Give me as much positive and negative feedback as possible.
Tonight I was at a county fair with an experimental LTR. After vetting her I realize she has mentioned being with multiple guys.
Tonight at the fair we had some beer. She bought the first round and I bought the second. There was a band playing. She introduced me to her friends and I was hitting it off with them. It was 2 couples.
At one point the band took a break and one of the younger guitarist was walking by. She knew him as she mentioned him a few days ago. She also dressed up for tonight, far beyond what she does.
While talking to her friends I noticed she was not beside me and was talking to the guy. She was lightly touching him and engaging in conversation. After a few moments she gave him one of my beers. The guy would look down when I looked at him and folded his arms. I was friendly and introduced myself.
She sat down next to me when he walked away. Then she said that I had a look on my face. She was probably right. Next she grabbed the final beer but offered to buy me a new one. I said I was good.
From vetting her I knew that she has seen multiple guys. For gods sake I met her on tinder, I knew what I was in for. At this point I left and went home. I am not afraid to walk away.
I received multiple text messages and a missed phone call from her asking what happened and i I was mad at something. I have not responded.
My next step is radio silence and a demotion to a plate/fuck buddy. Actually, who cares.
Thoughts? Views? I appreciate it my community of brothers.
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* Thanks for your views! In the past I would have sat there and taken it OR I could have gotten upset and escalated verbally on that dude. God forbid If I communicated my feelings about this to her.
**I posted this down below but her is the aftermath...
After several phone calls and text messages, she ended up getting dropped off by the couple last night. I met up with her and boy was there a shit storm of emotions from her.
"You left me!!"
"You left me there all alone!! What if you and I were in the city and I knew noone" (she was there there with her friends)
"I'm not into that guy he's a friend... didn't you see me introduce you as my boyfriend??"
"You stormed out of there!"
"You're mad at me!!"
"I want you"
"I'm not going to reward you with sex tonight" **Holy shit tests
"You're jealous!!"
"I see you talking to people all the time!"
I didn't get emotional about this and as far as I know kept frame.
...her little phrase about not having sex ended up in sex.
This morning she brought up last night again while cuddling up to me. I told her I was going to the gym in a bit and she left. She wanted me to promise her that I wouldn't do that and would tell her instead.
Initiating soft next.
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