High N Count debate

brinkleybuzz · 2017-11-24T20:23:50+00:00

Why is there so much hate against LTR'ing girls with high N counts?

Not hate, more like using logic and playing the odds.

A girl with a high N count has low relationship value and is high risk because she previously has been unable to lock down a guy and/or was unwilling to be monogamous.

Wifing up a slut is also a poor investment of your time and resources, unless she has a lot more to offer than sex. If you're locking her down for exclusive access to her pussy, you're paying premium price for something a lot of others got for free. If she's offering a lot more than sex, then yes, it might be worth it.

Bottom line ... don't shame other guys for having standards. That's a game women like to play.

vandaalen · 2017-11-24T22:59:44+00:00

I am confident that this issue never ever has been discussed before.

Also "we" are not divided on that topic. You lazy retards, you might be divided. A woman with a high n-count is like a car with high milage.

module_process · 2017-11-24T18:13:09+00:00

Statistically, High N count women make terrible partners and are more likely to be miserable and file for divorce. This is OK for fun and spinning plates...but not so much if you want to start a family and raise children.

redhawkes · 2017-11-24T18:09:55+00:00

Why paying for something someone got for free?

or

Would you bet on the team that loses 10 times in a row?

Shitty deal.

tenxs · 2017-11-24T18:12:20+00:00

and don't give a fuck about losing her

If that is the case, you don't have a LTR. That's plate level investment with zero affection on your side. Aka in for pussy only. Defuq would you want a LTR for if that's your approach?

And yes, in that case you don't need to worry about n count.

quicklogaccount · 2017-11-24T19:23:46+00:00

Your mindset is wrong bro, if you don't give a shit about losing a chick you shouldn't LTR her. You'll be only getting sex from her and sex is remarkably easy to get. But anyways, I'll summarize it the issues for you.

For starters, the chick:
A high count chick is uncompromising because she has no reasons to compromise. If you don't want to do it her way she can get another guy, with all the thrill of novelty and unfamiliarity. A low count chick has a hard time getting over her inhibitions, a high count chick is used to it. Add to that the fact that, in any LTR, men's sexual needs are seen as secondary to women's comfort and security needs: Women always have the "social frame" in LTRs. This makes your high count chick an enormous hassle, ALWAYS.
Now, some of these chicks offer enough to make up for that. Some are LTR material. But most chicks just don't bother, they just want the benefits LTRs will bring them offering only exclusivity and/or some sex (if that much) in return, and they truly believe that's how things are and if they can't get it, they haven't found the right guy (or there aren't any good guys left).

Now, picture the guy:
There might be a guy around that's dating a pretty funny girl, but since most high count chicks are just entitled cunts, most guys are only dating them for their pussies and are putting up with a lot of trouble for it.
I could make a bet here. EVERY guy that ever silently wondered with how many guys his partner slept or gave it enough thought to make that research online and end up here committed to her because she was fucking him. That's always the wrong reason to commit but taking shit to get laid is just sad, usually you can give her shit and still fuck her, although I won't encourage that sort of crap.
So basically, in case a guy catches himself wondering about her count, he's doing it wrong. Either she's giving him shit (likely) and he should end things, he's an insecure dude and needs to develop confidence (and he should break up for it), or some crap like that.
Basically if you think about ncounts, DO stay away from high count chicks but probably, stay away from LTRs altogether.

I spent six years with a "high count" chick. Something between 5 and 8 when my own count was 2. I had known and expected her count to be incredibly high for the starters and it didn't bug me until she stopped putting out and started to give me shit. From that moment and forward it became an obsession, and one that fucked me up real bad because until I found TRP I just couldn't manage to make her stop treating me like crap nor fuck me properly anymore and being treated like crap, I lacked confidence to break free from her.
My new girlfriend might have a count higher than mine, but she's really low maintenance and treats me properly. The difference is, should that change, she won't be my girlfriend anymore.

raisins3142 · 2017-11-24T18:57:04+00:00

Most guy's have a visceral disgust for LTRing sluts. Maybe you don't have that. Also, they normally make bad girlfriends with an elevated chance of cheating or just doing shady stuff or shit testing, etc. Yeah, maybe you can pull super TRP Chad moves and keep her in line, but you'll have to put in more effort than for a nonslut. Lastly, where is your abundance? If you have options then you don't have to deal with this. You can pick a girl without such an issue.

The above is just theory. In practice, in my blue pill days, I broke my rule and LTR'd two different sluts. They were the worst girlfriends I've ever had and the only two that I would not want to ever see again in anyway. If I saw them in public, I'd straight ignore them to their face. All other past LTRs, I'd say hello and such.

dirtygarbage1974 · 2017-11-25T08:01:27+00:00

What's high for an n count though?

LordThunderbolt · 2017-11-25T22:12:34+00:00

Look at all the hoops you have to jump through. Lower N count means less risky commitment. Would you buy a car that's been in 9 accidents?

RedPilledRoaster · 2017-11-24T18:58:58+00:00

Who cares if she's hot and no STDs

ScottDurden · 2017-11-24T18:39:24+00:00

N-count doesn't matter so much if you're just going to spin plates. If you're looking for an LTR you'd want one with a low n-count that would be able to pair bond with you.

Title	High N Count debate
Author	roeyjazo
Upvotes	3
Comments	23
Date	November 24, 2017 6:02 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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