(In highschool) I have this one friend, he’s 5’9, 195 pounds (good upper body but has a bit of a gut), wears only sweatpants and sweatshirts, and eats like shit. He’s cringey, sings and dances wherever he’s goes, has that gay guy voice, and everyone thinks he’s gay. He’s mostly friends with all the girls.

However, this kid still manages to hook up with girls. He went to a New Years party with him and just girls(his “friends”) where he hooked up with 4 girls including the hottest girl in the grade. He also saw a bunch of girls get with each other.

So now I’m wondering, how can someone so unmanly get with girls while I, who have been working out and trying to improve myself for the last year, get nothing. Is it because of the alcohol? Or is he truly just what gets highschool girls going while I don’t get any?

Can someone like this truly build attraction or is it all due to being the only guy with 10+ girls at a party with tons of alcohol? Usually I’m not this bitchy, I’m just pissed off seeing his success compared to my lack of success even though I feel like I’ve been doing so much to improve.