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HumanSockPuppet/r/TheRedPill09/02/13 01:53 AM
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Women are large language models. This is why they often hallucinate. No world model with which to validate the language data they have been trained on.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/26 03:27 PM
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Any of the tagged contributors here. The tags help you identify who is worth listening to.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/25 07:45 AM
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A woman is never happier than when she is the cherished object of a powerful man.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/25 05:15 PM
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This is the correct answer.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/23 05:00 PM
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I think /u/MOSFETBJT is just underestimating the malleability of women. He hasn't yet fully realized or embraced the fact that women are evolved to be submissive and defer to indications of strength. What a man just understand is that women's Alpha-detecting scanners are also tuned to look for particular things. The reason why some women walk around with an unquestioned sense of self-entitlement, or a laundry list of expectations that a prospective partner must meet, is because this is what they…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/23 03:47 AM
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If you have to control her like this then she isn’t into you anyway. You don't have to do anything. Neither does she. You are both consenting adults, each of whom can negotiate conditions of a contract and then mutually agree to it. And thots are smart enough to cheat on you despite whatever surveillance stuff you try to pull. Your approach to preventing women from cheating is futile and comes off as excessively needy. You're missing the point. Vasiliy's method isn't to stop girls from being slu…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/23 11:23 PM
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Realize that getting laid is a trailing indicator of success.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/23 04:43 PM
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/u/Woujo is right. Chads don't even think about their competition. They're completely self-absorbed and self-directed. A better statement would have been something like, "I'll fuck you in enough positions to make you feel experienced."
/r/TheRedPill12/09/23 03:31 AM
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That type of girls is what we call unicorns. The reason they're called unicorns is because they don't exist. At least not in the wild. Unicorns are not found, they are made. You always have been, and always will be, responsible for and disciplining any woman you allow to join your world.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/23 04:14 PM
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IOIs are a useful training tool when you're still learning about human sexual mores. But it's a bad idea to use them as the primary driver. Waiting for IOIs means waiting for her to notice you. That's passive. You're better off being the active presence in the room that attracts the attention.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/23 04:13 PM
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Women can forgive too much boldness. They never forgive timidity.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/23 04:11 PM
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I want a relationship with her She has to earn that right. Read my Guides and get yourself straight on the subject of LTRs.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/23 07:11 PM
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This is the correct answer. Women don't always know how to serve you, so they they benefit (and appreciate) greatly when you give them instructions.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/23 02:15 PM
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There are many behaviours that are not becoming of a masculine man who enjoys the respect of his tribe. And if you're a young man just beginning your journey, you're not necessarily aware of this. You may still be in the initial phase of rehabilitation where you must unburden yourself of the chains of those emotions, and that can only be done by expressing them. I created this place for that purpose. There will always be emotional guys hanging around here. As we provide advice for the existing c…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/23 02:50 PM
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The guys being emotional here need to be emotional. They have no where else to vent it, process it, or get feedback on it.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/23 07:38 AM
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Solid date. It sounds like you are getting capable at recognizing signs and opportunities. Go on enough of these dates and they soon become formulaic. You stop sweating the details and learn to let your instinct guide you. The dates start to flow. Then your words follow, and you shed rational reasons for merely plausible ones: to move her here or there, or get her in your car, or come up to her place for just a minute. Going on more dates will also help you avoid the grasp of oneitis. Keep it up…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/23 01:02 AM
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I realize this, but shouldn't folks be talking about the end game and purpose of all of this theory? There is no single endgame that fits every life. Your endgame is yours, and the strategies you use to get there are one set of tools. Another man's endgame and set of tools to get there are entirely different.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/23 04:44 AM
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Just so. A properly executed neg shows that you are interested enough in her to play with her, but you aren't primarily concerned with ingratiating yourself. The spirit of the gesture is to show a lack of urgency. You have enough abundance in your life both to play whenever the fancy strikes you, and also to risk offending a woman because there are plenty of them about.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/23 08:11 PM
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It's not immoral to want anything. Wants are entirely internal. They neither pick a person's pocket or break a person's leg. Only actions can be immoral. So is it immoral to be a trophy wife - the act of eschewing work in favour of loving and supporting a partner who has chosen to shoulder the full work responsibility, so that you two might carve out specialized roles and make each other happier? That doesn't sound immoral to me.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/23 01:12 AM
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Congratulations on your newly-envigourated marriage. And thank you for coming back to report on your success. I cannot overstate how valuable it is for our readers to return and provide the community with first-hand reports about working strategies. It inspires confidence in our readership and encourages more women to take those first steps.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/23 06:51 PM
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Playfulness, supportiveness, compassion, nurturing, and gratitude would be some examples.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/23 04:52 AM
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A woman's power comes from her ability to inspire men to act on her behalf by triggering their protective and provisioning instincts. This is achieved through the use feminine behaviours such as playfulness, supportiveness, compassion, nurturing, and gratitude. It's what RPW teaches.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/23 03:39 AM
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A woman's power does not come from virginity. If it did then all women would become completely powerless after their first time having sex - which they do not. A woman's power comes from her ability to inspire men to act on her behalf by triggering their protective and provisioning instincts. This is achieved through the use feminine behaviours.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/23 03:33 AM
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Women still have the same power they always have. The problem isn't that they've lost it, but that they've forgotten how to use it. That's what we teach here in this subreddit.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/23 07:10 PM
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We adapted by building a new platform. Why aren't you over there?
/r/TheRedPill28/03/23 07:04 PM
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Consider it a badge of honour.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/23 08:57 PM
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Because the human mind craves comforting deceptions. That's why our culture is abound with them.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/23 02:30 AM
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We're not talking about the unlikely probability of finding a level-headed woman. We're talking about the legal certainty of you placing yourself at risk with no commensurate benefit.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/23 04:23 AM
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Nowadays women in their 20s, especially those from a dense population centre/major city, exist mainly for your sexual satisfaction. Manipulate them, outmanoeuvre them, and enjoy their youthful bodies. Then get right back to fulfilling your own life goals. And NEVER get married.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/23 02:12 AM
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Marriageable women don't exist. No woman, no matter how level-headed, responsible, or good-natured she is, is worth legally converting yourself into a second-class citizen.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/23 02:10 AM
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Modern men emerging into their 20s are benefiting from the efforts of the previous generation. The previous generation did not have a community of masculine guides to stand in for their absentee fathers. They had to learn the principles of human attraction and social dynamics from scratch, working through the process the painful, humiliating, and empirical way. It was this generation that build the Red Pill and made it available to subsequent generations. Now, the language and wisdom of that com…
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/23 05:46 PM
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A difference in fundamental values is usually a death sentence for any friendship or relationship. I would also like to point out that losers have a splash radius. If you stand too close to them you'll likely get wet. There's a reason you're getting married and your friends, who still harp on men, are not. Take the cues for what they are before it becomes a lesson.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/23 07:21 PM
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What you're seeing is a consequence of the feminization of society. Feminism harangues men for acting to their gender roles. Not because women actually want men to change, but because women want a man who defies shit tests and acts masculine anyways. Women want a man who knows the difference between a real no, and a coquettish no that's looking for a naughty influence. This has been going on continuously since the first waves of feminism emerged. We are now at the point of saturation - where con…
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/23 02:30 AM
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Why don't men feel protective towards women anymore First, a clarification: Men still feel protective of women. The protective instinct is hard-wired into men. That protective instinct is the whole reason feminism continues to exist, continues to extract resources from men. The whole process of feminism is to complain about something of interest and benefit to women until men do something to provide it, then cast it off as something men should have provided in the first place because of "histori…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/23 01:44 AM
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This community is built around helping women understand how to be the former. Forget the dating advice you hear from the world at large and pay attention to the flaired ladies in this community. They will help you.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/23 05:21 PM
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We don't know anything about OP's relationship. All we know is the context in which she chose to share this: she experienced something that excited her, and she was eager to share it with this community as a way of starting her interactions with us. We should take it in the spirit in which it was shared and welcome her.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/23 05:15 PM
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As a woman you are hardwired by evolution to defer to males. This is because our specialization to different roles has affected not only the shapes of our bodies but also the shapes of our minds. Men are specialized for fighting and hunting, and thus mentally tuned for caring for the weak and making stoic assessments of survival strategy. Women are specialized for child-birthing and child-rearing, and thus tuned to listen to the words of those who make stoic assessments of survival strategy. Thi…
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/23 06:58 PM
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Get better at what? The answer depends on what your goal is. First decide your goal.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/23 07:06 PM
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The first thing for you to acknowledge and embrace is that while you cannot control your emotions, you can control your actions. The next time you feel a negative wave coming on, and you don't feel like you can suppress an outburst, remove yourself from the situation and ground yourself. Practice some breathing exercises and get yourself back under control. Don't say or do anything to your boyfriend during an episode of heightened panic or anxiety. The other thing is to be open with him about yo…
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/23 01:08 AM
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Gratitude for gifts shows the type of man you’re describing that you appreciate how hard he works for you. But there still are plenty of men who are naturally stingy or not thoughtful regardless of whether a woman treats them right or wrong. Certainly. And this is why the other lesson we emphasize here is learning to recognize a dysfunctional man so that you can avoid him.
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/23 01:26 AM
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Good post. What we try to emphasize here at RPW is the power of gratitude. Men have a powerful instinct to look after women. Women cannot even imagine how powerful and pre-logical the drive is. Only mothers can begin to understand it, because the same drive that women have to protect their own children is the drive that men have to protect women - ALL women. The worst part of modern society, however, is that women are not taught to express gratitude for the care they receive. So men give is begr…
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/23 06:47 AM
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Crabs don't like it one of the other crabs manages to escape the bucket. It's a reminder to them that they're all still in the bucket, mostly for a lack of trying.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/23 01:59 AM
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Men hold the power in the relationship marketplace, except for one major impediment: modern conditioning (from media indoctrination to government interference in the nuclear family) is training men to abstain from their traditionally masculine roles, and it is conditioning women to both hate and covet masculinity. Women are not aware of what a self-assured ambition man can bring to a relationship. Yes, women are now capable of high earnings, especially since machines replacing muscle power have …
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/23 05:23 PM
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What do you want to use the articles for? General reading and entertainment? Evidence for buttressing an argument? Convincing yourself of RP efficacy?
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/23 07:33 PM
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You have to decide what is important to you, and understand what is important to your partner. Some males desire multiple sex partners even when they are in a committed relationship. It's not due to a lack of loyalty, but due to a powerful sex drive that impels them to seek variety. If you meet a very desirable male who requires this kind of arrangement in a relationship, you must decide how important monogamy is to you personally. There is no categorically correct answer here. This is between y…
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/22 04:48 PM
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Looks like someone hasn't read my guides in the side bar. Go read them, and keep your whining off the front page until you do.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/22 05:08 PM
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Indeed. For any readers not familiar with this process, I encourage you to read my Guide to Training Bitches.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/22 11:11 PM
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It will fail. "Balanced" relationships inevitably devolve into the women henpecking her husband. This is because men are evolved to detect and provide for the needs of women, but women have no equivalent instinct towards the needs of men (they do, however, have it towards children). If a man wants his woman to do something for him, he must instruct her in how to do it to his satisfaction, he must instruct her when he wants her to do it, and she must respect him enough to comply. This requires an…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/22 10:33 PM
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They do not want to debate, they simply want people who disagree with them even 1% to be silenced and punished. There is no point to engaging with them. Yep. The only thing one needs to do is laugh whenever they speak up loudly enough to be heard. Then go back to ignoring them.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/22 02:01 PM
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So if I understood you correctly. This tweet is talking about women who have been raised in an unsafe space, or in other words with no father or not a strong father? If so, that is probably the most advanced piece of literature I have read explaining to avoid girls with no father. Yes, but there's a caveat. Modern western civilization is being slowly altered by a wealth transfer scheme - wherein politicians and power brokers who are adjacent to politics (such as scientists, businessmen, journali…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/22 05:23 PM
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I see, the context is Twitter. Given that tweets are character limited, IM isn't able to communicate the full truth via that platform. That's part of why I loathe Twitter. Topics like this need more than 280 characters to be explained. A person's reaction to controversy is not a function of their sex, but a function of their training. People join ideological crowds because they feel safer there. This is usually due to a failing of their own competence or knowledge about the issue causing the con…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/22 04:37 PM
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“The ultimate test of character when vetting a woman is to ascertain her loyalty of soul. How do you determine this? Easy. Upset her, then share your opinions to elicit reciprocation. If she dehumanises you, she's prone to treachery and will always choose herself over you.” Can you provide a link to where IM said this? I'd like to read it in context.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/22 04:24 AM
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You're on the right track. As you said, a compliance test is when you give a girl an instruction (explicit, such as a spoken demand, or implicit, such as holding out your hand and waiting for her to take it) and judge her interest level in you based on her response. The idea is that women are naturally submissive to and attracted to men they regard as authority figures. The goal of giving her a compliance test is to judge her level of attraction to you and then modulate your next attempt at esca…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/22 03:14 PM
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Are you familiar with compliance tests and the RP theory of administering them to test for submissiveness? If not, I can provide a brief description as a primer for better understanding my answer to your question.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/22 10:10 PM
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Make it your priority to learn as much as you can about the person you're dating. Put yourself into different situations (i.e. go on lots of different types of dates) and see how he manages things like scheduling around different busy calendars, planning interesting dates, being able to plan around unexpected changes, etc. Your job in all this should be to provide him with the info he needs to make a good plan, and then to help him execute the plan successfully. This is how a relationship will p…
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/22 07:16 PM
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People will hate no matter what. You go to latin america to game on girls, they call you beta. You do it in vegas, they say it’s shooting fish in a barrel. Like will you fuckers be happy if we ran game in south Dakota? Guys who say this are missing the point. You don't game to show off your chops. Seduction is not a performance art. The ultimate purpose of gaming girls from "easier" cultures is to give you a taste of what it's like to be desired. Experiencing that provides much needed perspectiv…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/22 05:21 PM
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Reciprocal attraction requires a different approach. Reciprocity is a kind of transaction. What you've done here is strung a bunch of words together in a grammatically correct fashion so that it appears you are saying something comprehensible, when in fact you are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/22 04:36 AM
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You're missing some important context here. Human interactions happen in different contexts, namely dominance, communality, and reciprocity. It's "ok" (to a certain extent) for men to follow orders from other men if their relationship is one of dominance or reciprocity. Some examples: As a journeyman craftsman, I might listen to instructions of a master craftsman in order to complete a project. This would be a dominance context. As a car mechanic, I might abide by the demands of a customer wanti…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 06:37 PM
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You're projecting. My girlfriends describe my behaviours as "bossing around", and they love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 06:09 PM
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You're being too charitable about how much autonomy women are allowed by other women. If a woman chooses to be a stay-at-home mom, or to assume a submissive role in a relationship, or to defer to her father's judgement on something, feminists lose their shit and try to convince her that she's brainwashed. Apparently, it's okay for women to be bossed around by other women who are total strangers, but not to be bossed around by the fathers, boyfriends, and husbands who love them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 02:50 PM
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So, my question I suppose is how would a man go about limiting a woman's exposure to "brainwashing"? I can give you a glimpse into my own approach. Whenever I start dating a new woman, I always allow my natural love for teaching and guidance shine through. Women are usually drawn to this, and they eagerly assume the role of student. I teach them new skills, and they seek both to improve their skills and to earn my praise. Once this dynamic is established, I become a new source of validation. At …
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/22 11:24 PM
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I agree with the other commenter here in that it is risky to go into a relationship believing you can change the other person Ah, I think I see now where my misunderstanding occurred. I would never recommend that anyone into a relationship with the objective of changing or rehabilitating someone. You are correct. Doing so is a recipe for disappointment, and it often results in failure. The only objective anyone should ever have when entering a relationship is learning about the other person's lo…
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/22 11:12 PM
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The difference here is that there's nothing being changed. With the exception of some extreme outliers, all women are evolved with innately neotenous (see: neoteny) characteristics. It is that behavioural neoteny that renders a woman attractive to men, and those behaviours don't change because they are hired-wired. You can only temporarily suppress them through continuous brainwashing. These are the "baseline characteristics" you mentioned. The main issue is that the effects of brainwashing are …
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/22 09:19 PM
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Red Pill women are not found, they are made. Women who come from places that have strong nuclear families, communities offering extended support, and a cohesive set of shared values will be better-primed to become supportive partners. But all of this can be undermined (sometimes gradually, sometimes rapidly) if that support structure is not maintained. In reality, any woman can be made into a Red Pill woman if a man can provide a safe environment in which her femininity can awaken and flourish.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/22 07:53 PM
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Hi. I co-founded The Red Pill. The whole movement was started by myself and a handful of other guys who all got together after being disillusioned by efforts to squelch our free discussion of important social topics. The result was that we founded a free-talk forum to get at the truth collaboratively. Here's what the reward of successfully implementing the Red Pill really is: To be able to see past other people's bullshit well-enough to avoid being led into dead-ends by demagogues, and to live y…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 06:47 AM
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I remember a certain quote about well-behaved women not making history. It makes more sense now, in this context.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/22 03:11 PM
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I made a whole subreddit for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 11:23 PM
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society reward's them [women] for doing less Not quite. Women are valued for different reasons than men are. These sex-based valuation assessments appear to be hardwired into us, and are not subject to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:42 PM

