I posted yesterday no real advice I’m gonna keep it short and sweet.

My buddy is in an LTR with a girl I had as a ONS. I have no interest in her I’m asking for his benefit.

After we fucked she asked me if I would ever consider her for an LTR. I answered no. A week later my boy wife’s her up.

They’ve been on and off for 3 years. She touches me and flirts with me right in front of him.he knows I have no interest but if I (or any other high smv guy) wanted her she’d drop him instantly.

The old him in college would never tolerate this behavior.He’s a good dude he deserves to become the kind of guy that would get in a quality LTR if that’s what he wants. He’s been there for me. When I needed a dose of reality and a kick in the ass he gave it to me. I would like to reciprocate the tough love.

How do I let him know his LTR is only with him because she doesn’t have a better option? How do I tell him he should have more self respect/ boundaries and he needs to man up a get out of this co-dependent pathetic relationship?