Can't Read My Ex Girlfriend

fnordsnord · 2016-12-16T22:10:33+00:00

Stop talking to this girl.

Terdmuffin · 2016-12-16T17:48:59+00:00

She's just using you for validation. Not sure why you're wasting time with this one.

redisthecoldestcolor · 2016-12-16T17:55:57+00:00

Obviously you're dead the fuck on - her biological programming tells her to be with you, her religious programming tells her to be with a religious man, and she's conflicted between the two.

The real question is why the fuck are you bothering with one girl when you have abundance. Did you somehow get oneitis for her?

Also, check FAQ and see rule 3.

StoicPower · 2016-12-16T18:40:28+00:00

She's definitely attracted to you but because of her religion, doesn't see you as a long term prospect. Plus you told her you're not interested in marriage - she is.

You're not doing anything wrong except meeting up and bantering with your ex in the first place. One-itis blows - I've been there, but you have different long term goals and changing your values just for her would be weak.

By pursuing her you give her attention and validation that won't get you anywhere. It makes it look like you don't have options.

Let her go and do what you need to get her out of your system.

Sweedie · 2016-12-16T18:43:36+00:00

She likes you but she feels she can't be with you because you're not Catholic and not the "good" guy she's supposed to be with. She feels guilty and/or conflicted about cheating on her boyfriend (emotionally at least) so she's trying to distance herself from you for that reason.

Yashugan00 · 2016-12-16T18:46:39+00:00

Dude, waaay too much text for an ex. Who cares about an ex.

redditereddit · 2016-12-16T19:26:56+00:00

Hard next. Enough said.

onmyownpath · 2016-12-16T20:19:17+00:00

Block ex's from texting you. /ignore

zboo1h · 2016-12-17T00:57:37+00:00

Why the fuck would you want to read something covered in another guy's cum?

ThatKassiusGuy · 2016-12-17T01:20:01+00:00

Stop talking to her. Block her number, email, whatever you have to do.

Trust me, there are girls out there that won't fuck you around as this one is doing. So why bother with this one?

lanky32 · 2016-12-17T03:17:46+00:00

You are completely in her frame, mate. You will get nothing out of interacting with her. She will not get back with you.

She is using you only for validation (because his current bf is 1000 miles away). She has no intention of getting back with you.

Her constant hot and cold behaviour will completely fuck your mind (if it hasn't already)

Women who are interested in you don't play hot and cold. They may put up some token resistance here and there but that is not the case here.

"hey, have I ruined our relationship again?

What is this shit? A man never asks a woman about relationship status and stuff. It's the woman's job.

You are above average looking, do yourself a favour and get on with other girls. Stay away from her because this 'innocent' Christian girl is going to fuck your mind pretty badly.

lostinyukon · 2016-12-17T03:37:17+00:00

This is classic oneitis. Every minute you waste thinking about this ex-gf, you arent imrpoving yourself or focusing the the next girls you will date. A lot of us are guilty of this.(myself included) She's your ex for a reason, dont forget that. And right now shes using you.

Title	Can't Read My Ex Girlfriend
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Date	December 16, 2016 5:41 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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