So I've recently started an LTR with a girl who lives 2 hours away. Both of us are a good fit and I think she's definitely girlfriend material. We see each other around once every two weeks and she makes sure that I'm well sexed. However, around the 1 week mark, I get horny like any other normal male.
I was spinning plates on the regular (after voraciously reading the red pill subreddit) before committing to her. With my red pill beliefs, I find that I often have thoughts of cheating on her. By cheating, I mean having meaningless sex with other girls. I do not have thoughts of straying from her emotionally. All my romantic feelings are reserved for her only. I understand most guys in LTRs do not cheat because they do not have the option to. Sure I could jack off to porn, but why do that when I can easily have an old plate come over and do the real thing after sending one text message?
I find that having a girlfriend improves your odds with other women. When in an LTR, you become more outcome independent with other women because you already have a woman. I feel like I've become so outcome independent that I almost want my girlfriend to find out I'm cheating on her.. if I do, indeed, cheat. I don't know if it's because I lack empathy, but I feel like I would have no problems dealing with the consequences if I did get caught. I find myself trying to implement dread game when I really have no need for it... I feel like by cheating it would prevent me from developing oneitis which in turn keeps me attractive for her.
It just feels like I could easily pull it off. Her social circle is separate from mine. She doesn't have access to my phone, email or social media accounts. She does not know any of the plates that I could call up. Who knows? She could be having the same thoughts of cheating as well. I feel as if I wouldn't even be hurt that much if she cheated because I've accepted the reality of the game. At the same time, I'm perfectly aware that I'm hamstering just like a woman who is ready to cheat or has already cheated. I've been picking apart this topic ruthlessly. This is a real dilemma for me because I really do not want to be the cheating scumbag. So is there a red pill way to prevent yourself from cheating?
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