I had a plate (24F, HB9) for a couple of months before it broke.
She has serious daddy issues: she grew up in a poor country and her family is severely dysfunctional. Her father was always absent, and when he was home, he was abusive, violent and mean towards everyone. Never had good words for her. Never paid attention to her. On top of that, her older brother (2 years older) tried to kill her when they were teenagers (she still has horrible scars on certain parts of her body due to this incident), he always mistreated her, and nowadays he's an alcoholic, unemployed single father who still lives with their parents. Her mother is a really old school hardcore religious person who only calls her when she needs money.
Having said that, she is hot as fuck, and we had wild, mindblowing sex for a couple of months. Also note: she always initiated sex with a blowjob - she was always incredibly hungry for sucking and her skills were out of this world.
First date was easy as hell: we were making out 1 hour into the date, had a couple of drinks and ended up sleeping at my place, where we were horny as hell but didn't have sex due to her "anti-slut defense"; however, 2 days after our first date, she invited me over and we fucked wildly at her place. We fucked for 3 more weeks, then she went back to her ex for a month. During this month, she manipulated me via text into making me think that she loved me and missed me. 2 days after breaking up with him again and for good, my dick was in her mouth again. Incredible how easily replaceable and disposable us men are.
As much as she was beautiful, hot and good in bed, her personality fucking sucked. Some traits that I think are related to her daddy issues are:
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Relentless shit testing 24/7. Almost impossible to have a normal conversation with her.
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Erratic behavior. One day she'd tell me she loved me and she wanted to have kids with me, next day she'd be cold and aloof and acting bitchy.
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99% of her friends are guys. Her only female friend is her roommate (20F, HB8) who, on top of everything, is incredibly promiscuous.
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Has a shitty depressing job in an industry where men predominate.
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Shallow and superficial. Her only hobby is clubbing. 100% basic bitch, full of herself.
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Thirsty for male attention. She went on holiday on her own for 10 days. When she came back, she couldn't stop bragging about the effect she had on the men in that country. Absolutely arrogant and disrespectful.
I broke this plate because I found her behaviour to be exhausting and obnoxious. Also, she was starting to be less affectionate and I could sense that she was losing respect and attraction (probably because she sucked a dozen of dicks while on holiday, and I didn't fuck any other women because I was busy with work). I sent her a text to cut things off, and she easily agreed to stop seeing each other, but suggested to be just friends, to which I answered: if there's nothing more, then I'm not interested.
She was a really, really good fuck (and I am ashamed to say this: I don't miss her at all as a person, but I think I got addicted to having sex with her), but definitely not LTR material at all. It's not that I caught oneitis, because she's boring AF and a basic bitch, but let's say I got... good sex (dopamine + oxytocine) withdrawal symptoms. Unfortunately, I live in a rural area without any big cities nearby, and finding new girls is such a hassle.
Have you ever dated a girl with daddy issues? Did she display this kind of behavior as well?
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