Society cannot address the problem. Only the individual man can address the problem at his own level, and for his own circumstances. Men feeling displaced seems like a collective issue because so much of civilization depends on the productivity of men, and when men suffer civilization starts to feel it too. But attempts at collectivizing the solution have only made the problems worse. Men need to take ownership of themselves and their personal health, and that starts with understanding what is r…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:09 PM
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Well, the original question asked why men care so much about female promiscuity. I was addressing the evolutionary reasons behind that. Men care because their precious effort and resources are at stake if they are fooled into caring for offspring that is not their own. A woman cannot be deceived about which children are hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:12 PM
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Femininity is a greatly underappreciated form of strength. It's not enough to merely hack one's survival out of the wild, hostile wilderness. For real quality of life, we need to be able to feel that we have love, acceptance, support, and a soft place to land when we are done struggling with the universe, and femininity provides that by the truckload. Congratulations on your success, and on your perseverance in the face of culture-level opposition.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/22 04:01 PM
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The more accurate way to phase this is, "don't expect women to live up to the hype sold to you by western media." Women aren't born wonderful, flawless creatures. They are as uncertain, insecure, and incompetent as you were before you learned to do anything. The only difference is, society will never expect or encourage them to learn on their own. Entertainment media is selling them an illusion that they are perfect as they are. The dumber women will buy right into this, and allow their expectat…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:49 PM
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A man cannot force a woman to take a paternity test. It is considered a violation of her bodily autonomy. And any woman looking to hide her infidelity will use the tactic of "don't you trust me?"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:30 AM
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But hey, who cares how women are affected by cheating? You only care how men are affected by cheating. I don't care about how men or women are affected by cheating. I only care about how I am affected by it. Cheating implies there is a set of rules in place. And rules are consensually agreed upon by negotiating parties. That means that what constitutes "cheating" will vary from agreement to agreement. I am not concerned about cheating because I only agree to contracts that are favourable to me, …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:03 PM
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So what? The point is, a woman will never be stuck unknowingly spending energy to raise kids that don't improve her own gene's chances of being passed on. That's the whole reason that male disgust for female physical promiscuity developed. Women care less about physical promiscuity and more about emotional promiscuity. Because a man falling in love with another woman might stop supporting her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 02:37 PM
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Because a woman always knows that her children are, in fact, hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:32 AM
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Men don't call out women's bad sexual behaviour because it's bad for society. They call it out because it's bad for them personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:36 AM
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It's not a gender issue. It's a benefits-vs-risk issue. The reason men want to be jerks while having their daughters avoid jerks, is the same reason why adult parents are okay with being sexually active while simultaneously being wary of their children being sexually active. One person enjoys the benefit of the activity, while the other bears the burden of any negative consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 11:33 PM
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where people have money, healthcare and decent quality of life. So, America lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:59 AM
3

Not a lot of men want to date successful women. Because successful women have higher expectations and requirements without providing greater benefit. It's extra work with no payoff. The female equivalent of this would be a hot girl taking an average guy and building him up into something attractive, versus just dating the guy who already has his life, career, and confidence together. There are few reasons to go to the extra effort for number one when number two comes fully equipped.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:56 AM
3

TRP is biased and exaggerated and lacks nuance for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:37 AM
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She'll rationalize that the experience was "empowering". She'll never put her RMV to the test by trying to persuade Slim Shady to LTR her. Don't waste your time with these wastes of oxygen. Remember: losers are like a hand grenade, and they have a splash zone. Don't stand too close to them.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/22 08:22 PM
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That's always been the case. It has always been easier to talk about something than to do it. It only seems like the problem is getting "worse" because awareness of TRP has spread, and there is a growing number of people who read but don't practice. But among those newcomers to TRP are people who do practice it. And you never hear from them because they're not posting shit on the internet. They're too busy living their lives and putting our lessons to use. In most cases, you cannot use "people w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 04:27 PM
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TRP co-fouder here. Getting off one's ass, taking Red Pill advice into the field, and testing it on real people, was always the hurdle that was hardest for most of our readers to overcome. We had guys who would sit around and read and comment on our posts all day, but never actually went out and did anything. You know what they say about horses and water.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 05:41 AM
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It's not so much a set of general strategies. We don't tell guys to "ignore this chick for x amount of time, because damaged chicks are into that." It's much more targeted and context specific. We would say, "Ignore this particular chick because she wasted your time. Don't reward her by chasing her, because your validation is exactly what she wants and you'll be giving it away for free." If a woman exhibits behaviours that are attractive to the guy and constructive to the building of a healthy r…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:21 AM
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This is precisely why TRP teaches men to marginalize, objectify, and discard women. Women associate that kind of behaviour with power. Being treated that way causes them to conclude that the man is powerful, and to become attracted. At that point, the man may begin vetting from a position of selector rather than selected.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 07:50 AM
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Yep. And that's why TRP continues to thrive in spite of all of the opposition it receives. Historically, TRP's methods have always produced results. And Bloopers, who have nothing to proffer apart from empty platitudes, must cede ground to us at every turn. In the beginning, TRP was dismissed as pure fiction spun by kissless incels. But as TRP advice continued to produce desirable results for our users, the amount of ground ceded to us by our detractors forced them to admit that we were basicall…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 08:09 PM
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So, really, the advice should be "improve yourself by working on X, Z, and Z". I agree with you on your second point. That's what we do at TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 02:41 PM
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For a man who is obese and lacking confidence and practical social skills, focusing on himself is often the best thing he can do. Relationships "just happen" to women because they take no active part in the seduction process, and when a man chooses to make her into a long-term partner, she often isn't aware of the qualities that earned her the privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 02:20 PM
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There is no trend. Women have always had a built-in, evolved sense of entitlement. It's what pushes them upwards in a survival environment where success is more dependent upon social skills (extracting resources from others) than physical skills (extracting resources from the physical environment).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 02:49 PM
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If you want me to respond seriously to this you'll need to give me a more substantive and reasoned objection.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 10:32 PM
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Even better: FDS advice doesn't work. Meanwhile, the female-focused RP community, RedPillWomen, is free and dispensing excellent advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 10:03 PM
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I don't know if he noticed the effort it took me, but he really stepped up after that. He noticed. And since I told him (showed him) that I appreciate him for stepping up and leading, he does so even more... Proof right here. Am I conditioning him with positive reinforcement? :) You are. And he is conditioning you with his care, leadership, and protection. You are both mutually-reinforcing, and you are both stronger and happier because of it. Funny, it's almost like we evolved to do this.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/22 04:57 AM
1

With the right skills and practice, a man can get laid for free. All the information on how is out there, compiled by the TRP community and free to be consumed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 01:45 AM
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Women reach their maturity faster, but they have a much lower ceiling.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:34 PM
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To be more precise: an individual man is to blame precisely to the extent that he does not reign in the behaviours of the women in his life. With enough men failing to do this, you see the women of an entire society degrade into their most basic child-like selfishness. That's what is happening in western cultures now.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:09 PM
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Of course. We are beholden to our instincts. It's also critical for any society to understand (if it expects to survive and prosper) that the instincts of women are not constructive, but rather consumptive, and that it is therefore generally unwise to give them any real power to decide collective outcomes for society, on the level of politics and law, for example. Case in point: the United States federal government entered into a spiral of debt after it gave women the right to vote, one which it…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 08:13 AM
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Exactly., Women constantly want their fragile self-esteem reinforced with praise and attention. They lap it up, and that's why it's sold to them by the bucketful by Hollywood and advertising. Even pointing this out is regarded as an assault. So men praise women tongue-in-cheek and let them believe that they wield more influence than they really do. But when the bullets start flying, the tidal waves start crashing, the earth starts quaking, or the zombies rise from their graves, everyone knows th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 07:37 AM
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The only right that is relevant in the sexual marketplace, regardless of sex, is the right to participate (or not). The right of free association. Both men and women are free of obligations. Any contract they enter into is entirely voluntary.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 11:37 PM
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Absent from this post is any indication of what your husband thinks about your mutual financial situation. It's best to get his impressions before you commit to any action. The best way to do this without overstepping your bounds or offending him is to present your concerns as a problem that you entrust to him with solving. Tell him that you see him working hard, that you are appreciative of his efforts, and that you love him for his commitment to your lives and well-being. Tell him that you are…
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/22 07:10 PM
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Dr. Dickhead overestimated his ability to intimidate and was put back in his place. No one messes with the first mate.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/22 03:15 AM
2

Who gives a shit what the consensus is? Take a hypothesis and conduct repeated experiments to see what kind of result it yields you. If it produces results that you like, keep doing it. If it doesn't, don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:18 PM
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Here are some basic principles which are applicable pretty much everywhere: People tend to appreciate a thing in direct proportion to the amount of hardship they had to overcome in order to get it. A thing received repeatedly becomes expected, and is regarded as an entitlement. The human race has a protective instinct towards women, and demands less of them while providing more for them. You do the rest of the arithmetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:12 PM
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If the population were 75% men and 25% women, there would probably be war, hunger, and strife right up until the moment when the overall population was reduced but the ratio was back to roughly 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 03:18 PM
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It is like people selling big macs for 100$ a piece, sure big macs are good but this is a scam, and well scams usually are called out. Like the $100 Big Mac, there are unseen market forces affecting the quality of the available goods. You do not have control over those source. But unlike the Big Mac, you can change the quality of a woman after she has been made, and turn her into something worth spending time with. Patriarchal cultures used to do this for you, but ours doesn't anymore. Luckily f…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:10 PM
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If you want a fuck buddy, you need a woman's sustained interest. That means hobbies, skills, and pursuits outside of your need for sex. You are what you do. Full stop. Objectification is the act of seeing and judging someone through the lens of your own wants and needs. Women do this when they look at you, and you at them. Put in the work, pay a whore, or stop whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:36 AM
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Get a hooker then.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:30 AM
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Gotcha. Agree with you 100% there. As a person who is still undecided on the matter of abortion, I'd be willing to provide you with my take, if you are interested in hearing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:31 AM
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That fine. I'm mainly writing for the sake of my followers, and for the sake of any person who may have an open mind and has never heard this answer articulated before. Demagogues gonna demagogue no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 11:10 PM
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Even from an originalist perspective, I can't imagine the founders thought government had a role regulating medical procedures. Then why are you okay with the government defining precisely what an abortion is and when it may or may not be performed via the Roe v Wade decision?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 11:07 PM
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The overturning of Roe v Wade isn't an abortion issue per se. Yes, the case is about the subject of abortion, and yes, its overturning can affect your ability to get an abortion depending on the laws of your state. But the case wasn't overturned because the Supreme Court thinks that abortion is evil, or because the court has been packed with right-wing extremists. This is about correcting an abuse of power that the Supreme Court committed in 1973. Read William Rehnquist's dissent in the original…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 07:46 PM
2

Feminists let me do this to them during same-night one-night stands.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/22 09:45 PM
3

Imagine if the entire Democrat party could be brought to a crashing defeat by sneaking in and making sure their constituents get coited rough on the reg.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/22 09:43 PM
2

If eunuchs are such a driving force in society then where's their hashtag? #BallessBallers
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:49 PM
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it was done to make ALL our lives better Not quite. The development of technology has indeed made our lives better, but making lives better was not the driving motivation. Men wanting to get laid was the driving motivation. That's why math and engineering classes were taken, designs were created and implemented, businesses were started, venture capital was wagered, deals were brokered, and products were manufactured, marketed, transported, and sold. Sure, there were some women involved in there.…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:06 AM
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Speak for yourself lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 02:58 PM
2

Thanks, I needed a good laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 10:08 PM
1

