What’s good y’all. First time posting and I’m still kinda new to the “red pill”. Just got a quick question. So I have a ex who’s honestly my only LTR I ever had. We broke up last year (2018) and I’ve been on my self improvement journey. No bad blood between us, I broke up with her because being in a relationship was just annoying at the time.

So after I broke with her in July I actually tried to get back with her in like October (2018), she turned me down and I found out she had a dude she was messing with. I was kinda hurt only because I thought I had her wrapped around my finger and could get her whenever I wanted. So she suggested we could be friends and me being blue pilled I was like cool , until I realized she was using me as an emotional tampon, talking about her and her dudes problems. So I told her straight up like we not cool like that I don’t care about your relationship.So after that I learned about the red pill and what not, and i just went no contact. Being honest I still cared about her but I realized it was just my turn with her. She would text me or message me on Twitter every month asking how I was doing, saying she was thinking about me etc. I never replied this lasted every month until this Summer (2019) when she wished me happy birthday and asked when I would stop ignoring her. She actually asked if I wanted to hang out one time, but i literally didn’t see any message when she sent cause I do frequent social media cleanse.

My dumbass replied and started replying sometimes when she messaged me. Mind you I still have her on snap and Twitter (I don’t use often) so I noticed she has a new BF. So even though she has him she still would text me kinda flirty but she’s just flirty in general. I usually text back out of Bordem (I’m not gonna act like I don’t care about her, but it’s not how you think. Like I do but it’s not like a in my feelings type thing. It just is what it is). So last couple of weeks we actually been talking on the phone not really about anything, I try to flirt to see what she says and she usually just laughs. So I asked her if she wanted to kick it and she told me she was in a relationship. I said “cool, whenever you want to have a good time like we use too you know where I stay” she just laughed and said “she knows”. But basically she made it clear that’s she’s “happy we can be friends”

So for some reason after that she’s been snapping me a lot instead of texting, and we have hella messages save on snap from when we were together, nudes, lovey dovey shit y’all know how it is. So I’m assuming her bf must’ve seen this or something cause I go on snap one day and I see she unfriended me. This was about a month ago and she literally just texted me “Hey just thought about you hope you’re doing good like ik you are ☺️”

So I’m just wondering should I ignore her again or nah? Should I even try to pursue hitting those again or just leave it alone? Also did I handle the above situation well? Thanks bro’s just wanting to hear things from different perspectives