So this plate of mine pulled out this shit test I wasn't sure how to handle. For context she is in a polyamorous relationship. Doesn't phase me since she consistently gave me great sex, cooked, cleaned, and just got with the program. Tldr, her and her bf in the poly relationship broke up 3 weeks ago and she's taking it kinda rough. She called me a day after and said shes gonna need some space to heal. I said you do you boo. Didn't talk to her for 3 weeks then she calls me and says she needs more time and she understands if I want to walk away from her. I said something a long the lines of "I'm busy with work and uni, I'm fine"

This is a different kinda shit test given the situation, a part of me wants to say bye but the attached part of me is sticking with the "you do you boo" approach.

I'm spinning one other plate but this one is an ideal plate imo.

Wondering how some of you more experienced veterans would approach?