A "low value man" is the type of man who dies early in a zombie apocalypse scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 10:04 PM
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A dominant, masculine man prides himself on being able to love and look after his woman. He feels great satisfaction when the woman he loves seeks his esteem and approval. So take this as a lesson learned: your intended partner should be the only person whose esteem and approval you require. To seek it elsewhere is to suggest that you can be influenced, that you are not fully committed to him and his guidance. It is a great insult to a man. A woman's loyalty is a man's greatest desire. So, makin…
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/22 09:21 PM
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Ok I get what you're saying, thanks. So gaming chicks is just something we have to keep doing if we want to be with them. Yes. The more comfortable you become with being who you need to be, the more you will naturally project attractive indicators, and the less conscious effort you'll have to exert to draw women in. But courtship will always be, at least partly, an active process. Women will not just fall into your lap unless all of the variables line up perfectly. Think of it like getting a new…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/22 04:01 PM
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I want to make it clear that this is not a misogynistic "women have it easier in life" type of post. Right there is yet another difference. With men you're not expected to round off your honest observations with a disclaimer.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 03:27 PM
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There's no such thing as your "authentic self". To be successful (in love, friendship, business, or anything else), you must transform yourself into being whatever the situation requires for success. That's why aspiring to an "authentic self" is, more often than not, a rationalization for either laziness, cowardice, or disinterest. You already know that women's attraction comes from behavioural cues. Anytime you begin courting a new girl, she needs to see you act in certain ways in order for att…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/22 07:03 AM
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If you're taking the comment seriously, then you haven't learned the lesson yet. That means you're still a pussy bitch.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/22 06:17 AM
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Your "authentic self" is a pussy bitch. Do what works, or don't. You don't need our permission to waste your own time.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/22 06:11 AM
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Men marry in the hopes that things will remain the same. Keep being the woman you are being now. Don't let the prospect of marriage change you. Marriage will be everything you imagine and more as long as you maintain your present course. Congrats.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/22 09:11 PM
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It's pointless for the following reasons: No one gives a shit about men's problems. If you want to change a woman's mind, you have to change her feelings. You accomplish this with actions, not with arguments. Women bitch. Men get shit done.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 07:42 PM
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It's even easier than that: there is no gender pay gap - at least not one caused by sexism/discrimination. Any gap that does exist in reported numbers is the result of women making different life choices combined with the fudging of statistics to create the appearance of a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 05:52 PM
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Sex is necessary, but not sufficient, to make a man commit. Sex is the minimum foundation upon which the argument for a relationship is made.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/22 01:56 PM
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It's in the genetic blueprint. If you're too pussy to approach, you don't get laid. You are the end product of a long lineage of guys who got laid. Fucking act like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 05:47 AM
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That's not quite right. Lowered pair-bonding and promiscuity are both effects, not causes. The original cause is always something else, something which typically disqualifies the women from being able to persuade men to girlfriend her or wife her. Poor long-term relationship potential leads to being passed around.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:20 PM
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No, because men and women are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:18 PM
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If you make him wait for sex arbitrarily, he will detect that and seek it out elsewhere. Attractive men have options and don't have to wait.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/22 07:10 PM
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People don't do what makes sense. They do what their instincts impel them to do. You're never going to persuade women to make the first overt move, it's not their instinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:43 PM
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You people are out to lunch if you think that this slap incident was anything other than a publicity stunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 08:35 PM
2

Attainability to the person making the judgment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 07:52 PM
2

Sex is what happens naturally between mutually-attracted males and females. Sex, therefore, is not a sufficient payment for any service you might render.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/22 08:10 PM
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Good. Some guys think they should be grinding bitches, like they're some kind of goal unto themselves. Make sure you review my Bitch Management Guide in the side bar to avoid over-committing to a bitch before she has earned it.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/22 08:06 PM
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Keep grinding comrades. What are you grinding, exactly?
/r/TheRedPill27/02/22 07:01 PM
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TRP founder here. We allow women. It would be futile to ban them anyways, because it would be impossible to enforce. What we ban specifically is mentioning your sex. We do this because your ideas should be able to stand on their own merits.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 05:08 PM
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First, discharge your assumption that objectification is morally reprehensible.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:48 PM
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The only people connecting femininity with inferiority are feminists. So what you're really saying is, when feminism is gone, then women will feel comfortable being feminine again. That's absolutely true and... ... your terms are acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 03:59 PM
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You are emotionally mature enough to recognize and claim your share of the responsibility for the health of your relationship. Be sure to give yourself credit too.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/22 02:02 AM
4

Surefire strategy for exterminating the human race.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:46 PM
7

Careful, your totalitarianism is showing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:16 PM
5

I'd rather not pay taxes at all, and let the free market handle it. Government-provided anything is shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:15 PM
3

UBI is dependence on the taxpayers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:08 PM
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I would only enact one law: OP must post his own opinion as a comment to the main post. Otherwise the comments section becomes a fucking mess of other people's responses mixed with answers to the OP's opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 06:07 PM
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AT LEAST $250 You need to check the market price for a blowjob. It's not nearly that high.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:26 PM
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TIL "exploitation" is when two parties agree to both a service and a price.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 10:25 PM
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Terms like transphobic are a groupthink tactic for othering people who don't follow the group's orthodoxy. It's a setup for justifying discriminatory acts against outsiders.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:33 PM
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You're a strong independent woman. Fix the dating market yourself. Or, pay me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 06:47 PM
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TLDR: "I'm a woman, FIX THIS PROBLEM FOR MEEEEEEEEEEE."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 05:48 PM
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Classic man-shaming. Shame on YOU.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/22 03:42 PM
12

It's the cheerful misogynists who get laid most of all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 02:09 AM
1

Why don't women have fetishes at the rate of men? What are you basing this assumption on?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 01:33 AM
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Trash women are always hilariously predictable. First they'll put on the "help me kind sir" doe-eyed act to try and trigger your protective instinct. Then, when they realize that won't work, they become unable to hide their contempt and immediately begin slinging insults. They're so afraid of men that they will not even attempt a strategy that treats men as living people with lives of their own - it always has to come from a risk-averse, exploitative angle. It's so fucked up that you really can'…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 05:20 AM
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So you want him to fix your problem, and your strategy is to...insult him. You're not exactly playing with a full deck here, sweetie.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 11:02 PM
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Every day you make him wait is a day some other girl could slip in and get his attention. Remember, sex is just the bare minimum. Sex alone isn't enough to win him over. You need to be good company even when sex isn't happening. Assuming that a he is open to a relationship, sex + high-quality non-sexual time is what gets you commitment from him. But if sex isn't happening at all, you don't even have a foundation to build on.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:37 AM
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A woman has the guy to lose by making him wait for sex. A man with options won't wait for a woman who isn't clearly excited to be around him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 11:02 PM
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This is a solid answer, right here. OP, what you need to understand is that men do not bond by sharing their feelings the way women do. Reticence on the part of a man is not a sign of mistrust the way it is among women.
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/21 10:51 PM
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They are conservative in the sense that they are conserving a certain state of being. That state of being is alone, angry, and bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 09:47 PM
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You don't get more sex by being in a relationship. You get more sex by projecting sexually attractive behaviours. Your advice is bad advice.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/21 04:46 AM
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Also, on the point about Sargeants: In most militaries and most branches, Sargeant (specifically Master Sargeant) is the highest rank among non-commissioned officers. Beyond the rank of Sargeant lie the commissioned officer ranks, beginning with Lieutenant. So Sergeants should marry is like career advice to the Sargeant. "If you want to advance and become a career commissioned officer, you're going to need support. So get a wife." By the time you're already a commissioned officer, you better hav…
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/21 04:23 PM
1

I'm one of the founders of TRP. Most of my experiments have been conducted inside of The Sims 4. Lineage Aspiration, and with the Noncommittal, Hates Children, and Loner Traits. It's working well so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 06:59 PM
3

I have only ever had one spontaneous threesome - and it arose from a scenario where I had high situational value and a lot of social credit weighing in on my side. The rest of my threesomes involved a girl (always a FWB or LTR) who was already fiercely invested in and loyal to me, and we selected a third girl together to join us.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/21 07:48 PM
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someone who is infertile due to no fault of her own This is a classic female error of attribution. Women are hyper concerned with fault and its assignment. And that makes them predisposed to have conversations about fault where the issue is not relevant. If a man definitely wants a baby (that is, it is a non-negotiable desire of his), and she cannot give him one, it doesn't matter to him if it's her fault or not. He will leave her and find another woman who can. It doesn't matter if her fertilit…
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/21 02:44 PM
1

Do you have any ideas as to why? Did he say anything? Is she more attractive than you are in your current fitness state?
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/21 11:29 PM
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Getting sexual early-on isn't a bad move. A guy with options can get to sex easily with most girls, so he'll move on from you if you don't appear excited to be with him. What matters is the quality of the non-sexual time you spend with him (the ways in which you improve his day-to-day life), and that is entirely within your control. Keep doing good work and inspiring him to love and protect you.
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/21 03:19 PM
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I'm understating just how visceral the feeling is. It's not just how often we feel the urge, but how severe our physical symptoms become if we try to ignore it. I cannot speak to how the experience is for women, but from what I have observed men's higher testosterone makes the experience far more acute than it is for women.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/21 07:20 PM
2

If he starts the conversation, listen to him intently. If he's speaking to you about it, then it's because he feels you're the only one he can talk to. Don't remark on or judge anything he says unless he asks specifically for your input. At the end, let him know that you appreciate everything that he's doing, that you love him for it, and that you know he'll make the best decision he can for the two of you. Showing your faith in his leadership is the best way to be his biggest cheerleader. Also,…
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/21 04:09 PM
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Men experience sexual desire differently than women. For men, sex is a constant niggling need, like hunger. We often feel the urge to "snack" just to make the urge go away, at least until we can get a nourishing meal. Don't worry too much. When a man has sex with a woman he cares about, the experience is meaningful and satisfying.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/21 03:42 PM
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An extra big helping of love and appreciation is in order. Keep on showing your appreciation for everything that he does, but make some gestures above and beyond every so often. As his stress levels increase, so should your stress reduction efforts. Make no mention of his new work and responsibility. Just make him feel like you're noticing his increased efforts by increasing your own efforts. Men reciprocate effort with effort. Eventually, it should click with him that you really are appreciativ…
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/21 02:40 PM
1

Don't be silly, OP. The answer is both. Lock down the simp for reliable resources and stability, and tell him that you're going out for "time with the girls" so you can get dicked by Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:55 PM
0

That's why over at TRP we're teaching men how to exploit women into giving up their pussies for cheap. Men are putting up with way more crap than they really need to, so we're providing a market correction.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:25 PM
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Hi, I'm HumanSockPuppet. I built this community along with several other friends of mine. In that phrase you cited: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men. ..."sex" is meant to denote the "male sex", and not the act of sexual intercourse. Taking responsibility for yourself and your chosen family, and becoming a competent man, certainly fall within that.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/21 02:28 PM
3

One of the ways I overcame my early fears of rejection was by turning flirtation into a game. "What's something outrageous I can say here, and what kind of effect will it have on her?" By divorcing yourself from a specific outcome, and using the girl's reactions purely for your own entertainment, you become outcome independent. And ironically, by doing this, you render yourself freer to say precisely those things that will likely spike attraction and interest. Have fun with bitches.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/21 08:13 PM
5

Women make perfectly-fine sex toys.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 05:43 PM
8

"Advantage". I love how people talk about relationships with the assumption that they're adversarial.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 05:13 PM
1

Frame is not a property of you. You do not have frame when you are alone on a desert island. Frame is a property of the social interaction you are engaged in.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/21 04:09 PM
5

Because no one gives a shit about what men want. Men have to give a shit about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 03:13 AM
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MeToo is just one more tentacle of feminism. And feminism is not about equality, or justice, or any other abstract and undefinable moral outrage du jour. It's all about taking advantage of men's protective instincts for the purposes of getting free shit. Always has been.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 10:26 PM
1

Not only can men get what they want by stating it up front, it is their best strategy for having successful sexual and romantic relationships. In TRP, we call it "control game".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 10:24 PM
1

Karma is justice without the satisfaction. And there's no such thing as justice. You take it from there.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/21 07:39 PM
0

Women are hardwired to be submissive. It's not a kink for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 06:52 AM
4

How do you go shopping at the supermarket? Do you wait for an earthquake to make things fall off the shelf and into your cart?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 06:51 AM
1

Read my Guide to Managing Bitches for a full breakdown of what makes a woman relationship-worthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 06:50 AM
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Because everyone loves free shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 06:49 AM
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The past few years I’ve seen a lot of articles on women’s interest sites about how educated women can’t find men of equal status to marry. A woman with a Master’s degree in the social sciences would not consider a high school educated plumber man, even if he makes more money. A Master of social science is not equal to a plumber, because plumbers have useful skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 06:48 AM
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Unfortunately, a "true libertarian society" is a lot like one of those unstable nuclear particles that's created in a supercollider. It immediately decays only moments after it's created as people too afraid of their own shadow to make a personal decision look for someone to bow to. Maybe the human race can try again when it begins colonizing other planets.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/21 04:06 AM
1

So what? The habits that make dating easier for a man also make his life better in general. Let the unwashed masses of men wallow in their obesity, indecisiveness, and World of Warcraft. The competition cannot keep up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 05:57 PM
1

On what evidence or insights do you base this conclusion? What alternative model do you propose, and what strategies should one use within your model to secure commitment?
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/21 07:57 AM
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Among the women who are sexually available to a man, he will generally select for a relationship the one(s) that are the most pleasant to be with, assuming he is interested in a relationship at all. Since this guy has expressed an interest in a relationship, and as long as this expression seems genuine to you, you should focus on doing the things that bring him comfort, satisfaction, joy, and a feeling of being appreciated. These gestures on your part should be continuous, even after he selects …
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/21 07:55 AM
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The question of your comparative leagues, and the question of your RMV game, are the same question. What do you do to make your non-sexual time together pleasant? You mentioned baking banana bread for him. What other non-sexual effort do you commit for him?
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/21 05:58 PM
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There's no such thing as having sex too soon. However, there is such a thing as having sex with a guy who is too far out of your league to lock down. If the guy inspires so much passion in you that you cannot help yourself, then that means he is attractive to you, right down to the core of your instincts. This is exactly the kind of man you want to lock down. The real, question is, do you have the skill and developed RMV to continue inspiring his devotion and commitment to you?
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/21 04:28 PM
1

So why do men frighten you? Were you ever at the mercy of one who's protective instinct towards you malfunctioned?
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/21 08:57 PM
2

What I want? That means nothing. Nobody cares what you want. You care what you want. Surely you esteem yourself enough to try and fulfill your own desires, yes? The root cause of your disappointment, so far as I can see it, is that you are disappointed in women because your vision of what they "should be" does not align with what they are in reality. But why should this cause you distress? What does it matter if women are fakes and cry babies? Did someone hurt you? Were you ever in danger, and f…
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/21 08:33 PM
1

/u/Whisper pretty much got to the heart of where I planned on leading the conversation. Envy only occurs when you are not satisfied with what you have. And what you have, as a young woman, is the status of being a woman. You haven't been around long to have anything else. And for some reason, you feel like there's something wrong with being a woman. But you did not ask to be born a woman. Or to be born at all. You did not arrive in this world burdened by obligation or debt. You simply arrived. A…
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/21 08:22 PM
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You're far more privileged than any man. People actually care about you, whether or not you've achieved anything with your life. It's easy to look up to the men who grab your attention, and capture your imagination, and feel envy at all the things you see them experiencing and accomplishing. What woman wouldn't crave all of that attention? But what about the men who don't grab your attention? The truck drivers, the sewage treatment technicians, the electricians, the garbage collectors, the custo…
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/21 04:23 PM
1

