Is it really possible to have a solid LTR with a really hot girl?

trp333 · 2017-06-11T03:28:17+00:00

"She's only yours for now"

Go for the good ones, enjoy the ride, keep your game up and assume they will leave at some point.

LordThunderbolt · 2017-06-11T02:53:51+00:00

Contrary to what most delusional wannabe Chads here will tell you, it's dann near moronic to attempt to. There will always be a Chaddier Chad than you, and she will meet them on a daily basis. You have to constantly be on your toes and on your game to the point where it's exhausting. Any slip up and you're fucked. It's just not worth it in the long run. She'll be overly entitled due to her growing up on everybody's pedestal. She'll be less willing to take shit from you. Your best bet is to be unavailable to the point where you don't even interact with her at all. By acting super aloof/borderline uniterested, she'll start to wonder about you and try to figure you out and that will draw her into your frame. HB7s are already a fervent amount of work, so imagine a solid HB9. They're only good for pump and dumps, sadly.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2017-06-11T13:35:56+00:00

Uncle Vasya’s Guide On Dating Models

-You Landed a 10. How to keep her in line.

You're welcome

MajorMajorMajoram · 2017-06-11T02:48:07+00:00

Don't ever break frame

SmoothBeliever · 2017-06-11T05:06:37+00:00

who cares just date them and if they leave u move on

HangingSalami · 2017-06-11T13:15:58+00:00

Interesting question and good assessment, but I would challenge you to DNGAF. Hot chicks should be approached the same as mediocre ones. Consider it a challenge and move on. You might be surprised how "clingy" a hot chick is. They are so used to and bored of being catered to that they will easily fall for an equal or better.

Greek-God-Brody · 2017-06-11T13:41:13+00:00

Worrying of the attention a hot girl gets when she's your girlfriend is needy and screams insecurity. It means you still view her as being above you.

Funny thing, it's the 9s and 10s that have more trouble finding a man for an LTR.

Bedtimeshine · 2017-06-11T08:23:26+00:00

That's why you never take her seriously if she is even on social media. I don't care how hot she is. Social media is for clown ass little kids... not real men... and certainly not suitable women. If your spending your day the same way a middle school girl does, you really need to look in the mirror. if your pursuing a woman who does than... I don't know... look in 2 mirrors.

FuckerMcFuckingberg · 2017-06-11T03:19:04+00:00

Women are people. There are normal girls, shy girls and even freaky girls who are incredibly hot. Stereotypes are true, but not 100% of the time. People are very different, so I wouldn't rule anything out just because a girl seems "too hot" for ya. Don't limit yourself.

Pluglord · 2017-06-11T03:03:43+00:00

It's a depressing thing to think about. I don't wanna be 48 years old still going out and trying to pick up chicks. I eventually want to settle down with a (very) desirable woman and live a satisfying love life.

anonlymouse · 2017-06-11T12:48:29+00:00

If I'd had a good job with normal hours, rather than graveyard shift, I'd probably still be with the same girl for 8 years now.

Nex54 · 2017-06-11T13:29:06+00:00

Is there something she can get from u that she can't get from someone else? If yes, she'll stick around. If, on the other more realistic hand, she can find more elsewhere...

brinkleybuzz · 2017-06-11T15:08:40+00:00

If you set realistic expectations for the length of the relationship, don't get oneitis and keep the relationship in your frame, why not.

Look at it this way. You'll probably get a better quality relationship from a 6 or 7 but arm candy is good for your brand and regularly banging an 8+ can help your confidence and will sharpen your game.

Go into a potential relationship with a 8+ as more of a "fling" than LTR. If she doesn't act like the typical hot chick then it will be a pleasant surprise. Every once in a while you'll find a 8+ who reacts well to a guy who doesn't put her on a pedestal.

Iguessthisismynameno · 2017-06-11T19:29:52+00:00

Sure it is - but there's a time limit in place.

Remember: it's just your turn

raisins3142 · 2017-06-11T20:04:27+00:00

I've dated only 2 women that would be considered "universally attractive". They were high 7s or low 8s. One of which had a very wealthy family and had the best of everything.

Sure, if my frame was stronger and I knew TRP back then it would have been better, but both these chicks were the most overtly abusive women I've dated. By the end, I hated them.

mdcrubengonza · 2017-06-11T20:06:21+00:00

Yes. You have to train them and shit test them.

mcscratchandsniff · 2017-06-15T05:30:51+00:00

mdcrubengonza · 2017-06-11T13:43:17+00:00

They are all trash. Good luck.

Title	Is it really possible to have a solid LTR with a really hot girl?
Author	TruthSeeker07
Upvotes	28
Comments	35
Date	June 11, 2017 1:09 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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