Is this disrespectful?

soulure · 2020-05-02T19:11:55+00:00

"yeah, me too"

Foend · 2020-05-02T19:12:04+00:00

Huge over reaction bruh

Vofz · 2020-05-02T19:17:38+00:00

She was trying to be funny and failed but that was all. Yes you should had treated it like a joke.

PinacoladaSauce · 2020-05-02T19:23:52+00:00

first of all... 4 months is a bit short for a LTR. But I think you also way overreacted. Disrespectful? I mean maybe borderline but to break up with her for that? In my eyes it makes you seem like an insecure pussy.

If your girlfriend teasing you is too much disrespect for you then I don’t know how to bring you back down to earth

RivenHalf · 2020-05-02T19:20:07+00:00

Alcatraz-12 · 2020-05-02T19:23:32+00:00

Bruh

creativelyignorant · 2020-05-02T19:38:29+00:00

Stopped reading at “LTR” and “4 month”

creativelyignorant · 2020-05-02T19:45:44+00:00

lmaoooooooo you’re not ready for a relationship

Edit: as in it was a joke and if that sent you to TRP for a post you’re not ready for a relationship

Praws12 · 2020-05-02T19:52:51+00:00

“o s**king mad dick today” I answered with silence ( even though it was prob a joke) Should I had called her out ?

I don't know this girl but you may have read it wrong. It probably was a joke.

My response would have been "Sweet, what time should I come over?". Or "You better not be too tired to suck mine".

I'd say it was an over reaction but it was only 4 months so maybe you dodged a bullet.

Pycnostyle · 2020-05-02T19:30:11+00:00

I think hard next is an overreaction. She could have just meant she's having a bad day. You could have just said she's fucked now because the Rona will turn her lungs into soup. See where that went. Does she normally talk like this?

That being said, I'm not sure I'd personally want an LTR who talks like that. Maybe because I'm old, but that's just not my style.

travlingsomewhere · 2020-05-02T20:06:16+00:00

It was a joke lol

ilovebuttchecks · 2020-05-02T20:07:18+00:00

Thank you /TRP Learned the hard way that I should show that I should treated it such as a joke, and shouldn’t take like this stuff seriously. Me and my SO joke alot and for reason when she said that my insecurities got the best of me. God bless and cheers

throwitdownman · 2020-05-02T19:20:46+00:00

Probably stoned and gave you the honest answer. If you confront, she’ll say it’s a joke. Few months later she’ll trickle truth to you and say she made a mistake.

Whether or not you think it’s a deal breaker depends on your values. For example: whether you enjoy cuckoldry, being a doormat, or have no respect for yourself are important questions you have to answer.

AlecIcarus · 2020-05-02T19:16:38+00:00

In my opinion? Disrespectful as fuck, yes.

But I can't tell you whether you should break up over something like this or not. I have no idea if that was the right approach, because I don't know your full story/relationship.

Ask yourself if she really is LTR material. If she is, in your eyes, I wouldn't have broken up with her but I would've made sure that jokes like that won't happen again.

If she's not, then don't bother. Why are you even in a LTR with her?

RPNoobie · 2020-05-02T19:10:32+00:00

I woulda kept her around for some fucks.

willbrown72 · 2020-05-02T19:27:31+00:00

You (most likely) know if your girl is faithful or not and if it was a joke or not. If it was a joke and you responded with sulking, your frame looks weak and you acted like a girl would in the scenario. If not, then it’s obviously disrespectful.

Thefreeman911 · 2020-05-02T19:29:50+00:00

"You haven't sucked my dick, yet"

jvn0510 · 2020-05-02T19:21:55+00:00

She was probably telling the truth, so good decision imo.

KeyRepresentative · 2020-05-02T19:51:52+00:00

Two responses.

Good, schedule me for later.
Good, call me in a couple weeks, we can do lunch.

thegabescat · 2020-05-02T20:01:34+00:00

Why is "sucking" blocked out?

bobthesnob71 · 2020-05-02T19:25:08+00:00

For replies likes these, i find that the best thing is to say something with the same theme. Like " the mad pussy i was in earlier really made me believe that shit ought to be locked up at the arkham asylum" Or " i swear all the hoes I've been seeing have the same response. It's like you're all in on it or something"

Title	Is this disrespectful?
Author	ilovebuttchecks
Upvotes	6
Comments	30
Date	May 2, 2020 7:03 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/gcbv9e/is_this_disrespectful/
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