GF Abuse Problem

[deleted] · 2018-02-01T19:38:35+00:00

Leave immediately. If you stay, then you deserve what you get.

Good luck.

fnordsnord · Thu Feb 1 20:18:42 2018 UTC

I don't give a shit if YOU do not feel that you are "blameless."

She is violent, abusive, and dangerous. I do not care what her issues are, you should not be exposed to this. LEAVE HER.

glawkneintehn · 2018-02-01T19:46:44+00:00

Verbal, physical, emotional abuse. Leave now. Do whatever you need to do to leave but leave. Otherwise, enjoy the pain train.

BlackMisc · 2018-02-01T19:54:35+00:00

This must be a troll post rite?

RPShitlord · 2018-02-01T19:56:29+00:00

Why didn't you have your phone on you recording this incident of domestic violence? Always record, always call the cops, and dump this bitch.

dreadfrog · 2018-02-01T20:20:42+00:00

I'm not wanting to break up with her because I know its all about coping with stress

This is a lie you tell yourself because you don't want to admit that she is insane and you need to run for your life.

There are other women, you know?

Narcissist456 · 2018-02-01T19:35:53+00:00

Holy shit. You’re fucking retarded, leave!!!

mrbfs · 2018-02-01T20:14:21+00:00

Leave before you get arrested for being stupid.

vandaalen · 2018-02-01T20:28:08+00:00

I smell troll, but I'll bite.

Run.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2018-02-01T21:40:02+00:00

We are engaged and planning on getting married soon.

No.

My GF gets over stressed very easily and goes absolutely insane on me. It got to a point the other night that I had to grab our puppy and hide in the closet with the door locked.

Dude. You're going to fucking MARRY this nutbar? GTFO of there. Like YESTERDAY.

I really need some help with this, I don't know what to do and it's getting to the point where she grabs me and forces me into corners so that she can scream at me even more.

A. Dump That Bitch.

B. Move to a different hemisphere.

C. No forwarding address.

Its not as "Cut and Dry" as you all might think.

Yes, but your path forward is:

A. RUN, FORREST, RUUUUUUN!

B. If you marry this BPD bitch, you are OUT OF YOUR MIND and deserve every bad thing that happens to you as a result.

360_no_scope_upvote · 2018-02-01T20:35:15+00:00

Blue pill as fuck. No self esteem, zero self confidence, no abundance mentality, stuck in scarcity. Reality is you are a pussy, you are letting yourself be dominated by a woman. You should stick your cock in every single woman that passes by and rub it in your womans face, and make her lick the pussy juice off your cock.

lol look at this in his post history

Im a firefitghter for the city of portland very fit and love bbws pics for pics!

VickVaseline · 2018-02-01T20:34:16+00:00

Look up "Borderline Personality Disorder."

E401 · 2018-02-01T21:31:48+00:00

Dude if this is for real, this woman has just done you the biggest favor of your life. She has shown you this side of herself BEFORE you got married.

I have been where you are, so I know its one thing to know the right thing to do but quite another to actually implement it.

Everyone in here is telling you the right thing to do, but you already knew that. What you want is for us to say that there is something you can say or do to "fix" things. I've been down the "maybe if I do X it will fix things" route, and it's a horrible one. You can't fix it. It will NEVER get better. It WILL get worse.

And so what if you are not completely blameless? That really doesn't change anything. It is obvious to anyone reading this that you two should not be together. Maybe you did do something to upset her. Maybe you are not ready for a relationship. Maybe your personalities don't mesh well together. Maybe one or both of you truly is nuts. That doesn't change the advice. You do not need to be in a relationship with this person. Full stop.

Rares5555 · 2018-02-01T22:57:27+00:00

I call bullshit on your post. Either you’re that much of a fucking pussy, so dumb and brainless that you cannot see that getting verbally, mentally and physically abused is a bad thing, or you’ve just decided to make a post to waste people’s time and have a laugh. The way you wrote your post makes me lean over to the latter.

If, however, I am wrong, go find a fucking therapist and leave that bitch.

And for god’s sake get that dick out of your ass and put it between your balls, after you grow some.

chachaChad · 2018-02-01T20:46:08+00:00

YOU NEED TO CALL SOMEONE NOW. GET OFF THE INTERNET AND CALL SOMEONE.

Mother father brother sister

Say the words out loud.

"I'm in danger. I'm being abused. I need help now. Help me."

