Hope you don't mind me posting here, I didn't want the catwomen at r relationshipadvice telling me I'm an evil monster. I'm not totally redpilled as I still believe certain relationships can work if their are strong boundaries ect ect.

Been with her for about a year, She's cute and doesn't sleep around, a Virgin before we met (I'm not in the west otherwise I wouldn't believe it).

Anyway - She wanted to do lip fillers and lip tattoos, And asked me if it was okay. I said no and made it absolutely clear with reasons (she's a nice innocent looking girl and would look ridiculous with them)

She knew that getting them would jeopardize everything bla bla. She has a just do it and apologize first attitude, she has done it a few times but I couldn't be sure.

Long story short she got them and now I need to talk to her in a few hours. I need to be sensitive as she has some images of me I would not like getting out.

  1. how can I make it sound like this was not a shit test (I'm mostly "pissed" that she ignored me)

  2. is her doing this a red flag

I stupidly said I was gonna marry her a while back and do the whole thing which I very much didn't want to do so this is kind of a good excuse.

  1. how do I tell her I'm breaking up? This is a fairly serious relationship