How does one manage plates?

Based_Tr · 2020-12-22T20:58:54+00:00

You're only as good as your word

What this has always meant for me is that if you’re lying to achieve something, it makes you weak.

Because you lied to that girl, at that moment you were weak. You lied because you were afraid of her response, that in itself is a weakness.

Once again “abundance mentality” comes to mind: you wouldn’t care (much) about how she felt about your truthful answer if you weren’t invested into keeping her.

The above is just my opinion. I’m sure there’s others who feel no remorse or guilt lying their way through life.

isthatsuperman · 2020-12-22T20:33:40+00:00

Be upfront with them. If your cards are on the table you won’t have guilt. If they don’t like it, find more. Eventually they’ll break things off with no commitment on your part, but that’s why they’re called plates.

fretty555 · 2020-12-22T22:31:39+00:00

Women actually respond really well to honesty. My tactic is usually to just try to have sex with them, I don't mention anything about other women nor do I set any expectations. She will be solely loyal to you if you just have something she can't get anywhere else, and if she respects you she won't mind you being with other women, in fact, women actually like sharing guys with other girls. Next, expecting her to be so loyal while you have other women is a double standard.

inbredostrptw · 2020-12-22T20:58:34+00:00

Look up humansockpuppet. Pretty sure his bitch management guide is on the sidebar. The getting over the guilt part is on you. Think about how many guys women string along for their own benefit. When you find one who’s better frkm the rest, you can promote her accordingly

jjj2576 · 2020-12-22T20:32:43+00:00

The Sex God Method covers this, but Core RP books come first imo.

bumbandit999 · 2020-12-22T22:16:49+00:00

Do not forget that they are all hoes and do the same. I like to be honest though because unlike most women I have my own morals and a spine.

modern_soma · 2020-12-22T21:50:34+00:00

You shouldn't have said you'd smash the girl exclusively, that was a dumb move (and likely why you're feeling guilty - you lied.).

how do I engineer a situation where all girls are okay with what’s happening (and bonus: they don’t fuck other niggas)?

If they're sticking around they're okay with it, but the bonus isn't gonna happen. If you care so much about who they're fucking then just go for exclusivity with them, but i'm not sure why it matters who/if they're fucking.

kclanton80 · 2020-12-23T01:21:36+00:00

So this is the main problem in this sub over and over again. You getting feelings for these girls in there getting feelings for you because you treat them as plates in name only.

A plate s a woman you sleep with...... not take on dates. Text All the time.... spend extended time with. That's when the feelings start.

So the trick is limit time spent. .. as for keeping them from seeing others... tell them they can see others and many will just choose not to

Can also tell them that they cannot see others...So will say no....some will go along with it.

Depends on how strong your game is, how fearless you are, and how high of an esteem they hold you in. If they see you as a prize.

RPU_mike · 2020-12-23T04:01:11+00:00

Are you also limiting yourself to only a single friend?

jrr6415sun · 2020-12-23T05:24:58+00:00

This isn't "red pill" but I believe in treating people how you want to be treated. How would you feel if a girl agreed to be exclusive to you but was lying? I wouldn't like it.

Bear-With-Bit · 2020-12-23T07:17:43+00:00

What you think is a conscience -- a set of rules in gender/sex dynamics -- is really something you've downloaded from the world without thinking twice. Girls asking for exclusivity is only a shit/comfort test and it's not what they really want, especially if they're pre-wall.

There may not be a silver-bullet solution to all girls are okay with your plating. But the key here is YOU have to be okay with it, and most of them will follow your lead.

cfbovernfl · 2020-12-23T07:29:53+00:00

I lied to her saying that I’ll smash her exclusively

Why are you scared of being upfront? Stop being a bitch and tell her if it really eats away at you. If she leaves, find someone else.

Title	How does one manage plates?
Author	bigsam1time
Upvotes	11
Comments	28
Date	December 22, 2020 8:26 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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