We don't save anyone. This isn't a movement. Each man must save himself using the tools that TRP provides free of charge.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/21 04:30 PM
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I have an issue with your post title. And I am nit-picky about it because the title is the first thing people read, so it sets the tone and expectations for the post which follows. At TRP, we are unconcerned with what women deserve. This is not a sub for women. You can literally go to any other subreddit, or indeed just about any other website, and see women's issues wallpapering the backdrop of people's assumptions. The entire human race gives a shit about women, all the time. It is men who are…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/21 03:33 PM
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Definitely
/r/TheRedPill24/07/21 06:32 PM
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You don't need a five-year degree to fuck a girl. You need it to fuck girls with low relative effort. There is no substitute for applying techniques in the field and gaining first-hand experience. And it's not five years to reach mastery. Mastery is entirely a function of how effective your scientific process is in assimilating good information, discarding bad information, and distilling it all into the most efficient techniques.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/21 12:43 AM
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Apart from sex, there is no answer to the question of what men want from women. However, what a particular man will want from a particular woman will vary from man to man, and from woman to woman. RPW aims to teach each woman how to discover what a particular man wants by developing tact, empathy, social grace, and other feminine virtues.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/21 06:55 AM

No. Believing that the Meyers-Briggs personality index is a means of "measuring personality" is a mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 02:22 PM
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Prefer her for what purpose? The type of woman a man will have sex with can be different than the type of woman a man will LTR-up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 04:53 PM
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If men wanted to date leaders and equals, they'd date other men. Being the best supported he has is your best approach.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/21 02:24 AM
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It is only when a man makes this protective instinct his servant, rather than his master, that he is able to adopt the behaviour of a high-value man, who is indifferent to women rather than protective, because of the sheer abundance he experiences of their attention. When it's up to your mind to heal yourself, then it's because of your mind that you became ill in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 06:26 PM
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Lmao this comment makes me proud
/r/askTRP10/06/21 07:52 PM
6

Can we persuade you to stick around and impart some of these lessons you have learned to new readers?
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/21 05:42 PM
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Those failures were formative. They were a part of making you into who you are now. Everything that has happened had to happen in order for you to have the perspective and wisdom that you have now. Don't make the mistake of assuming that you would be the same present man if the past had been different. Embrace everything.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 06:02 PM
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There's a post in the main sub. "So you got a stranger pregnant" or something like that. Read it.
/r/askTRP29/05/21 02:01 AM
5

I am purple pill for cultural reasons Are you saying that you knowingly deceive yourself about reality for the sake of your feelings?
/r/askTRP26/05/21 03:40 PM
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Anyone officially endorsed by our network will be mentioned in our main sidebar. It's likely that anyone else giving Red Pill advice, especially if they're selling it, is a huckster.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 03:38 PM
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If you want women's respect, never tell them anything that might lower their impression of your volition. If you need to talk to someone, confide in a male friend, male mentor, male parent, or male professional counselor.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 09:58 PM
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FDS is a bunch of women trying to make each other feel better about their lack of dating success.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 05:21 PM
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Here's the entirety of the human mating and pair-bonding process, from start to finish, from the perspective of a successful male: Develop skills and values that allow you to project confidence and assertiveness. Women will be attracted to this. Of the women who are drawn to you, test them for submissiveness and obedience to you. Embrace the ones who obey you, and ignore the ones who don't. Teach these women how to please you. This can include, but is not limited to: Have clear expectations for …
/r/askTRP18/05/21 09:45 PM
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It can buy freedom, but freedom to do what? Whatever you want. That's the thing: TRP is a toolbox, but a toolbox doesn't come with a set of instructions on what to build. It's up to you to discover what you are destined to do, and then choose the tools from the box that will allow you to accomplish it. Do some soul-searching. Try your hand at different things and choose the experiences that really give you a deep sense of satisfaction and fulfillment. The goal here is sustainable happiness, not …
/r/TheRedPill16/05/21 11:33 PM
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Money cannot buy happiness. It can only buy pleasure. Exactly. The nearest thing to happiness that money can buy you is freedom. With freedom, you can pursue long-lasting happiness. But you can just as easily squander that freedom in pursuit of short-lived pleasure. In order to successfully exchange freedom for happiness instead of pleasure, you need to have the right information. That's what we teach here. That is The Red Pill.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/21 07:45 PM
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Look for the points and endorsement tags. They're there to help you sort good info from bad.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 08:24 PM
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But it does guarantee a higher chance of people attempting to do all the things that are required to keep a relationship together. I know my perspective seems bleak, transactional, and devoid of love to you. I am making a strong case for it here precisely because so many men experience marriage in this way. I know, because I have rehabilitated a great many of them. Men's needs often go completely ignored. Looking at the whole institution from the bottom line matters here when trying to help a pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 09:55 PM
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Not getting married eliminates the risk of divorce, and thus makes it easier to walk away/absolve oneself of responsibility of the other person. In it’s essence, you’re not fully committed and want an easy out. Marriage and commitment are not synonymous. If they were, then married people would never cheat. Getting married does not magically make you infinitely patient or infinitely self-sacrificing. A person's enthusiasm for their partner determines their willingness to sacrifice other prerogati…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 05:17 PM
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There's only one tangible benefit for a man (in the US) getting married: he gets an additional tax break when filing a return. That benefit doesn't even come close to offsetting all of the risks associated with marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:04 PM
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You can have a supportive partner without being married to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 04:03 PM
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It's pretty clear that most of these guys haven't read or understood my Guide to Managing Bitches.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 05:48 PM
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You reward them for obedience. But you need to give them an order before that can obey it. So if you don't want a bitch to be more than a plate, don't have any orders for her other than "get me off".
/r/askTRP28/04/21 05:36 PM
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Women don't want to win. They want to wait at the finish line for the winners.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 06:18 AM
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The Red Pill is just a metaphor for accepting the world as it is, not as you'd like it to be. You cannot OD on reality. This guy is just a sperg and has no practice navigating social situations deftly.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 11:22 PM
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This is an excellent answer. Mods, point this guy. /u/crazyhorseinvincible , /u/EpicLevelCheater
/r/askTRP27/04/21 11:20 PM
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Here's my secret for caramelizing onions: Start by pre-heating your oil so that the onions sizzle the moment they hit the pan. An oil with a high smoke point is ideal. Right after the onions go in, add a vinegar to the onions. The vinegar reacts with the onion sugars and renders them sweeter with a little bit of tang. If you want a dark rich flavour, use dark vinegars like balsamic. If you want a lighter more citrusy flavour, use light vinegars like red wine or apple cider. This last part is key…
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/21 04:07 PM
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Here's an insight you may not have had yet: you have to own your woman before you can own your kids.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 08:06 PM
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This is a good list. Also, install surveillance in your home.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 06:54 PM
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They're easy lays, and very open to experimentation in bed, provided you take the role of leader and teacher. Don't LTR them under any circumstances.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 01:27 AM
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There doesn't seem to be. There is. That's why we made this place, to trumpet it from the rooftops, that way guys aren't walking around clueless and easily exploitable. Read my Guide to Managing Bitches, and next time don't give a bitch more commitment than she has earned. Don't accept credit, cash payments only. Women never pay their debts, because they didn't evolve to know what credit is.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 12:40 AM
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Get this Johnny-Come-Lately moralizing horseshit off my front page. There's a very good reason this place is misogynistic, and you haven't been here long enough to understand why.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/21 05:52 AM
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Then it's your own fault for catching feels. You're giving her more non-sexual time than she has earned, and your brain is trying to rationalize the time you're spending. Stop giving this bitch time until she's giving you massages, cooking you food, sending you goodnight texts, and sucking your dick on command. In the mean time, find other sloots to bang.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 05:49 AM
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You caught feelings because you're treating her like a girlfriend. You're spending non-sexual time with her and giving yourself an opportunity to bond BEFORE she has even earned it. You said she doesn't initiate. Does she even text you at all without you texting her?
/r/askTRP17/04/21 05:23 PM
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Cancel culture is a set of tools for making yourself feel like a good person, by saying things that other people would praise you for. People participating in cancel culture use it to substitute feeling good for a lack of any real achievement in their lives. It doesn't have an end goal in and of itself. Any end effect it has will be an emergent property of the behaviours of its components participants, although certain wealthy or socially influential individuals might be able to steer it somewha…
/r/askTRP12/04/21 05:32 PM
2

The "original idea" is a mythical creature. Pretty much everything we've ever said here in TRP is some regurgitation or rehash of something already observed and written about by some ancient man from eras long past. In order to be truly original, you'd have to be avant-garde on the order of Albert Einstein's Theory of Relativity. Don't let the existence of an article dissuade you from writing on a subject if you've got insight and a burning passion to share that insight with the community. What …
/r/askTRP08/04/21 09:55 PM
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Nah, this will be something else; an expansion on understanding WHY bitch training and management is necessary in a relationship, and also why women have generally made piss-poor leaders and horrible political choices as voters throughout history. My Loving Bitches guide is still in the works. Doing more experimentation.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 08:07 PM
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It's been kicking around in my head. Haven't had time, with everything going on. Now's a good time as any to pull up the ol rough draft.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 02:42 PM
2

Lmao look at this retard
/r/askTRP08/04/21 05:08 AM
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They key to really selling this is to act entitled. Ever notice how women get all twisted up about male entitlement? Women associate entitlement with power. So an entitled male is a powerful male, and powerful men generate tingles. Entitlement is behaviour that is powered by the assumption that your surrounding environment belongs to you. If something belongs to you, you will do whatever you want with it. So if she belongs to you, then you'll eat fries off her plate, physically move her because …
/r/TheRedPill07/04/21 04:34 PM
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You haven't been making your bitch work for her rewards. This is why she doesn't appreciate them, or respect you for your effort. Women don't have any concept of social credit or debt. They only understand sex and relationships on a cash basis. Goods and services exchange hands, that's it. If you're not "charging" your wife for all of your assistance, she'll treat it like an entitlement. Read my Guides to Managing Bitches and Training Bitches. It'll be harder for you since you're already married…
/r/askTRP06/04/21 09:30 PM
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She's still judging what you are by testing you. If you cuck out, she'll make you an orbiter. If you take charge, you'll be her sexy, dirty little secret. Proceed accordingly.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 03:46 PM
1

Hmm tru dat. We could use this as a spring board for promoting that new pheromone shampoo and peacock feather earring combo package we discussed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 06:31 PM
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D00d, not in front of the suckerz. We can't ban people here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 05:18 AM
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It's pretty inevitable. You build a strong product and brand, and then the scammers come along using facsimile of the brand you built to trap the unaware. And as you said, reddit interfering with our sub's exposure doesn't help. But we're doing what we can to make the information as readily available as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 12:12 AM
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Founder of TRP here. We cannot stop people from co-opting our brand name and using it to sell their snake oil. All we can do is offer our information for free and hope men come to us first when they are ready to rehabilitate themselves. The duty to distinguish good information from bad will always be the responsibility of the consumer.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 12:01 AM
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The crypto icon should totally have a dick in it.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/21 12:14 AM
3

Correct. This is the version of the phrase I have long advocated. The fact that you have come upon it yourself means you're coming into the correct attitude about where real power and value lies. Keep it up.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 10:36 PM
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I wrote on this subject back in the seduction days. I call it the Signal of Opportunity. To put it simply, women will "escalate" by providing you with signals and signs that you are clear to escalate. This accomplishes two things: It spares her the responsibility for the outcome, which women do compulsively. It functions as a test of your level of initiative and dominance, which she must be assured of constantly if she is to take the risk of breeding with you. When a woman gives you a SOO, you m…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/21 04:39 PM
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Women only earn 0.7 units of misogyny for every 1.0 units of misandry that men receive. We need to hate on women more and close the sexism gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 03:29 PM
1

The other thing I would recommend spending on are the hobbies and pursuits that give one's day-to-day living more enjoyment. Planning, saving, and manoeuvring for financial independence takes time, but it ultimately leads to greater contentment. To make ourselves discontent in the pursuit of contentment would like pouring beverage into a perforated cup.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 06:22 AM
1

Read my guide to training bitches.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 09:46 PM
1

Don't see her unless she makes it enticing for you. That includes her not bitching about you ignoring her drama. If you show up and all of a sudden she confronts you about it, just smile, turn around, and go somewhere else without a word.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 12:53 AM
1

I wouldn't even be in her vicinity unless it was to have a good time. Do you just run into this chick on a day-to-day basis or something?
/r/askTRP27/03/21 04:36 PM
3

Am I doomed to playing a submissive role in my relationships... or to the world with this mindset? Do I always have to have power for things to be steady with people of high value? Yes.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 04:03 PM
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Don't see her again until she calms down. Make her understand, with your behaviour, that you don't tolerate bullshit or drama. Women aren't complete idiots. They know what keeps a man around and what drives him away.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 04:03 PM
3

Yes. The problem is that most modern men are not normal, healthy, or self-respecting.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 03:58 PM
1

The girls I'm dating are from the economic lower class, but in terms of attitude they're definitely upper-class bound. It's all about attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 03:47 PM
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Go no contact. You're better off alone than being disrespected. Have some dignity.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 03:47 PM
5

Your original post proposed a change to an existing model. I'm saying the model doesn't have to be changed for the sake of conceptual symmetry, because your proposal contains assumptions that come from your personal values. Those assumptions colour the model in ways that make it less accurate and useful to guys who may not share those values.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/21 05:17 PM
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As a man with both a soft harem and two slave girls, I would say that there is no male equivalent to "alpha fucks, beta bucks". The reason for this is that eggs are expensive and sperm is cheap. Once a woman becomes pregnant, she must secure resources for herself and her offspring. If the man she recruits as provider is not the same man she recruited as impregnater, there will be a conflict of interest between the man and the child. Because the child represents a significiant investment of time …
/r/TheRedPill18/03/21 04:06 PM
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Remember your audience. We're talking to a guy who will be living off the charity of his father until he can get on his own feet. At this early stage (with an assumed net worth of $0, and possibly less), anything that saves him money and gets his net worth moving in the positive direction is preferable. He can decide for himself how frugal (or not) he wishes to be, and what his day-to-day life will look and feel like. Maybe he wants to fix his own HVAC. Maybe he doesn't need or want one.
/r/askTRP17/03/21 08:29 PM
1

Funsize could maybe train as a backpack.
/r/askTRP17/03/21 08:15 PM
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Check out the blog of Mr. Money Mustache for ideas on frugal living strategies. He's got a massive archive. Read all of it. Once you've done that, read Mad Fientist for strategies on how to safeguard your income from taxes and maximize your acceleration towards retirement.
/r/askTRP17/03/21 05:55 PM
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So what you're saying is that when someone else threatens to punish you for failing to meet their objectives, the urgency feels real. But when you fail to meet your own objectives, it's perfectly okay. Be my indentured servant, then. I bet I can come up with all kinds of uses for you that will make my life better.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 10:20 PM
4

