Gym session as first date

RPFreebase · 2016-05-10T20:59:44+00:00

A couple people already mentioned this is a terrible idea, I agree and for the same reasons. If you're already sleeping together and are possibly interested in an LTR it could be a good activity, but definitely not a first date.

A much better physically active date would simply be spending time outside, walking around. In fact as long as the weather is decent my default date is grab coffee and walk to a park or two, escalating to make-out and depending on her enthusiasm and other logistics invite her back to my place. Keep it simple.

quicklogaccount · 2016-05-10T20:47:02+00:00

People have already suggested gym as dates here, but in order to establish a captain/first mate dynamic in a LTR.
For a first date I'd say it is a terrible idea.

The logistics seems to be awful. On a first step conveying sexuality through talking will be a bold move and prove high value, but past that, how will you escalate kino past instructions to make exercises? Is she the kind of girl that will take joy at being dirty talked in front of people?

If she IS, maybe it's a kind of a one shot gun. You put yourself in a highly sexual frame and either you get her horny enough to take her from there to the bed or you will fail and lose value.

Problem could be that I'm not the biggest at my gym and won't be seen as the alpha.

That's much more to alpha than size but if you think like that you are behind these guys in at least one aspect you think it matters.
Chances are, she'll manage to read through it.

idgaf- · 2016-05-10T21:35:54+00:00

Everyone is saying bad idea. But that depends on how afraid you are of fucking things up. Are you the prize or is she? Do you really need ideal conditions to game? Do you not have other options if things don't work out?

Those are questions that might reveal why you're even thinking about this.

It's true though, gym is not a great place to flirt. A walk or hike in the park is a better date.

KumonRoguing · 2016-05-10T22:44:07+00:00

Most people here are saying it's a bad idea, but I have had some success from this in the past.

RedditAdminsSuck_88 · 2016-05-10T20:39:49+00:00

Bad idea.

First date should be a place that is casual, relaxed, and gives you many chances for kino

motorcyclematt · 2016-05-10T21:25:51+00:00

Probably a bad idea.

An alternative if you want to stay active in your date, I would suggest a hike or something. Especially if you are near some mountains where you can have a sweet scenic view. Bitches love the view

iluminatiNYC · 2016-05-10T22:26:30+00:00

Not a good first date. Perhaps after an established relationship it would work, but not to start with.

[deleted] · 2016-05-11T00:46:48+00:00

I think it's a good idea, have met several girls this way. Talk as much or as little to her as you want, if you aren't interested just work out by yourself and say goodbye to her at the end.

Probably helps to mention that I am one of the biggest at my gym and a savagely shredded cunt so the gym is a place where I am high SMV and around friends and acquaintances I know and see every day.

You are the prize, why not let her see you at your best and come along for the ride.

MattyAnon · 2016-05-11T01:35:23+00:00

Terrible idea. Lots of obvious reasons why not.

Luis_McLovin · 2016-05-10T21:15:10+00:00

Bad idea.

Especially if this is your frequent gym the other members will resent for being creepy in a place where everyone is focused on exercise.

AFPJ · 2016-05-10T21:57:22+00:00

Get your priorities straight, even if you make the hoe a housewife, don't bring her to the temple.

Title	Gym session as first date
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Date	May 10, 2016 8:36 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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