I keep getting jealous when I hear about other people having sex?

onpuzzle · 2019-06-26T11:30:38+00:00

Why do you have such strong jealousy? Because you're not having access to something that you wish, that other people have access to. Work on yourself and the gates shall open.

AloofusMaximus · 2019-06-26T12:22:31+00:00

You're not jealous, you're envious. Go put your dick in a few other humans and those feelings will go away.

SalesAficionado · 2019-06-26T17:53:26+00:00

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PM_ME_CHILL_MUSIC · 2019-06-26T14:36:48+00:00

There are other ways to get laid other than attending to parties and drink alcohol. Stop coping so hard and start approaching

Vikingcel · 2019-06-26T12:17:35+00:00

Get hookups and you'll stop being jealous.

thrwy75479 · 2019-06-26T13:06:59+00:00

It's normal. The only way to fix it is to have more sex.

BoringLawfulness · 2019-06-26T16:51:51+00:00

Don’t get mad, get eTrade

oofmydigestivesystem · 2019-06-26T12:17:57+00:00

Go lift some heavy ass motherfucking weights. Then meditate. If that doesn't work, lift heavier.

azynporter · 2019-06-26T17:06:19+00:00

Me personally, when I used to fuck random chicks I would feel shitty afterwards.

GrouchyCounty · 2019-06-26T19:22:12+00:00

you do know, that those two people have gossiped with their friends about it, right? You want to hear yourself being the one being talked about, and that's probably not going to happen.

Snowaey · 2019-06-26T19:22:47+00:00

I'm not an incel,

well go fuck some bitches then?

QueenSlapFight · 2019-06-26T19:27:54+00:00

I'm going to go the other direction than most on here and say you should consider monk mode. You seem to really need to work on being a man and not giving a fuck before you start branching out and forging relationships (even casual sexual ones). I think you're putting all pussy on a pedestal right now, and to get past feeling desperate for it you need to reject it, and even when it starts coming around be picky with who you let sleep with you. Remember, you're the prize. Any interaction where you are not is an interaction you should avoid. If that means missing out on some mediocre sex, so be it.

Like I said though, you do sound like you need to work on being a man. Why are you so emotional about everything? Why do you keep trying to see inside other's heads? Why do you give a fuck what others think? Find a good example of a man or a redpiller you would like to be like, and try to emulate them. Instead of "What would Jesus do?", try "What would /u/gaylubeoil do?"

Finally, get more busy. Work on your education, your career, and exercising a lot more. Spend all your time toward these goals. You should be too tired from forging your future to give a fuck about such silly things that you're whining about.

its-mystery · 2019-06-26T20:45:06+00:00

Channel the negative energy of jealousy into positive work of cold approaches.

VigilantSmartbomb · 2019-06-26T21:04:47+00:00

Uhh I normally don’t talk about my hook ups lol

Yo people’s is weird lol

But nah I mean idk bro just so you who cares

dutchgguy · 2019-06-26T22:45:56+00:00

That's normal.

nobody_thinks · 2019-06-27T10:12:58+00:00

I went to a pre-drinks recently with my sister's older friends (sister is 28F, friends 28F too. not attracted to them btw) and they were talking about hookups they had. I just felt pangs of jealousy, that I wanted to be that ''Chad'' who gets talked about.

first you should improve your social skills. the women were basically qualifying themselves as being above you and shaming you.

Imagine the reverse situation. Two thirty y/o guys brag about their hook-ups with some "bangin hottie" in front of a good looking girl who is probably out of their league. How would you read that socially?

I wanted to be that ''Chad'' who gets talked about.

You're just falling into their frame and failing the shit test. Everything they told you is just fantasy bullshit.

why do i have such strong jealousy?

no clue maybe see a psychologist. otherwise just live your life and understand that most of what women say in social settings is bullshit fantasy and a shit test and treat it as such. don't dwell on it more than to remind yourself what bullshit people spout.

nobody_thinks · 2019-06-27T11:45:53+00:00

I went to a pre-drinks recently with my sister's older friends (sister is 28F, friends 28F too. not attracted to them btw) and they were talking about hookups they had. I just felt pangs of jealousy, that I wanted to be that ''Chad'' who gets talked about.

Proper response: "Isn't it about time you girls stop fantasizing about your crushes like a couple of teenagers and get married? What's that I hear? The sound of wombs drying and crackling under the hot sun."

boom_bostic · 2019-06-27T21:06:40+00:00

Are you jealous because people are getting laid and you aren’t?

-OR-

Are you jealous that people (in this case, women) are giving it out so easily?

Reading your post, I couldn’t quite tell exactly what you’re feeling jealous about.

Greek-God-Brody · 2019-06-26T18:00:47+00:00

> I'm not an incel
> . I'm young (21 year old). lay count is low though. only 2.

You're an incel, actually. No sex in the last 6 months? For sure, an incel

Title	I keep getting jealous when I hear about other people having sex?
Author	throwawayboyfriend5
Upvotes	69
Comments	106
Date	June 26, 2019 11:17 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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