It's not a matter of willpower, it's a matter of habit. Treat it like a non-negotiable aspect of your life, and adjust everything else you do around it. Make sure you arrive exactly when you planned. You achieve long term goals with discipline, not with motivation.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 05:24 PM
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Your behaviour towards a man is what determines his experience of your company - being kind, thoughtful, tactful, and attentive. That is ultimately what he will care about. A colourful sexual history is a side-effect of the things which cause relationship problems, not a cause of it.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/21 04:15 PM
4

That's their problem.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/21 08:41 PM
2

Lol if a guy is struggling to embrace abundance mentality, knowing that women need plumbers isn't really gonna help much. That's not the kind of "being needed" that he's going for. Knowing how to fix a toilet is one more way you can belittle a woman when her toilet goes on the fritz. Use every tool in your arsenal.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/21 02:00 AM
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This is the correct answer.
/r/askTRP20/02/21 05:52 PM
6

It's the advanced-level twist on the old adage. You're not her's. It's just her turn.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 03:39 AM
1

What are some things I can do to stop thinking about my past BP cringing ways? Smear peanut butter in your armpits, do a handstand, and yodel from the highest nearby elevation. Trust me, I'm endorsed.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 06:54 PM
1

Karma is "justice without the satisfaction". And there's no such thing as justice.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 11:24 PM
5

How did you reconcile Christianity with Red Pill Sexual strategy? You don't. Christianity takes the world as it wishes it were. The Red Pill takes the world as it is. It is possible to observe some of Christianity's restrictions while being red pill, but you are merely handicapping yourself.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 04:25 PM
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Nothing. Everything I have done up to this point, and everything that happened as a result, had to happen for me to become the person that I am now. The same is true of you. It is folly to invent some arbitrary alternate starting point in the past, draw a parallel line in time to an equally fatuous present, and ascribe the deficiencies between your current life and your ideal life to the differences between those two decision lines. No one can know how differently circumstances might have been. …
/r/askTRP29/01/21 07:21 PM
6

This is exactly the kind of shit we used to discuss during our couch talks in the good old days. Good stuff, bro.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/21 07:00 PM
1

This is meat-and-potatoes straight out of my Guide to Training Bitches. Nicely written. IOIs are nice, but compliance is the only definitive measure of a woman's attraction. And compliance can only be achieved by taking charge. The recipe is simple. Seize the initiative and boss women around. Reward the ones who submit. Ignore the ones who buck.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/21 06:53 PM
2

Dear askTRP: The paint on my walls is peeling. My curtains are gone. The water is boiling in every room. It's really hot inside my house. And every time I breath, I gag on smoke. Is my house on fire?
/r/askTRP23/01/21 04:57 PM
1

This is the correct answer.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 04:53 PM
22

Dude, she's a chick. Tell her what to do. Tell her to crawl on all fours to the edge of the bed and suck you off. Tell her to lie on her back and curl her knees up, so you can pound her cervix. Tell her to smear peanut butter in your armpits and yodel the State Anthem of the Soviet Union. Whatever gets you off. She's your toy, but she has no idea how to do her job until you tell her. So tell her.
/r/askTRP21/01/21 06:19 PM
24

Your instincts are dead-on. She's getting promoted by her boss, one inch at a time. Time you packed up and moved on. Silently, and without discussion.
/r/askTRP21/01/21 05:05 PM
5

Trash women looking for trash men. Rise above that shit, escape the crab bucket, build a life that doesn't revolve around petty displays of dominance, and get yourself some real power. Then, the clean bitches will be lining up for you.
/r/askTRP19/01/21 07:07 AM
8

I would love to hate fuck her. Make her suck the forgiveness out of you.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 01:33 AM
6

It’s seems kinda sad that someone would seek their body for twenty bucks. That’s just low. No. That's free market economics.
/r/askTRP17/01/21 06:05 AM
24

I cannot look at my woman as a child. In doing that, I will make the mistake of removing the sense of her being responsible for her behaviour. That's not how you treat children. Children misbehave as a way of searching for boundaries. They will continue to misbehave for as long as you let them get away with it. The same is true of women. Positive and negative reinforcement come into play, as a part of operant conditioning. The proper way to deal with both women and children is to make them respo…
/r/askTRP16/01/21 10:42 PM
38

Look bros, I've been here for a while and dealt with many women. Young or old, every single one of them has been illogical and randomly started drama/arguments for no reason. Yes. And? A few minutes ago, I just received yet another irrational, stupid crazy paragraph from yet another woman, again. Full of shit tests and stupid such illogical points. So handle it the way TRP recommends. Or don't, if you don't feel like it. I think that message might have tipped me over the edge. Wtf is wrong with …
/r/askTRP16/01/21 08:14 PM
7

This is wrong. "Alpha" and "beta" are not descriptions of men. They are descriptions of behaviours. There are alpha behaviours and there are beta behaviours, and all men are capable of both. Furthermore, both alpha and beta behaviours have uses in your life, depending on your individual circumstances and goals. If you're avoiding using beta behaviours because it feels shameful to you, then you are only using half of a full toolbox.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/21 04:48 PM
1

I understood your meaning. It's the same difference. Government services are always the worst. They're the worst because the government has no incentive to provide better service. In most cases where a government provides a service, it is usually the only game in town with regard to that service. You can't shop elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 10:38 PM
3

Religion is still just as important in western cultures. Except that, instead of belief and fealty in a god, monolithic ideologies like democratic socialism demand fealty to groupthink. They don't like competing religions.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 06:29 PM
1

Government regulating anything is what leads to problems. It's why abortion isn't entirely legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 06:24 PM
2

Government regulating anything is what leads to problems. It's why abortion isn't entirely legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 06:24 PM
5

There are none. This subject has been covered to death, and circumstances have not changed.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 08:23 PM
3

The only way to motivate a woman to not cheat is to be so far superior to her other options that betrayal feels too risky. It's not a guarantee (nothing is), but it's the most reliable way. And it has the added advantage of giving you plenty of options if she fails.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 05:39 PM
12

Don't waste your time explaining things to a woman. Just give her a colouring book.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 09:00 AM
1

You say this like women have a choice in being hypergamous. They don't. It's an instinct hardwired at birth. You may as well be talking about whether women should be born with antlers or foxtails.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 07:33 AM
25

Women's purpose is whatever you want it to be. Their submissiveness makes them highly malleable. If you learn the moves, you can train them to serve whatever needs you may have.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 07:23 AM
5

That's understandable. You've been in their shoes, and you can look with regret on the ways in which you let yourself be exploited. The best thing you can do for these lost boys is not pity them, or lift them up. It is to be an example for them on how to lift themselves up, and what the result can look like for them if they put in the sweat equity.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 04:52 PM
10

Every man is responsible for reading, watching, listening, and then verifying Red Pill material in the field. The field is the ultimate bullshit test. If a man is not testing and verifying the things he learns in the field, then his defeat, humiliation, and failure to grow are his own fault. Do not pity men, and do not concern yourself with their development. You can only save yourself.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 05:13 AM
83

You are now single. Not that she needs to know. You're just going to become very unavailable very suddenly. She'll soon discover that the only way to see you will be if she offers sex and makes it very convenient for you (i.e. she comes to your place on demand).
/r/askTRP24/12/20 06:42 PM
19

But where would we be if we could have earned $15k per month at 18? Exactly. Welcome to the universe. Nothing is fair, balanced, or planned. You have no control over the circumstances of your birth. Everyone strap yourselves in for a ride of breathtaking inequity. For those among you who were fortunate enough to be born in a relatively peaceful, stable, and well-provisioned part of the planet, you'll not have to deal with certain challenges that other guests will face. Count yourselves fortunate…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 02:20 AM
9

Bear in mind the difference in your earnings horizons. OF-thot can only capitalize on this boon for a short window while her youthfulness is still on her side. Your earning potential as an investor only grows as you gain experience.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/20 11:58 PM
1

How do you know it's not the kind of disrespect that comes with being insecure and feeling mad at how little you care for her? Because I'm following the rules of Training Bitches. I'm testing her compliance by giving her escalating demands, and rewarding her obedience with bonding gestures. Do that properly and her insecurity will be much more manageable.
/r/askTRP14/12/20 03:58 PM
10

There's a distinction here that is critical to understand. Under circumstances of attraction (that is, the girl is definitely attracted to you and believes you to be the best of her available options), then mate guarding occurs in two arenas: the social, and the physical. A woman who is attracted to you will mate guard herself in the social arena. She will deflect and redirect attempts by competitors to win her over, and no intervention is necessary on your part. In most civilized situations, a …
/r/askTRP14/12/20 03:25 AM
2

Women are submissive by nature. But everything in their social environment tells them that it is wrong to express that submissiveness. Feminists (and the shameless businesses that pander to them) endeavour to shame women out of following their instincts.
/r/askTRP12/12/20 05:14 PM
94

she told me she was going to take it all down because 1 month of selling herself out was worth less than taking 1 extra shift at work. She did take it down. Kinda sad. It's not sad. It shows just how cheap pussy is.
/r/askTRP10/12/20 03:31 AM
4

It doesn't matter if they should or not. The fact is that they don't, and there's an evolutionary reason for this. The universe doesn't care what we would prefer.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 06:29 PM
0

Women can't accomplish shit without men to do the dangerous, filthy, or challenging work. Who cares if they hate men? What matters is that they need men. Far more than men need them. Understand your value, maximize it, and leverage it to squeeze your juice out of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 08:34 AM
1

"Keep your hands to yourself." Spoken in a firm tone and with eye contact.
/r/askTRP23/11/20 04:15 PM
1

You have no idea of how many guys wish they had found this community at your age. You're fine. Go out there and make glorious non-permanent mistakes to learn from.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 03:54 PM
52

She already thought that. She was on a dating app ffs.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 03:48 PM
10

It's not that you cannot show any emotion, it's more that you should not seem to be defeated by your emotions. Here's the proper way to do this: manufacture false vulnerability about something over which you have complete control. Then, look like you're opening up to her, that way, you can appear to be "in touch with your emotions" but also appear completely in control. Bitches eat that shit up, and it's a powerful reward in exchange for their obedience. Otherwise, never show them any real emoti…
/r/askTRP15/11/20 05:48 PM
7

Newsflash, scrub. Women's emotional maturity caps out at age 18. They will all leave you the moment they are convinced that you are no longer capable of protecting them.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 05:42 PM
5

She has to believe that hoes 001-525 are still texting you on the reg
/r/askTRP15/11/20 05:38 PM
0

There is no way to measure this. Attractiveness is entirely a matter of individual opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 05:35 PM
-1

I don't remember who said it, but: "I love high school girls. No matter how old I get, they stay the same age."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 05:36 PM
2

Title Hmm, this seems like it was written by a female. Lemme check... I’m a 25 year old woman. Yep. I’ve come to terms with my recent break up. Text wall Oh dear...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 02:50 AM
6

Never apologize for who you are or what you want to do with your life. When you told this girl upfront that you would be seeing other girls, she knew what she was signing up for. Don't chase her. Continue doing as you please. If she reaches out, she reaches out. If she doesn't, learn your lesson and never apologize going forward.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 03:57 PM
3

Not every girl will hurt you. None of them can hurt you. Have you ever watched a girl try to lift her own suitcase?
/r/TheRedPill07/11/20 08:27 PM
17

Don't hang out with losers.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 04:17 AM
2

It's all under "References" in the side bar, my "Bitches" series. I have a fourth "Bitches" post stewing around in my head now.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/20 04:52 PM
14

Yeah ok. I'm not going to let you gloss over my response just because you don't have an answer to it. You may be nuanced in your life but I've seen my fair share of friends who took TRP too literally because of comments like yours. Some of them got wiser surprised and started to repent TRP. It's their loss, and one could argue that they never truly learned TRP because of it, but an understandable human reaction when people started distancing themselves from them. They were just guys who hadn't l…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/20 04:49 PM
29

I've been in the TRP community for years I created the TRP community all those years ago. You're welcome for the place to bitch. but when you also mistakenly add "controlled" and "ruled" you do an autistic mistake of looking at the world black and white Funny thing about autistics: they tend to take what they read or hear literally, at face value. Without practice, nuance generally eludes them. Keep practicing.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/20 03:38 AM
57

Wrong. Women want someone else to take control. They abhor responsibility and blame, because with blame comes the risk of being shunned and hated. They depend upon others to survive, so they try desperately to uphold their reputations at all cost (or, in twisted feminized societies, to pretend like reputation does not matter). Women are happiest when someone else is at risk for being hated and shunned; when someone else is in control. You're probably confusing the way in which women dislike bein…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/20 03:35 AM
359

You cannot control her. Yes you can. Women crave to be controlled. To be owned. To be led and guided. To be ruled. If you are not the one doing it, someone else is. Re-read my guides and keep your anger-phase rants off the main sub until you understand better.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/20 09:00 PM
4

Someone hasn't read my guides.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 03:44 PM
3

If she's interested she will escalate when you ask her to do something. You are the one escalating, not the girl. Giving her an instruction to follow is the escalation move. Her compliance is the sign that she is interested. Judging from your adivce to OP I suspect you're practicing this correctly, but I wanted to clarify the terminology for our readers. Words matter.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 10:14 PM
10

This is not the correct answer. A strong man claims ownership of his things. A wise man understands that a woman only feels "condescended" when the opinions of her friends matter more to her than your opinion.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 07:53 PM
20

This is the correct answer. You don't ask a girl out. You tell her where to be and when. This is a simple step in the process of teaching her obedience.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 05:21 PM
23

But I don’t want to block her because she didn’t do anything wrong. Yes she did. She decided you weren't worth her effort. You don't need that kind of negativity in your life. Ghost the bitch and never look back.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 07:40 AM
1

Look into consensual non-consent, if you aren't already practicing it.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 10:07 PM
1

Are you also demanding and entitled outside of the bedroom?
/r/askTRP26/10/20 09:17 PM
27

Correct. Women are water. They assume the shape of their container.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 04:32 PM
30

It's our pleasure. We're here because we enjoy giving back. Be sure to give credit to yourself, too. It's painful admitting that you've been wrong. Overcoming the pain, and approaching the world once again with open eyes and ears, requires a willpower that not many modern men possess.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/20 09:31 PM
1

Yes, thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 09:05 PM
14

"Alt-right" just means "enjoying life without some's fist up your ass like you're a human sock puppet". It's how the weak-minded rationalize their slavery as something pleasant.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/20 06:13 PM
122

Society may lack a positive identity for men, but that's only tragic if one depends upon society to define oneself. We're in the business of teaching men to define themselves. That's the strength that has built everything we know.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/20 05:26 PM
7

More important than her appearance was her behaviour. Towards the end of the featurette, they film her during a pickup attempt, and she's doing everything that a nice guy simp would do. You can see her target trying to politely reject Ned with his sad-sack nice guy attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 07:04 PM
6

She did quite a thorough job trying to impersonate a man, taking acting and elocution lessons. And yet, people still thought of "Ned" as being effeminate and gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 06:57 PM
1

