Does anyone else mentally shut down after ejaculating?

rougeoblong · 2018-05-28T17:37:57+00:00

I feel shut down after jerking to porn. After sex, I feel recharged.

Fuknmods · 2018-05-28T16:03:04+00:00

i dont get it, i fuck whores to bust a nut and once i bust a nut i lose all interest in the human cum receptacle ive finished using

Yeah, its truly a fucking mystery. Ever consider endless hedonism just isnt for you? Some people can do it but it doesnt seem like its the lifestyle for you.

clint_bronson · 2018-05-28T19:27:17+00:00

CUmming is like commiting a murder, you've got a naked body lying in your bed and you're thinking how to get rid of it.

4TBhdd · 2018-05-28T18:21:20+00:00

Prolactin. Google it.

Cabergoline. Google that too.

milkky_ · 2018-05-28T17:33:04+00:00

are you neurotic? guilt issues? ocd? did your mother spank you as a kid? not being sarcastic.

HiredMind · 2018-05-28T19:45:06+00:00

Sounds to me that you're pursuing women that you don't like/respect/enjoy/etc, and only having sex in response to the chemical urge to procreate. So once you've done that, the urge vanishes, and you're left in bed with someone you don't like.

So start pursuing women who you really like - just don't get attached to them.

[deleted] · 2018-05-28T18:21:01+00:00

Relax... this is called 'post-coital remorse' and it is totally normal and natural. You can either accept it and endure it or you can wait for that first magical bitch to come along who you don't want to kick out of bed as soon as you bust - they are out there, but you could be waiting along time.

Here is a coping strategy... as soon as you pop, start cooking something in the kitchen (hers or yours) - it occupies your mind, makes you look like a hero and gets you out of your own way until your perspective on pussy realigns.

godismymentor · 2018-05-29T00:34:26+00:00

Fucking heck man. I get this exact same shit. I could never smoke I’d get way too deep and no way could I smoke with friends they would weird me out. I also lose everything after I nut. Hopefully we can find the answer haha.

mooksterr · 2018-05-28T23:23:49+00:00

Going to have to agree with /u/hiredmind. As someone whose been fucking tinder thots the past year, I can definitely relate to that feeling of wanting to get out of there/acting weird. Bang chicks that you get along with, ones you find funny or have some sort of connection. Doesn't have to be oneitis, but rather chicks you're proud to bang and hang with. Makes a huge huge huge difference vs. the free digital prostitution that tinder has become

RedPilledRoaster · 2018-05-28T17:07:42+00:00

No. Get your T checked.

cglehosit · 2018-05-28T18:15:11+00:00

Yes, I feel that way often after having sex with girls I haven't known for a time. I do not smoke weed. It takes about 3 months of time with the girl for me to not feel that way after sex.

Peter_B_Long · 2018-05-28T19:30:43+00:00

Are they ONS? After I have sex with a girl for the first time I usually don't feel anything after. I'll kick them out and send a text saying I had a great time but I don't really mean it

With plates it's different. After I get a liiiittle emotional attachment (not oneitis) but after I start to actually give a fuck about her, sex is so much better and I feel really good after

ScandalmongeringAim · 2018-05-28T20:18:52+00:00

"The brain and the sexual organs are the great rivals in using up bodily energy, and there is an antagonism between extreme brain vigor and extreme sexual vigor, even though they may sometimes appear at different periods in the same individual. In this sense, there is no paradox in the saying of Roman Correa that potency is impotency and impotency potency, for a high degree of energy, whether in athletics or in intellect, is unfavorable to the display of energy in other directions.... The masters of all the more intensely emotional arts have frequently cultivated a high degree of chastity. This is notably the case as regards music. One thinks of Mozart, of Beethoven, of Shubert. At the age of twenty-five, when he had already produced much fine work, Mozart wrote in a letter that he had never touched a woman."

andtoc · 2018-05-28T21:32:35+00:00

Take a look at this:

https://blog.bulletproof.com/bulletproof-your-sex-life/

dtree47 · 2018-05-29T05:11:07+00:00

Like Wayne said “but when I cum its like I come to my senses.” I’ve definitely felt this way but only when it’s average or below average girls that I only banged cus I was horny as fuck.

Just don’t let your dick trick you into lowering your standards and only fuck girls you’re genuinely attracted to and you wont feel this way as much.

Wrath_of_Trump · 2018-05-28T17:19:08+00:00

You have a mental mythology about sex crossing some sort of finish line where there's a greater reward. The tragedy of life is there is no such finish line for any thing you do. Women luck out, the act of hypergamy itself is rewarding in almost every way, it's why they are always ready to jump in.

It could also be that women off of dating apps are usually broken in some way and your "rational self" is trying to snap you into putting on your pants and walking out.

Moreofmore · 2018-05-28T16:16:16+00:00

There’s more to this story than just this. Partly normal to feel a down after the intense high, other part sounds like mental conditioning from something else. Any other things from your past or going on?

Morphs_ · 2018-05-28T21:57:35+00:00

Sounds like what most guys have with porn. Disgust immediately afterwards.

Could be that for you the association between porn and sex is the same. Do you watch a lot of porn?

mrwalterwhite694 · 2018-05-29T10:59:02+00:00

Its probably because you are just using them for sex, i feel the same way when i have sex with girls that i am not interested in their conversations or company, its strictly sex.

beginner_ · 2018-05-28T16:59:41+00:00

Maybe because you weren't all that attracted to them? Up the challenge. Go for hotter women.

cl3537 · 2018-05-28T17:28:31+00:00

You are bottom feeding, shame on you.

Title	Does anyone else mentally shut down after ejaculating?
Author	swm43
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Date	May 28, 2018 3:58 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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