How much of a difference do you think gaining muscle really makes with girls?

On_The_Tweek_Again · 2020-06-03T15:45:12+00:00

It makes a huge difference. Before I started lifting, I could still get girls relatively easily (because I have a nice face, thank god) but it was more difficult. I had to make an effort and the girls I were getting were probably 6-7’s.

As soon as I started lifting, they were basically throwing themselves at me. Coworkers, friends, plates, girls at the bar and girlfriends will all come up to you and grab your arms instinctually. The primal part of their brain loves it and yearns for it. Now I can attract girls who are around 7-9’s far easier. I get ogled at and catch girls starring at me all the time.

Go lift. It is literally the Sun in which TRP orbits around. No excuses.

antidoxdevice · 2020-06-03T15:40:29+00:00

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Yolo-Tomasi · 2020-06-03T18:32:18+00:00

gais do you think making yourself more attractive makes you more attractive?

This idiotic thread

lolomotif12 · 2020-06-03T15:45:50+00:00

Don't do it for the girls do it for yourself, that's the redpill mindset. It has far more benefits than impressing some thots, that's for sure.

FinancialThanks1 · 2020-06-03T15:36:28+00:00

Are you trying to find out whether it’s worth it

catgirlmasterrace · 2020-06-03T15:42:55+00:00

it's a pretty major difference. It may not seem so in the beginning because of how covert girls are with their signs, but it is. Obviously you catch more stares and such, but the biggest tell is their attitude towards you is way better in general, and esp in certain aspects.

But gaining muscle is not about the superficial stuff like the looks (although that's a small factor too). It's about you developing yourself, and women and everyone sees that. It signals stuff like confidence having your life together, working hard, and women glean that off your looks and vibes. Will make your first impressions better, thus your life easier.

noNooodleArms · 2020-06-03T15:53:17+00:00

I'm a somewhat older dude. I lost weight going on long walks with my girlfriend at the time, from about 190#'s to 165#'s. After she left, I started with bodyweight training, then got a barbell (best investment of my life). After lifting for a few months, I went to H&M and got small, slim fit v-neck t-shirts, rather than the large ones that had gotten a bit baggy.

I put one on in the bathroom and walked out into the common area.

It was like I was a 14 y/o girl with her first pair of tits. Why is everyone looking at me????

Night and day.

I'm not even remotely "ripped" and if I put up a pic, you'd say DYEL. But in meat space, being a dude pushing 50 in better shape than most dudes under 30, yeah, it's a big difference.

MGTOW_BEASTMODE · 2020-06-03T16:35:05+00:00

A massive, swole, gain filled difference.

AuberyBitoni · 2020-06-03T18:08:37+00:00

The difference is huge. Started lifting when I was 17 and during that time I was more muscled than I am now. Pulling girls was so fucking easy, it was unreal. Then I broke my arm and couldn't lift seriously for 1-2 years due injuries. Getting girls became a lot harder, still possible but not like before.

Now I'm slowly getting back to my old point and getting girls now has become way easier thanks to lifting, but I'm no wear yet to my goal. So from my experience, it makes a huge difference.

Rolfenstien · 2020-06-03T15:39:10+00:00

It makes a much better difference, it’s attractive.

It looks good and it shows a dedicated and hard working individual. Sure it’s not the only thing that matter to women but it sure helps with confidence and how other perceive you

TheGirlGetter9000 · 2020-06-03T16:15:35+00:00

Level of girls you can get increases, frequency of girls you can get increases. Still get all the girls you would have gotten before too

boy_named_su · 2020-06-03T16:54:04+00:00

being lean and muscular is highly appealing to them

then lean

then muscular w chub

then being chubby

they don't prefer super muscular guys. they prefer brad pitt in fight club bodies best

Snowboard18 · 2020-06-04T00:41:16+00:00

A fuck ton. Thats why the 1# suggestion to any problem on this sub is either lift or get on your purpose.

jojojijo333 · 2020-06-03T15:57:46+00:00

Before my junior year of high school, I was a scrawny 5’8 150 lbs guy. That summer, I spent 3 months hitting the gym 5 times a week, ate 5 meals a day, and spent my free time on bodybuilding.com educating myself on fitness and nutrition. I put on 20 lbs of muscle, and by the time August rolled around I had gone up a shirt size and was a muscular 170 lbs dude.

I remember walking in that first day and everyone was shocked. Bunch of football players came by and said how impressed they were with my body transformation. My friends thought I had gotten on the juice (protein and creatine and a good work ethic is all you need fellas). And yes, many girls in the locker area would look my way. I’d never gotten that kind of attention before and I remember this cute brunette in my English class really took a liking to me who I never would’ve had a chance with before I changed my body. We sat next to each other and talked a lot. She had a great body, well developed breasts and a tight ass and she’d touch my shoulders occasionally and laugh at my cringe ass jokes. It was awesome. We would talk 1 on 1 after lunch most days. I remember one time I was in a hurry to get to class and I accidentally ran into her from behind while she was bent over picking up something she had dropped (I should mention she was thick af and had yoga pants on that day). I politely was like “Oh excuse me” and she turns around, stares me dead in the eye, and says “Really? Is that what you want to do to me?”.

Now this is where I want you guys to listen closely because this is a lesson I had to learn the hard way. Good looks and fitness can only take you so far. If you can’t communicate with a women your sexual intent and read her signals, no amount of muscle or good looks will get you in bed with her. Why do I say that? Because my 17 year old dumbass didn’t make a move on that girl. I was socially retarded, had next to no experience with women before that school year, and didn’t know how to react when she made her sexual intentions extremely clear. You could have hit me in the face with a piece of paper saying SHE WANTS TO FUCK and I still wouldn’t have made a move. Internally, my inner game was non-existent. I didn’t know how to tease women, maintain frame, get her to catch feelings for me. So in the end, while I had built a pretty good body, my inner self was a pussy who couldn’t make a move on a beautiful woman.

So yes, you will get more attention from women if you build some muscle and change your body BUT you have to work on your personality, inner game, and ability to read and women and not be socially retarded like I was.

thecarryone · 2020-06-03T19:28:08+00:00

Put some muscle and find for yourself...

IXseed · 2020-06-03T20:42:43+00:00

The more "top 20%" you are helps. My question is why WOULDN'T you want to? You don't gotta get ripped but being in shape puts you in the top 30% of dudes off rip

WitnessTheTruth · 2020-06-04T06:22:41+00:00

Gain muscle and find out personally. That’s what I did.

GraphiteIsInPencils · 2020-06-03T16:19:46+00:00

For me I got a few arm grabs and comments but nothing life changing. Chubby girls threw themselves at me but the rest just gave me occasional looks. Some guys were more stand offish with me. Maybe its because I dont have an attractive face/lack confidence.

So muscles help but game/overall looks matter more.

noNooodleArms · 2020-06-03T15:38:52+00:00

Huge. Posture, gait, calm and confidence improve.

Title	How much of a difference do you think gaining muscle really makes with girls?
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Date	June 3, 2020 3:28 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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