I made a previous post about how I can't approach or Flirt with women in public. Today I went to a crowded mall to test it out and try to overcome that specifically. Oh man I was literally shaking. Just the thought of flirting with a girl while other people are walking around scare the ever living shit out of me.
It even got so bad that I can't even check out a girl without being worried about someone seeing me do it.
I'm my last post one guy commented saying that it's because I think sex is shameful. I think it originated when I was in high school and I made friends with these guys who would always stop me from approaching girls etc. And if I did get a gf they would make fun of me and all her ugly etc.
Any suggestions on how to fix this? The only times I've EVER gotten laid/make outs is when I'm completely isolated with a girl but it's tough during daygame to do that.
One guy suggested therapy, but what exactly would a therapist do?
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