How to date with ED

TheRedPillMonkey · 2019-10-09T18:38:22+00:00

Of course it's mental. If it wasn't, it means you'd have heart or blood flow issues.

You have a confidence issue. That's what all this is. Lack of confidence that you can keep it up, lack of confidence you can get another girl.

ED becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. You get worried you can't get up, that makes you not able to get up. Been there. Done that.

To get over it, you need more confidence. In yourself and your pipe laying skills. To do that, read sex god method. Fuck her like a porn star. Slap her ass, hard, pull her hair, control her, and watch how hard you get and how much she enjoys it.

It's the first step towards building your confidence.

FinancialThanks1 · 2019-10-09T18:32:18+00:00

Pop some pills, go to therapy

afterthe_fapocalypse · 2019-10-09T22:06:51+00:00

quit masturbating and using porn that's how. guarantee it

Vermillion_Rx · 2019-10-09T18:41:55+00:00

LTR of four years has gotten fat the last two years

I got tested and docs think I’m fine so I went to sex therapy. I still have sexual performance failures at times but I’ve gotten better

Legit question: are these two things related at all?

I don't think I could genuine stay very hard for a long time if I had to fuck a fat chick

LackToesToddlerAnts · 2019-10-09T18:32:24+00:00

Get some Viagra. Get over this mental hump and build your confidence back up.

Starting using it every other time you have sex till you feel comfortable with your ED

LeEbinConchShell · 2019-10-09T21:07:11+00:00

dude im 28 and my dick randomly stopped working over the course of 1 month in february. the erections just got progressively weaker and then stopped altogether. i got my prostate checked, t levels checked, there's no explanation. just take cialis. One 5mg pill is effective for 72 hours in my experience, so a 1 months supply is actually a 3 months supply.

TRPTonyRockyHorror · 2019-10-09T18:44:48+00:00

Have you had your T-levels checked?

majani · 2019-10-09T18:55:45+00:00

My therapist was saying that if a woman is looking for a relationship and you have a good job, etc, there’s a good chance she’ll work with your ED. Can this work with 7’s and 8’s? What do y’all think ?

MisterRoid · 2019-10-09T19:01:14+00:00

Are you using condoms? If so that's likely the problem.

thrwy75479 · 2019-10-09T23:46:07+00:00

Like 1 out of every 3 sex sessions results in me getting soft.

Doesn't seem too bad, really. It happens to the best of us sometimes. Despite efforts, we're not machines.

Is there a pattern when it goes limp? Does it happen during a particular time of day? After you've had certain types of foods? Maybe there was a lack of sleep, or during periods of high stress?

Testosterone peaks during the morning, which is why it's the best time for sex. Doing it late in the evening, after a day of work, when you're tired may increases chances of experiencing ED.

I hooked up with 7’s and they started ghosting after sex fucked up despite claiming to not be just looking for hookups.

That's what they say when they are only looking for hookups.

PhaedrusHunt · 2019-10-10T07:01:44+00:00

Man I feel bad for you young guys dealing with this shit.

My dad is about to be 77. He had a stroke a decade ago, is in a wheelchair, is paralyzed on his right side and had his left leg amputated. He takes a zillion meds, has asbestos damage in his lungs, a pacemaker, and COPD.

About a year ago I went to pop in on him at his apartment. Door was deadbolted so I went around to his patio and the glass door was partially opened, and I'll be damned if the old codger wasn't rubbing one out.

Screw the health problems, but I'll take THAT one thing

Deraileur · 2019-10-09T19:01:13+00:00

You're not an 8, you're a limp dick fatty fucker with zero abundance mentality.

[deleted] · 2019-10-09T20:17:00+00:00

Talk to your lawyer and prepare for the divorce by moving your investments and all that shit however your lawyer tells you to. Tell her to lose the weight or sign the papers. If you spoke to her and she didn't budge then, you might sit her down and try one more time before going extreme.

If you are over her and have changed and want something different, protect yourself first, then serve her papers and get away from her.

Unlikely_Composer · 2019-10-09T20:46:59+00:00

If you jerk off to porn you need to stop. That shit will give you ED.

kellykebab · 2019-10-09T22:12:14+00:00

How attracted are you to your girlfriend?

wtfoshizzle · 2019-10-09T22:39:44+00:00

quit jerking it entirely. Check if your medications are messing with your T. Do kegels and stretches to increase blood flow.

PhaedrusHunt · 2019-10-10T06:55:32+00:00

Do you drink?

PhaedrusHunt · 2019-10-10T07:04:38+00:00

Man do some yoga or BJJ

PhaedrusHunt · 2019-10-10T07:06:27+00:00

And chop wood. Seriously. Get an axe and bunch of wood and split that shit.

Decide ahead of time that you're gonna bang the living hell out of this chick even if you don't like her.

Bro if you fuck her right she will get her ass to the gym and lose some weight

ZestfulPoint · 2019-10-10T15:05:40+00:00

If you have tried it all (Viagra,Cialis) See if your doc will prescribe Alprostadil

CaverjectTM or EdexTM (Alprostadil) is injected directly into the side of the penis and produces an erection. The medication dilates the arteries of the penis and allows blood to flow in. An erection occurs anywhere from 5 to 15 minutes after injection. A patient must learn to perform a penile self-injection each time he wishes to engage in sexual activity. The erection will last 30 minutes to an hour or up to orgasm.

https://www.urologicalcare.com/erectile-dysfunction/penile-injection-therapy/

AWALT99 · 2019-12-11T19:10:14+00:00

if a bitch wouldn't think twice before fucking Chad, why would you care about satisfying her? She sure as hell wasn't screaming your name while getting railed by Chad. Women are selfish and they almost always prefer looking for greener pasture than trying to fix a current bf. There are exceptions of course.

Girls know erections are complicated. Depending on a woman's interest in you, they can either help you or ridicule you and ghost/flake etc. In which case you should thank them. You don't need them in your life anyway.

somejerseydude · 2019-10-09T18:32:22+00:00

If you think it’s mental talk to a therapist, there’s ones who specialize in ED, also it’s insanely easy to get viagra these days, you don’t even need to visit a doctor you can do it all over the internet.

Good luck.

[deleted] · 2019-10-09T19:44:08+00:00

How many cock push-ups can you do?

Title	How to date with ED
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Date	October 9, 2019 6:29 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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