Who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 04:47 PM
4

Self Made Man
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 04:33 PM
16

This experiment has already been tried. Nora Roberts Vincent disguised herself as a man for over a year and reported on the results, and part of the experiment involved trying to date women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 04:20 PM
1

Men don't want women to lead. They just want women to be more direct about giving signals that they're interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 04:13 PM
4

Is this how life's going to be from now on? You're in the depression phase. You haven't yet let go of your love for the prison that once contained you. Once you start to see the possibilities of your new truth-based powers, you won't even miss the way things use to be.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 03:07 PM
9

Yes. Just cut in politely and say, "Sorry, but I don't think this is gonna work out. It looks like you're X and I'm Y, and I don't want us to waste each other's time. Good luck." And then leave. Don't draw it out.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 08:10 PM
1

You're gonna be 29 anyways. Might as well be happy and employable when you get there.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 07:05 AM
-3

Moral of the story: women can't run shit, so don't even let them pretend to LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 06:26 AM
9

Women are fragile as hell. With enough conviction in your voice, anyone can destroy them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 06:07 AM
1

Your league is determined by your perceived fame. Check out YouTube prank videos of guys posing as celebrities, complete with fake entourage and body guards, and visiting shopping malls.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 08:27 PM
1

The entire subreddit, including satellite subs, are designed so that only those who are truly ready to transform can successfully navigate them and put them to use. Those who are not yet ready are led into a frustrating cycle of circular links and references, until finally they say, "fuck it, I'll never find a goddamn word-for-word guide telling me what to do, I'll just figure this shit out myself". And then they are ready.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 04:45 PM
18

The purpose of this sub is to guide morons who can't read away from the main sub so they don't pollute it with their snowflake questions.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 06:20 AM
7

Tell her that, as a single woman, she's free to do whatever she wants. Then, block her on all social media and devices, and ignore the inevitable deluge of accusations.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 06:28 PM
23

Here at TRP, we have built a powerful platform by creating an informative community, and by putting theories to the test in the field and sorting the wheat from the chaff for anyone who comes with a mind ready to learn. Of course, wherever you have success, you also have people trying to co-opt that label for their own gain. These people use the word "Red Pill" in their own branding so that you will be tricked into thinking they are legit by association. There's no way to stop this from happenin…
/r/askTRP12/10/20 06:17 PM
24

"She's not yours it's just your turn" is the mantra of the uninitiated. It's easy to fall into this kind of fatalism when you're just beginning on the journey and you haven't seen what kind of power you're capable of holding over women. "You're not hers, it's just her turn" is the perspective that a man will adopt once he comes into his own power. He learns to value himself, and to take pride in all the unseen effort he exerted to arrive there.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 06:05 PM
38

You're not hers, it's just her turn.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 04:06 PM
4

Your woman is one of the things that you own.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 06:19 PM
5

Begin by addressing the problem directly. Express your dissatisfaction with her actions, and remind her that you cannot lead her and forge a path forward with her loyalty divided. Imply that she will lose the benefit of your leadership and guidance if she continues on her current path. Then, recommence with asserting your agenda. Make your expectations clear, and give her clear objectives to follow so that she knows what she has to do in order to regain your favour.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 05:43 PM
5

You don't have to do anything, as long as your girlfriend remains obedient to you. Women are obedient by nature. If she's obeying you, then the relationship is in good standing. Keep working hard to remain the man she loves to submit to. If she ever starts listening to her parents instead of you, then initiate disciplinary proceedings.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 03:11 PM
15

You still have a ways to go. Every man has it in him to be a simp. Even you, now, sitting here scorning all the damage that "those losers" have done. "Simp" is not a social class or a genotype. It's an expression of an instinct that all men have inside of them: the instinct to protect women, often to the man's own detriment. That instinct has preserved human kind to this point, and that's why it is so powerful. Until you acknowledge this, you can and will continue to be susceptible to exploitati…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/20 06:47 AM
2

It's funny listening to the uninformed try to ask questions on subjects they think that they are informed about.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 10:57 PM
3

If you want to get help from this community, start by communicating in clear words. Not everyone knows what MLM means.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 06:09 PM
7

Here's what I'm getting at: Women could just as easily declare their relationship to be a "female-led relationship". But if they did this, then they would be held accountable whenever a decision they made had negative consequences. So, many women who are of low moral character have discovered a convenient dodge. They call their relationships "equal". That way, they have both a justification for being demanding and bossy, and an escape when something goes wrong: blame her boyfriend/husband. She g…
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/20 01:47 AM
12

Has anyone else noticed that in many supposedly equal relationships it is actually the woman who is the leader? Almost. A leader is more than just a decision maker. A leader is accountable. How often does your mother accept blame for a plan or decision that goes wrong?
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/20 05:56 PM
9

To banks who care about their potential borrower's credit history. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 02:26 PM
8

Perfect. Now get out there and take over the Illuminati, Russian Jew Boy.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 04:15 PM
5

Oh, and one more thing: Never take someone's words as fact just because they sound stern. Always do independent research, compare their insights with your findings and experience, and verify what they tell you. Be your own master.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 04:11 PM
13

Read Mr. Money Mustache and The Mad Fientist online. In short: Maximize your contributions to any and all tax-advantaged accounts (401K, HSA, etc). Keep your living simple. Don't spend money on solutions, but learn to solve problems yourself. That's where happiness comes from in the first place. Take all the money you save from not making frivolous purchases and throw it into a taxable brokerage account with low fees. NEVER get married. Never open a joint account of any kind with any female you …
/r/askTRP18/09/20 04:00 PM
4

Just change this from a question to a statement and I'd say it's perfect. "I have to do a taste test first."
/r/askTRP17/09/20 09:23 PM
4

It's like I can't enjoy my job because I'm not making progress. Progress by who's definition? In my perspective, progress means progress towards greater fulfillment and happiness. If you're happy with what you're doing and you're able to make a living doing it, you're exactly where you need to be. No further progress is needed until you decide otherwise. I'm willing to bet that you're happier than any feminist who would accuse you of not living up to their definition of potential.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/20 08:44 PM
3

My girlfriend is very single on social media That's funny, because you're single IRL.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 08:28 PM
4

If feminism really bought its own marketing line, it would praise you for making your own choices and doing what makes you happy. That's how you know they're full of it. You don't need anyone's permission to be happy. Do what brings you fulfillment, associate with the people who bring your life growth and joy, and forget the haters.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/20 08:06 PM
75

Posting nudes gets them attention. Making mouth-noises about empowerment gets them attention. Saying Me Too gets them attention. They're addicts. Treat them like the drug-addicted whores that they are and exploit them, just like feminism, Hollywood, liberal politicians, and their gangster ex-boyfriends have.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 02:42 AM
8

Most All women are children on the inside That's better.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/20 03:48 PM
5

due to a lack of "economically attractive" men physically attractive women ftfy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 02:12 AM
2

A man feeling unworthy most often comes from his feeling useless. He asks himself, "what have I done to earn this?" The solution: show him appreciation. Call attention to all the little things that he does that make you happy, and thank him for them. Tell him how much those little things mean to do, what effect his efforts have on your sense of security, your joy, your well-being. Showing him the positive effects of his work, mixed with feminine appreciation, is a powerful cure for low self-conf…
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/20 02:28 PM
11

When guys talk about "problems" in dating culture, they never question their assumption that dating was meant to be a balanced affair. It wasn't. In fact, it wasn't meant to be anything at all. It's the result of numerous factors simultaneously at play, otherwise known as an "emergent property". Of course a technological change is going to affect the social landscape. Technological changes always do that. The Red Pill supplies you with everything you need to know to adjust your approach to the c…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/20 09:06 PM
11

I don't see a problem. Just a situation that men need to react to at an individual level so they can continue getting laid.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/20 07:45 PM
3

First thing I notice is that you haven't really asked a question. Your question is implied in the post ("How do I feel better about all the things that have made me feel bad?"), but you don't seem to have a clear-enough grasp of your problems to know how to ask for help, or what kind of help you're looking for. So, what is your goal? What do you want?
/r/askTRP08/09/20 03:39 PM
38

You have to remember: the Red Pill is just a metaphor for "valuing harsh truth over pretty lies." The type of "red pill" behaviour you have described in your question (callousness, emotional distance) is the type you usually see in the male newbies. It is not characteristic of the men who have fully assimilated and learned The Way. Here's what you need to know: men have a powerful built-in protective instinct for women. That instinct will never go away. It is hard-wired in to male biology. Moder…
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/20 02:57 PM
1

You know, violence, aggression, (external) sexual validation, emotional constipation, misogyny/homophobia, isolation, hierarchy, etc You know. All those things that built civilization lol. Women are quick to complain about "toxic masculinity" when there's plenty of food and safety to go around. That's when they see the value of violence and callousness. But introduce a little unrest and danger, and women step away from the microphone real quick and learn to appreciate the value of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 02:46 PM
15

With self improvement so common, do women shit test us to find out if we are naturals ie. genetically alpha? If you fail the shit test she knows you weren’t genetically/naturally high value and therefore will give her suboptimal genes for children. This may also be why admitting you are not a natural and that you read RP, relationship advice etc is a major turn off. They want an effortless alpha: A guy who was jacked without putting in years lifting with a progressive overload routine. A guy who…
/r/askTRP04/09/20 03:59 PM
1

Delete IG you moron.
/r/askTRP28/08/20 05:48 AM
2

You're confusing the SMV with the RMV. SMV is determined mostly by your behaviour and your physique. Clothing in a certain style can create the appearance of strength, DGAF, etc, but one stupid comment out of your mouth can take it away again. Dress in whatever way is comfortable and socially acceptable for the area where you live, and worry less about creating an impression of wealth. In reality, frugality is a winner's attitude, because accumulating wealth gets you to freedom faster.
/r/askTRP28/08/20 05:47 AM
3

You're going to have a hard time finding someone with a liberal perspective and a demeanour of self-determination, self-reliance, and confidence. This is because the type of man who votes democrat is also usually the kind of man who prefers outsourcing his decisions to someone else (usually a government). Try searching among libertarian circles for men who believe in pro-choice and charitable efforts: but keep an open mind and be ready to be schooled on your assumptions about the government's ab…
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/20 10:19 PM
1

What parts of his ideology do you wish to see reflect a democrat perspective? A pro-choice stance? Higher taxes to fund universal health care? Anti-gun legislation?
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/20 03:22 PM
7

It depends on what you mean by "society". Society isn't a clearly definable thing. Society is simply the word we use to describe the outcome of millions of human beings interacting with one another with the goal of fulfilling their goals and self-interest. To have a "stake in something" means to put a personal resource at risk in the hope of getting a better return on your initial investment. So, to have a "stake in society" means to take a risk in interacting with other people with the hope of …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 08:37 PM
2

TRP has become a runaway success because it produces results. This is what draws guys to it in droves. Only computer science majors care about tautologies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 05:14 PM
2

The blueprint is the answer, junior. Keep moving if you don't like it.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 05:07 PM
5

With a pretty simple and straightforward answer in the sidebar.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 07:09 AM
3

Dick won't make her happy. She's filling a void with the wrong substance. And following her activities post break-up won't make you happy. You are also filling a void with the wrong substance. Stop being a moron bitch pussy and get on to the next chapter of your life.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 07:03 AM
1

Anyone can say anything on the internet. It's up to you to judge who is well-adjusted from among the millions of people leaving their two cents. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 06:56 AM
1

It's a symbolic gesture, nothing more. You don't need your father's permission to marry. You're not being traded for ten head of goats and help putting up a barn.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/20 05:47 AM
17

The tips for finding plates and girlfriends are the same. The reason is because it's up to the girl to inspire you to want to make her a girlfriend. Once you find a girl who is worthy of a LTR, you take the appropriate steps to train her. Side bar. Guides to Managing Bitches and Training Bitches.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/20 04:29 PM
2

No one is entitled to anything. You only get from people what you persuade or inspire them to give you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 03:10 PM
2

You haven't read the sidebar, or haven't understood it. Re-read my Bitch Management Guide.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 07:36 AM
11

Boss them around and act entitled.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 07:35 AM
1

80/20/alpha widow/hypergamy aren't philosophies, they're shorthand descriptions for observations made about women's behaviours. TRP began as an experiment to understand women's natures better in order to order to provide men better strategies for getting laid. Eventually, when enough men had abundance in their sex lives (and therefore clarity of thought), the movement shifted focus to giving men the tools to free themselves from slavery to their protective instincts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 10:55 PM
14

Straight up. You don't have to accept that shit. Shut out the fat bitch, keep your valuable time, and hang with your homies instead.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 10:29 PM
1

Because sex is the fundamental motivation of men, and men are the sex that gets shit done. Control women's sexuality and you control men's access to it. Control men's access to sex, and you get to decide what shit they get done. It's ultimately a struggle for power.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 10:26 PM
11

Exactly. At this stage, a man must embrace his responsibility to exercise control game and shape women into something that he enjoys, something that brings lasting value and happiness. Now is when his training of women begins.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 04:09 PM
1

As much as I find DiCaprio hot, I know he's probably scummy and doesn't respect women. You're tantalizingly close to the truth, but your assumptions are still keeping you from seeing it. "Which women doesn't DiCaprio respect?" Your answer would be "all of them". My answer would be "the ones who don't respect him". I am, of course, using the female definition of the word "respect" here. You are using the male definition, which is why you are doomed to be disappointed until you realign your perspe…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 03:58 PM
1

Oh I already know why she feels embarrassed to be less accomplished than her partner. I'm trying to get her to notice her own motivations by asking her to state them out loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 02:59 PM
1

You didn't answer my question. But I'll answer yours, since it's simple enough. Imagine how it would you feel if you were treated like a series of holes, rather than a person who is cared about and cared for. As a man, that's how it feels to have a gold digger interested in you. You're just a bank balance. And if a bigger bank balance comes along you suddenly vanish from her notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 02:59 PM
5

Why do you think there's something wrong with being less accomplished than your partner? Why does your relationship with him have to be a competition?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 07:00 AM
4

This is useless advice. Every woman is capable of these feats of insanity for a man who activates her tingles acutely enough.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 06:40 AM
1

Of course. Because getting laid is effortless for women, and requires skill and effort for men. You don't get credit for showing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 07:37 PM
7

This is also why mastering your emotions and developing patience with people is so critical. For many people who are unpracticed in the art of conversation and persuasion, being disagreed with can result in anger or frustration. That emotional reaction interferes with your ability to figure out which part of the brain you should be communicating with. I like to phrase it this way: changing someone's mind must be approached not as a challenge or a fight, but as an investment in them.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/20 05:49 PM
1

We want both. We'll take ONS with any attractive woman. Then, for the rare ones among them who are relationship-worthy, we'll make LTRs out of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 03:37 PM
16

