About a week ago I finally blocked my oneitis after going round in circles with her for months (she was my ex, then I foolishly began speaking to her again) but the problem is that I’m only 16 and she goes to the same school as me.

Since blocking her she stares at me with a bitchy face all the time and her friends have told me that she’s really upset and she’s also been telling people that I’m a dickhead etc. She used to always lead me on and then change her mind so that’s why I decided for my own improvement I had to get her out of my life but unfortunately I still have to see her 5 days a week. I’m guessing this reaction from her is due to her missing the validation?

Also someone told her I was only with her because she was my only choice and she got upset about that, should I contact her to tell her that’s not the case so she’s not so upset or for my own good stay away because at the moment I’m dealing with it pretty well and becoming less ‘obsessed’ with her every day because I did develop an unhealthy obsession to be honest that I need to avoid falling back into.

Basically I need some motivation and reassurance to keep ghosting her cos I’m pretty sure it’s the best thing for me to do but part of me wants to speak to her to sort it as it’s very awkward.