you like a fiddle. She OUTPLAYED you. You have to accept that and look at it constructively, see where YOU went wrong, see which battles you both fought and she won, and see how you can beat your next opponent (GF, plate, whatever).

I was in your position, and the only way I felt better about it was that I had a level of control and looking back I fucked up A LOT. Now I look back and think 'she played me well, if I ever saw her again I'd shake her fucking hand and wish her well' and that actually made me feel like a man because I accepted defeat and moved on and now I'm slowly but surely getting back in the game and enjoying it a hell of a lot. Don't hate her, that's the WORST thing you can do. Accept she is just a woman and she's doing what women do, it's not right or wrong, it's nature. Generally women play the game better than most guys. She played the game better than you, don't be a sore loser and move on to the next game.

You really think the game stops when you first have sex with a girl? Oh no, friend. People who are still married after 50 years are STILL playing the fucking game, at this point the husband has been fucking trampled but is still in it for some stupid reason, but it never ends, soldier.

It's a long road - a grind - but always fight the good fight.

hibloodstevia · 2016-12-06T00:21:57+00:00

How did you find out?

MrSnarf26 · 2016-12-06T04:16:52+00:00

More dads need to tell their sons that this is just part of becoming a man. Been there dude, it sucks. Love women for what they are, but next time, be ready to live your own life if she wants someone else one day.

kendallb183 · 2016-12-06T05:39:17+00:00

How did you find out?

squirestrat · 2016-12-06T10:46:06+00:00

I'm sorry to hear you're hurting. Don't ever forget this feeling. Here's a little song to cheer you up.

Shit Luck

omega_dawg93 · 2016-12-07T20:21:35+00:00

"if you turn an opportunity (pussy) down... you will die some opportunities (pussy) short."

or as my crazy uncle says, "fuck first, think later."

TehJimmyy · 2016-12-06T08:28:05+00:00

Wanna hear something funny ? I was walking down the street after gym yesterday night i see a "couple" at my age ( 19 ) . They look at me for a moment and they start kinoing kissing in middle of street. I am like okay thats nice , i could clearly see the girl tingles . They grabbed their hands and moved hapilly the street. When they stopped again the girl turned around and looked at me with the obvious look you could see. Her face was screaming "you look interesting , help me get out of this " even she was having the tinggles.

I giggled when we made eye contact with her BF next. I prefer my squats and HIIT cardio more than those hoes who operate on feels that change in 1 second.

Title	AWALT. Forever.
Author	AWaltforever
Upvotes	45
Comments	55
Date	December 5, 2016 9:45 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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