Read my Guide to Training Bitches. Once you decide to promote a girl to the level of relationship, you are responsible for maintaining her and ensuring that her behaviour suits your requirements for the relationship. She will look to you for guidance on how to behave. If her lack of confidence bothers you, help her build it up. Teach her how to be stronger, and reward her for following your instructions so that she associates obeying you with good feelings and good outcomes. This is how you buil…
/r/askTRP11/08/20 03:21 PM
1

In a broken nuclear family, the children and parents will be estranged from one another in various permutations. Well, the parents are just children of the grandparents. There's no spending the weekend at the lake with daddy's dad if daddy's dad never stuck around for daddy. All it takes is one broken link to start weakening the chain further down the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 04:48 PM
0

Without the nuclear family, there is no extended family in close proximity. Everyone is distant and esttanged.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 04:08 PM
54

Get a safety razor and never look back. Closer smoother shave, and it costs $10 for a pack of 100 blades. My last pack lasted me six years.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/20 06:09 PM
2

"If you're not happy with reality, please raise your hand."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 03:35 PM
5

Fuck it up, learn from it, and move on to the next one.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 03:24 PM
6

Build rapport briefly. Leave them with some tantalizing tidbits that they'll only get the answers to on a date because it's a story "best told over beers" or some shit. Evoke their curiosity and give them a reason to want to see you. It's the same method you use for girls IRL, except these ones haven't met you face to face yet.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 09:25 PM
21

Good post. I wrote on this subject long ago when I was still frequenting the seduction subreddit. I call this principle the Signal of Opportunity. In essence, women do not make the first move. Instead, they position themselves so that you can more easily make the first move. This is about as much of a "first move" as you can expect a reasonably attractive woman to get. When a woman gives you the Signal of Opportunity, seize it.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/20 05:20 PM
1

Yes. RP has tested this and found it to be the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 06:54 PM
10

I know a lot of you will tell me to "just do it" but mentally something blocks me from doing so everytime. Every newbie thinks he has a unique mental block. Stop being a faggot, let go of desired outcomes, and just do it. Treat the outcome like wanting to see the outcome of a science experiment, and be ready to throw away the lab materials after if they don't produce anything useful.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 04:27 PM
2

What are you going to do to change it? Or are you just here to complain?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 02:36 PM
1

Yes. You will note that families have not been so thoroughly destroyed in places where dirt whacking is still the primary profession.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 09:30 PM
1

Our mating and pair-bonding instincts evolved in a very different environment than the one we live in now. In the past, it "made sense" (to evolution) for partners to stick together only long enough for their children to learn how to walk. Evolution's gambit was a numbers game: "make as many kids as possible given the constraints that are in place, and the ones that are fit will survive." Well, our environment has changed. We don't whack at the dirt with a stick for a living to produce grain any…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 04:17 PM
8

"How come evil guys like you exist?" Because you keep fucking us and making more of them.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 03:07 PM
2

You're not making yourself more persuasive by twisting my words into something that they're not. Those are the tools of the gaslighter, and gaslighters do not have productive, happy, healthy relationships. You're better than that. We have covered the subject of passion and sex at great length in this subreddit. If you have no read the fundamental materials, I suggest you do so. Refer to /u/Whisper's posts here and here.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/20 12:03 AM
-5

I know what the values are here. I built this place. Don't be rude. It is unbecoming of an aspiring girlfriend and wife.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/20 03:52 PM
-3

You don't do this. You will scare him away. Period.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/20 03:16 PM
17

Wrong. When you create an authority that ostensibly overrules all other authorities (i.e. government), you create an incentive to control that power. Cronyism comes from allowing government to have the final say. Power is either dispersed or concentrated. Whenever you concentrate it, you create incentives to control it. The answer to concentration is dispersion. A free market is the way to achieve this. Everyone has power in accordance with their individual buying power. People must be persuaded…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/20 06:32 PM
1

You have to understand the circumstances which provoke people to follow one mindset over another. FDS attitudes develop only in circumstances of resource abundance. In these circumstances, female values are prioritized because most of society's resource problems are solved, and people can devote their time and effort towards fixating on small, niggling concerns (things like perceived fairness). TRP is a perspective grounded in reality, and male values. Male values are prioritized in circumstance…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 04:23 PM
26

This is precisely why prostitution is illegal. If you could get your rocks off and think clearly for a negotiable price, then women would lose all their opportunities for free shit by stringing you along.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/20 02:56 PM
4

Good post. I would simply make the following adjustment: Let go of morals you did not decide upon for yourself. There's nothing wrong with having morals or principles. Having them is very advantageous in building trust with new allies. What matters is that you are not being pressured into having those morals. Instead, you have decided to adopt them for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/20 07:55 AM
1

Are you okay with being second choice? Are you okay with being a placeholder? You don't seem like you are. And you don't have to be.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 11:05 PM
2

No. You adopt a rule that if a woman wants to date you, she has to be okay with sharing you. Then, you don't get butthurt if a woman decides to say no to that. You just move on.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 11:02 PM
54

If you don't enjoy spending non-sexual time with your LTRs, then they are fuck buddies at best. Re-read my guides and get your shit right.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 05:37 PM
104

It will either depress you, or it will motivate you to never stagnate, to always hone your skills and keep yourself competitive and valuable.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/20 04:21 PM
2

Your life may very well end up being a lesson in what not to do. Check out the guides on the main sub for how to deal when you've gotten a bitch pregnant, and pray to your god that she isn't.
/r/askTRP02/07/20 03:10 PM
1

Because the ones who say it are lazy fatasses.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 03:58 AM
1

Instincts cannot be trained out. You can be made aware of them, and you can suppress them to a degree if you concentrate hard on doing so, but you cannot eliminate them. Your perception will always be filtered through them, and therefore your judgment will always be influenced by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 03:31 AM
17

Men defend women and overlook women's evils because men have a powerful instinct to do so. You won't train it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 12:29 AM
8

Have you ever ever given a homework assignment to your girlfriend and watched her get excited?
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 04:12 AM
21

This is the advanced attitude, when you recognize the value of your time.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 05:33 PM
0

It's fine. The purpose of this sub isn't to have a serious conversation. Everyone is here for entertainment. Why? Because Bluepillers and Redpillers have opposite assumptions and opposite purposes. They're not speaking the same language, and their goals are not the same. No meaningful communication between the two camps is possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 03:10 PM
12

"She's not yours, it's just your turn" is the mantra of the TRP new guy. It comes from a fundamental lack of faith in your own value and power. As you begin to build that power, you will catch glimpses of the REAL endgame mantra: "You're not hers, it's just her turn." Eventually, women will line-up for the privilege of sharing you.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 02:29 PM
3

Have a read through relationship_advice some time. Count the number of times you read a woman saying "my husband is reliable but I don't love him."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 02:22 PM
4

LOL you're well-practiced at moving that goal post. Keep it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 02:21 PM
10

He's just jelly
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 02:00 PM
7

The reason TRP is "common sense" now is because it dared to speak against the accepted narrative of a decade ago. TRP has been massively successful in improving the lives of men, and its readership has grown tremendously. Detractors of TRP hated this. But rather than admit that they were both wrong and indifferent to the problems of men, they just moved the goal post. "Well yeah, it's all just common sense." TRP turned it into common sense by circulating useful knowledge, while you were telling …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 01:59 PM
5

I created TRP. It has been demonized since before its beginning. It's not a movement anyway, so you need not worry about its appearance.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 02:19 PM
1

Do they disrespect you to your face?
/r/askTRP22/06/20 12:14 AM
1

I've dated a couple of models. What I found worked really well was making it into a game. Before you go out, say something like "Okay, let's bet how many guys will try and hit on you while we're out." It shows that you're not insecure about it, and when it happens it immediately reminds her of the game and how insightful you are, and preemptively deflects the guy's pickup attempt. Be playful and non-chalant about it.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 09:37 PM
0

Get revenge by dangling your commitment tantalizingly in front of Wall Women. Fuck them with a vague implication that commitment is possible, and never contact them again. Then, when that becomes unsatisfying, realize that you needn't pin your happiness on the behaviours of other people. Then you can stop being angry.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 09:35 PM
1

Better-looking women get access to more powerful (wealthy and influential) men who live in wealthy areas. They make babies together which also live in those areas with their parents. Did this really need explaining?
/r/askTRP21/06/20 09:33 PM
19

TRP is only wrong in the sense that people are also wrong when they say "the earth is a sphere".
/r/askTRP21/06/20 09:31 PM
8

You're winning. She's trying to make you mad. It means she still gives a shit what you think. Delete, block, and move on knowing that you've won.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 09:30 PM
3

Of course. Because men are the ones who get everything done.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 02:42 PM
62

Don't be "creepy", OP says. She lacks the self-awareness to know the full implication of the word.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 04:32 PM
2

This is the correct advice for beginners to follow. Dedicate yourself to Your Mission.
/r/askTRP18/06/20 03:02 PM
9

Use archive.is
/r/TheRedPill17/06/20 01:51 AM
107

"I mostly live off the sponsorship of my sugar mommies."
/r/askTRP16/06/20 06:38 PM
5

On any given day, the Red Pill is the biggest it has ever been. Because every day, new guys trickle in, start reading, and something resonates with them.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 02:46 PM
4

Women like complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 03:38 PM
8

Ask him for his contact info, and don't grab his ass after he gives it to you.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 06:22 PM
0

I avoid this by telling bitches upfront that they will be sharing me. Seduce them, bang them for the first time, and then when their pretty little heads are filled with hormones, give them the spoonful of bad news. Most will probably take it well and will be willing to share you. Some will decline.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 10:47 PM
1

Read my Guide to Managing Your Bitches in the main side bar. It covers the topic comprehensively.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 10:35 PM
5

Curse the gods, and the three sisters of fate who wove the tapestry of your failure before your birth. Stop pitying yourself, dipshit. Get out there, fail, learn the lessons, and come back and succeed with the new knowledge. Just like everyone else does.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 04:42 PM
15

Exactly. This isn't a "social issue" thing. It's a "what do I feel like jerking off to" thing. It only becomes a social issue if some piece of erotica reaches the public spotlight and people need to rationalize their interest in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 03:42 PM
1

No, this is a comfort test. Go read my Guide to Training Bitches.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 03:30 PM
7

Don't even end it explicitly. Keep your mouth shut and go pick up your stuff. Let her wonder why you're suddenly taking your possessions back. Use this as a litmus test for her give-a-shit meter.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 03:29 PM
9

You should always be spinning plates, keeping your game tight. Girls can feel it when you're settling in with them. Soft next your girl. Don't contact her until she contacts you.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 03:25 PM
2

Question: are you spinning plates?
/r/askTRP09/06/20 03:21 PM
3

My pleasure. I hope the articles have helped you.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 06:55 PM
12

They're just fucking. There's no need for a hard next. A better response here is to simply cap her at her current level. She's a fuck buddy now, and a fuck buddy is the best she can ever hope for with OP, because she has not shown commitment to him first.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 03:48 PM
1

Unhealthy for what purpose? You have to decide what your end goal or objective is before you can decide whether a specific action is destructive to it.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 03:42 PM
2

What the fuck is "destructive" behaviour? Is it behaviour that causes you to explode? I've never heard of anything like that.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 06:34 PM
28

Are you a man or a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 03:20 PM
5

I understand your perspective. But understand ours. We are teaching young men who haven't yet achieved a basic competency with human sexual dynamics, much less business acumen. They must wrest control over their lives first, before we can make any overtures about leading from the front. Society eats self-sacrificing men and then demands seconds, thirds, fourths, etc. Here, we teach men how to benefit themselves first and, if the opportunity presents itself, to make positive societal change as a …
/r/askTRP06/06/20 07:03 PM
17

Men have been doing this for decades, and it has made both sexes very unhappy. As it turns out, women hate being treated like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 04:03 PM
10

Exactly. Female sexual arousal is grounded mainly in a man's behaviour - his confidence. Confidence can be inferred from good grooming, posture, dress, etc, but these are not guarantees.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 03:51 PM
1

You're asking the wrong question. The real question is, why should WE date YOU? Women determine whether or men get sex. Men determine whether or not a woman gets to spend time with him again.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 04:27 PM
8

That's just it - it's not an ultimatum. An ultimatum would be, "If you go to this protest, I will break up with you." What we're saying here is, "In the past, girls who did stuff like this were never serious about dating me long-term." The difference is subtle, but it's there. It shifts the decision to end the relationship onto her.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 05:04 PM
1

She used you for attention, and you feel bad because you have oneitis. Ignore her and move on.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 04:08 PM
16

You're not overreacting, make it clear that she can't go to the protest while she's still your girlfriend I would frame it in a slightly different way. OP should imply that if she decides to go, she has decided to break up with him. Because only a woman who doesn't care about his perspective would do that. Put the responsibility in her hands.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 03:38 PM
5

RedPillWomen is a sister subreddit. The TRP network runs and administrates it. It is a place where women can discuss sexual and relationship strategies. It's not against you.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 03:37 PM
3

For fucking, I prefer them good-looking. For a relationship, I prefer any woman who isn't bitchy and jaded.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 03:09 PM
20

Don't smash your foot with a hammer and then complain to us that it hurts.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 02:58 PM
7

Remember, strength gain IS muscle gain. Use the iron as your metrestick, not the mirror. Size will come.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 03:28 PM
8

Rule #1 is applicable for just about everyone, public figures notwithstanding.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 09:38 PM
1

People with shitty credit scores would also love to push a "past doesn't matter" narrative. Unfortunately, your past behaviour is the only concrete indicator of possible future behaviours.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 03:02 PM
46

Be non-judgemental, and project an attitude that indicates that you've seen and experienced a lot romantically. Let her believe that she won't be judged or shamed for being honest. In my experience, whores can't help but try to impress a man with romantic experience. They'll usually bring up all the vile shit they've done in a misplaced attempt to look mature, worldly, and attractive. They can't help themselves.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 05:45 AM
2

There was a book made by a Lebian feminist who ended up in therapy after an extended period of trying to be a man. Yep. It's called "Self-Made Man". Interesting read.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/20 06:01 PM
34

Don't ask a girl for an LTR unless she will put YOUR best interests in front of hers. Wrong. Don't ask a girl for an LTR at all. She should be the one asking you for it. Relationships are what bitches want. Don't be a bitch.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/20 02:49 PM
0

Yes I would. Because if she's been dyking it up until now, she's probably fat and has a stupid hair dye job lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 03:33 AM
1

And studies show that men who are educated actually do care and do tend to pair with women who are educated. Yeah, but are they happy? Just a pro-tip that that “we don’t care about your DUHGREEZ” narrative is an insta-tell of what socioeconomic status you’re not in. I don't care about a woman's degree. What socioeconomic status am I not in? To give you as big a margin of error as possible, tell me which US federal tax bracket I don't have the privilege of being a member of.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 04:16 PM
4

When your behaviours are insulated from the price you pay for them, you tend to behave a lot less efficiently. Economists have found that freeways are far more congested than toll roads (no surprise here). But they also found that the cost of using toll roads was far less than the cost of using freeways. How can this be? Well, the price you pay in rush-hour commuting time, fuel consumption, vehicle maintenance, and health care (sitting on your ass in a car for two hours every day turns out to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 04:12 PM
2