RAiderNat88 · 2018-02-01T20:48:13+00:00

A troll if I ever fucking seen one

Metalgear222 · 2018-02-01T21:29:54+00:00

Bro, have some dignity. Having a girl isn't success.. Being with a girl like her is miserable. You don't need to salvage anything. Get her the fuck out of your life, like yesterday.

Calebrox124 · 2018-02-01T21:46:23+00:00

I’ll be nicer than the other guys here by just saying, this not at all a healthy way for her to handle her problems.

If I were you, I would at the very least leave for a few days and give both of you some space. If she decides she was in the wrong and wants to make up for it, go back to her. If things haven’t changed, you’ll know what to do.

Best of luck. Just remember that being in a relationship doesn’t mean you’re “winning” - leading a fulfilling life does.

Occams_Stubble · 2018-02-01T21:55:09+00:00

Please at least tell us what town you live in. That way when the "Murder-Suicide in [Your Town]" story hits the news we'll know your relationship reached its logical conclusion.

ANGRY_ATHEIST · 2018-02-01T22:13:03+00:00

It will only get worse. I can promise you that. Do not marry that woman. You will get divorce raped.

chim_city · 2018-02-01T22:25:35+00:00

Ain't no pussy that good...... RUN

zboo1h · 2018-02-01T22:38:27+00:00

Dated a girl like this years ago. Started off as playful hitting, that got worse, then one night she broke into my phone and misinterpreted a message between me and a (female) friend of mine. Next thing I know she's throwing bottles at me and trying to trash my apartment.

Cut her out ASAP.

LordThunderbolt · 2018-02-01T22:56:04+00:00

You're doing good buddy, proceed with your marriage plans of 2018. I can see the light at the end of the tunnel for you. Soon she will put you out of your miserable existence and you won't have to suffer anymore. Embrace the impending sweet release of death. Bless your heart.

FromTheCaveIntoLight · 2018-02-01T23:16:13+00:00

She probably has BPD. My ex was the same. Fits of rage and crazy mood swings. yelling, screaming, abusive. Would throw my cloths all over the place, throw my phone ect. The end of that relationship was what brought me here. So many red flags i ignored or overlooked for the purpose of "love." the pathetic part, she left me.

No woman is worth this amount of bullshit. If you think youre going to "fix" her or it will get better, im begging you to reconsider. It will get worse. Boundaries have already been crossed and you have failed to show her that these actions have consequences. shes going to do whatever she feels at the time and this is not going to end well. You either man up and walk away and start fresh, or reap what she sows for you, because you have very little, if any, influence on changing this situation.

qwerty11235813213455 · 2018-02-01T23:18:43+00:00

Have you ever done anything comparable to this? If not, then how could you possibly deserve this?

If you don't deserve it, why put up with it.

Now, ask yourself, whatever reason you put up with it, is it worth it? (Remember this will get worse)

wheresMYsteakAt · 2018-02-01T23:22:48+00:00

How much do you weigh? How much does she weigh?

MRPFuckMe1 · 2018-02-01T23:30:09+00:00

You must be new here. Do not tolerate that shit, not even once.

Take it from me. You will dump her (I hope) and she will frantically try to get you back with amazing sex and being sweet as sugar. It’s bullshit. She will NEVER change, not for you at least. Your relationship is fucked beyond repair.

On a side note, I don’t know what you expected asking that here.

sihitu123 · 2018-02-01T23:33:06+00:00

Are you that much weaker than your GF that she can just easily corner you and do whatever?

Though I would not advise it and if you dont truly want to leave, try being violent with varying degrees to see if you're still a pussy to her :D . I know sounds weird but theres some merit if you love a crazy woman. Still law and shit so think.

huge_gap · 2018-02-01T23:46:15+00:00

She's right you are a pussy. So grow a pair and leave this domestic violence situation.

Rug45 · 2018-02-01T23:46:37+00:00

At the least sit her down and talk about her abusive behavior to you. See what her reaction to it is. If she blows her top or goes sideways then it's time to move on. If she see's she has a problem then recommend counseling.

Bottom line nobody deserves to be abused.

mortsdans · 2018-02-02T00:02:45+00:00

Guys this is fake you can stop. The trolls only other post is "Looking for a Dirty BBW up for anything." This is probably some blue haired bitch fucking with us

chachaChad · 2018-02-03T01:27:49+00:00

God damn it. This guy didn’t leave.

Title	GF Abuse Problem
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	3
Comments	55
Date	February 1, 2018 7:31 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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