Of course you don't. PhDs and stock holdings are trailing indicators of confidence and capability, which is what you do care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 03:23 PM
1

I mostly use this sub to laugh at the zoo animals. Very rarely, a good question will be asked and it will generate quality discussion.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 03:17 PM
6

Well surely intelligent men would choose women based on more than just their looks? Financial competence is the example you used in your OP. We choose our women based on demeanour. We care if you're kind, empathetic, considerate, and pleasant to be around. Attractiveness is nice, and can be improved via exercise, grooming, and hygiene to its genetic ceiling. What we don't care about is your PhD or whether you can choose a killer small-cap stock.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 03:13 PM
8

free You keep using that word. I don't think it means what you think it means.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 03:08 PM
20

That's not the most pertinent one. The most pertinent beta behaviours are the ones which made her decide to kiss another dude in the first place. Opening up, telling her everything, being vulnerable, etc.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/20 03:25 PM
96

what the fuck is even the use being in an LTR? if you have to constantly just be "on" and still get rekt, what the fuck is the actual point? Because you're doing LTRs wrong. You're still treating them as something you have to maintain. Maintaining the relationship is her job. She's the one who benefits from your emotional investment, so it's her job to sustain it by being a helpful presence in your life. Re-read my Guide to Managing Bitches in the side bar. The only thing you need to be maintain…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/20 03:23 PM
3

That women have no sympathy. At all. This isn't a new revelation. Florence Nightingale had similar insights about women in her time (the relevant quote begins at the last paragraph at the bottom of page 13).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 07:50 PM
7

This is the correct answer. Having the chick host places responsibility on her to manage some of the logistics. You must take the responsibility off her shoulders. Either help her coordinate a time when the two of you can be alone with plausible deniability, or just bang her at a place you control (like your apartment, or a hotel room, etc). If you make a woman take responsibility for any part of it, your chances of getting laid drop drastically.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 04:58 PM
2

No. Next stupid question.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 04:55 PM
0

I know someone’s going to flip out and say “see why do men have to play roles for women??” I do the same thing. We all do. We all play the roles that biology assigned to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 04:53 PM
2

Bitcoin is for retards.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/20 12:34 AM
2

You mean all the media portrayals that constantly mock fat or ugly women? The ones where women are portrayed as either dumb obedient side characters or bitchy assertive harpies? Which ones are those? Women's crimes are sensationalized because we commit less. We are held to higher moral standards. You can look this up and find research behind this. You'll need to source that. I'm willing to believe that women commit fewer violent crimes, based on what I know about human nature. But fewer crimes o…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 12:32 AM
1

No one deserves anything. In this universe, you get what you claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 11:51 PM
2

Women are constantly told that they are perfect creatures who can do no wrong. It happens in commercials, movies, and every other media portrayal of them. It's rare for women to take initiative and improve themselves. It will usually happen because they are inspired and encouraged to do so by a male relation (father, boyfriend), or because some unpleasant circumstance lights a fire under their ass (like The Wall).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 11:50 PM
2

Feminism is very much like a biological virus. It depends upon its host (an affluent patriarchal society) to survive and replicate, scorning the patriarchs all the while. And if left unchecked, both a virus and feminism will kill their host organism. In the case of feminism, the patriarchal society will suffer economic collapse, and feminism will disappear as women abandon it and either adapt to the new crisis economy or die.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 04:58 PM
2

The biggest douche is also the biggest opportunist. He'll take risks and reap the rewards. Women want that kind of sperm in them, because douchesperm gives their babies the best shot at survival in a world filled with competing douches. Learn the douche ways. Then you too can douche all over women.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 11:17 PM
1

You don't have to be married to have company, or to enjoy intimacy with your partner. Marriage provides no additional benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 04:39 PM
0

Look everyone, it's someone regurgitating the same platitudes we've a hundred times before from a hundred other well-meaning and ignorant people. But gosh darn it, she really seems to be sincere, so let's just take her at her word with no evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 05:46 AM
48

It's not because of political lines. It's because of built-in instincts. There is no human instinct to protect men. Men are supposed to be the protectors. Their sperm is cheap and replaceable, they are expendable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 03:38 PM
3

Just an fyi, the guide to getting laid like a warlord isn't one of mine.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/20 02:38 AM
18

Read the kinds of stories you want to be able to imitate. Take a stand-up comedy class or improv class. Join your local Toastmasters chapter.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 05:57 PM
81

No. Practice makes permanent. Perfect practice makes perfect.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 05:56 PM
4

Because you're off topic, Feynman. We're talking about self-motivation and self-discipline, not physics.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/20 07:50 AM
36

Is this a major red flag? It's not a red flag. Women like attention, period. It's what they crave after. They need attention and validation only slightly less urgently than they need air. Instead, this is a yellow flag. It's a signal of caution to you, that you need to step up your casual dread. I’ve been way too available to this woman for the past 4-5 months. Taking every phone call on her break and spending all my free time with her. Should I start ignoring her calls and distancing myself fro…
/r/askTRP14/05/20 07:39 AM
1

Arguing about the technicalities of a metaphor won't drop any panties, FYI.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/20 10:21 PM
2

The grind of studying is different than the life afterwards. Yes, you're sitting in a lab working hard now. But this is sweat equity you're investing in your future. In four years, you'll be very gainfully employed with plenty of free time AND money. You'll be perfectly poised to play a little social catch-up, using your newfound wealth and employability as a pivot to go where you want and do what you want. All those other kids who partied while they were at school will see their free time evapo…
/r/askTRP13/05/20 03:29 PM
12

That's what flirting is - men and women talking politely around the central goal of measuring each other's sexual worthiness and receptiveness. You use innuendo and double entendre to talk about sex while appearing to talk about something else. When talking to a girl, bring up a subject that can be taken as the subject itself, or as an implication of sex. If she responds to topic's sexual implication, then she's DTF. Arrange logistics and take what's yours.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 04:20 PM
2

In the course of learning a valuable lesson. Napoleon was wise enough to recognize his mistake and reflect on it. Be wise yourself, and learn from his mistake without having to first make it yourself.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/20 03:16 PM
1

You're almost correct. Yes, an algorithm is a procedure or formula for solving a problem. But an algorithm doesn't have a goal, it has an outcome. The person who implements the algorithm is the one with the goal. By choosing the algorithm in question, that person has determined that the algorithm's outcome will help them achieve part or all of their goal. Feminism is an algorithm that a woman uses to get free shit for herself from men by exploiting protective instinct. But if every woman wants s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 12:32 AM
0

"who they are" It's not quite who you are. It's one person's interpretation of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 06:15 PM
3

Not a fan of this new pseudo-conspiracy theorist angle that your comedy show has taken, bro. You're funnier when you're jacking tren and calling incels faggots. Everything is imposed on women top down, because they're at the bottom of every social pecking order by their own lack of initiative. Every self-proclaimed feminist I've ever fucked has begged me to fill her with babies. They're all closet incubators.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 06:14 PM
1

Feminism has no goal, because it is not a movement. It's an algorithm.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 04:39 PM
5

FDS women are unattractive, and more likely to be thought of as an option by unattractive men. They want to dispel this possibility by putting as much ideological and physical distance between themselves and incel men as possible. They don't want their real SMV/RMV to be revealed by proxy. They're like Salem witch burners tossing lit logs onto the pyre. They don't know much about witches, or witchcraft, or the will of God. All they know is, they're not the ones roped to the fire right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 04:38 PM
8

When women are allowed to freely explore and express their sexuality, it's funny how many of them end up being into slapping, choking, light bondage, and being treated like objects.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 04:35 PM
0

No one likes you for "who you are". Instead, people like or dislike you based on how they experience your company. If you bring value to their life (joy, new perspectives and experiences, learning, cooperation, etc) they enjoy your company and will treat you nicely. If you take value from their life (you complain a lot, you sulk, you're demanding, you have hidden expectations), then they will avoid you. Most modern women have no idea how to be pleasant company. They have no idea how to keep a ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 04:16 PM
6

Never assume your own gender, shitperson.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 04:07 PM
8

It is to wimmin.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 03:05 PM
8

She'll draw a picture of it and then have guys who majored in engineering create it for her. Then, Salon will write an article about how females are changing the face of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 01:15 AM
1

A+ shitpost. Would LOL again.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 09:40 PM
9

When a man feels he "can't love a woman after taking the Red Pill," it's because (almost universally) because his expectations are still out of synch with reality. You're still expecting women to act like something that they aren't, and then being disappointed when they inevitably fail. In short, you're loving women wrong. Learn to have the correct expectations of women. Then love them in the way you're supposed to love them. See /u/Whisper's linked article for more details.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 03:33 AM
3

Some women enjoy being submissive ALL the time Indeed. And eventually, a man learns that women are evolved to be submissive. The women who don't like male dominance yet are simply the ones who haven't seen enough evidence of it to make them comfortable with being overtly vulnerable.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/20 05:07 PM
1

Of course. The comment isn't for him. It's for anyone else who's reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 04:34 PM
10

You're never locked in a relationship. You're a guy. Relationships are what you provide for women - just as sex, service, and comfort are what they provide for you. If at any point you are unsatisfied with what a girl is providing you, you have the power to break it off and find someone better for the job.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 08:14 PM
2

I love reading these kinds of whining posts where people declare TRP to be dead or out of fashion. Like they're wearing it as some sort of fashion accessory.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 05:21 PM
5

Correct insights, overall. I just want to add, for the benefit of our developing readers here: She had not earned the privilege of OPs commitment. But she tried to shift responsibility, turning her lack of worthiness into his character flaw ("a lack of manhood"). Remember, it's the bitch's duty to give you a reason to promote her and give her more emotional investment. Don't be deluded into thinking you're not replaceable, it's just your turn. It is possible to become irreplaceable: by being the…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/20 04:50 PM
1

TRP is for whoever wants to make use of it. TRP is alive and well, and all of the collective knowledge is still there for anyone who wants to use it, free of charge.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 06:18 AM
4

This is something you supplement your life with, not focus your life around. Then say that. You're writing this guide to a community full of Ass Burgers. They'll use a guide like this as an excuse to steer clear of real social interaction, if you let them.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/20 07:10 PM
6

Or you can use the time to hone your day game, where there's less competition, less overhead, easier mate filtration, and more tangible sexual tension.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/20 06:12 PM
1

You don't have to want to "screw your partner over with a divorce" to want to be protected against someone else screwing you over in a divorce. There are RPW strategies for protecting yourself from betrayal by a man that don't involve treating him like an adversary. Men have a strong instinct to protect women. Your best approach is to tap into this by approaching him with kindness, vulnerability, and trust. It's hard to get a man to see you as vulnerable if your strategy involves covertly treati…
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/20 11:47 PM
-2

There is no meaningful distinction between a girlfriend and a wife. A wife is just a girlfriend who persuaded her boyfriend that she would never screw him over in the event of a divorce. Other than a small tax benefit available in certain countries, there is no material advantage to being wife over being a girlfriend. Unless, of course, you plan on screwing your partner over with a divorce. Then there's a huge distinction.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/20 04:03 PM
2

My life partner is kind, noble and even unemployed at this very moment but I wouldn’t trade him for anything in this universe. Certainly. That's each and every woman's choice to make. Sadly, we’re living in very different times where people are measured materialistically over personal core values. This is also each and every woman's choice to make. It doesn't matter what criteria other people use to measure your partner. It only matters what criteria you use. You're the one in the relationship w…
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/20 03:59 PM
4

This all boils down to one simple issue: if you're going to step up your target, you'll have to step up your game. The attractive, older gentleman is a better catch. He's already stuck in your mind. But because of his greater value, the competition for his commitment will be greater. If you want to upgrade, you must be willing to put in the work to beat your competitors. So ask yourself this: how confident are you in your ability to hold a man's attention and earn his commitment? If you are very…
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/20 12:27 AM
6

Tl;dr: what is it about me that makes men want to take advantage of me? You're asking the wrong question here. Men will "take advantage" of any woman they feel they can access. The real question is, why do men choose to girlfriend-up with other girls instead of you? Ask yourself this: what are you offering these men apart from sex? How are you incentivizing them to select you over one of your competitors?
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/20 04:19 AM
14

Men won't be impressed by your salary. They want you to be attractive, kind, feminine, and approachable. At best, a man will be unimpressed or unaffected by your salary. At worst, he will become insecure or uncomfortable. The latter might seem useful as a strategy for filtering insecure men, but it will also come off as bragging on your part, which is unfeminine and therefore unattractive to men who are not intimidated by it. Don't bother mentioning it.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/20 06:57 PM
1

What exactly is a "safe space" by your definition?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 04:34 PM
1

What you've stated in your title is actually the sex world summed up. In the dating world, that is the market for long-term relationships, it's most women who can't get a decent man, because the decent men don't find them worthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 04:33 PM
8

Put me in touch with this friend. I could use some quick cash lol.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/20 08:58 PM
30

What you are seeing is men's wariness of marriage. It's a dangerous proposition with no upside for them.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/20 03:31 PM
14

RPW is already about female empowerment. There are all sorts of guides here for bettering yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/20 03:19 PM
3

The longer a woman lives, the more time she has to develop expectations. Her greater life experience gives her more memories to compare against a current prospect.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 08:08 PM
1

Men who think women are being "degenerate" don't even have a clear idea of what they mean when they use the word.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 08:50 PM
62

This is the correct answer. OP, re-read my Guide to Training Bitches in the side bar.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 04:13 PM
9

This kind of behaviour in a woman is normal. Women will constantly test you to make sure you're still the badass they fell for. As long as you maintain your superiority and value in her eyes, you can maintain a long-term relationship for a very long time. How do I know this? I am currently sustaining two simultaneous long-term relationships, both of which have been going on for about two years. The two girls know of each other. In fact, they're both in the same room with me right now. I am not w…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/20 08:54 PM
32

You are in a new relationship. You can literally hit her upside the head and she would laugh at it and suck your dick. Come back after a year or two and see if the same shit works. It will, if he manages his relationship correctly. Hello, I'm HumanSockPuppet, and I wrote the Bitch Management and Bitch Training guides in the side bar. I am also one of the founding members of this community.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/20 08:50 PM
1

Begin with his main intro blog post, "Getting Rich: from Zero to Hero in One Blog Post". It's accessible by clicking "Start Here" from his main page.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 06:51 PM
3

HumanSockPuppet here. I wrote the Guide to Training Bitches in the main sidebar. Someone women are lost causes from the get-go, and there's nothing you can do to help or fix them. They have been damaged by their parents, or the environment in which they grew up. To avoid a situation like this in the future, you test a woman for compliance and obedience during the courtship process. You give her instructions and slowly escalate the complexity of your demands as she continues to comply. You start …
/r/askTRP14/04/20 06:48 PM
3

You're a pussy because you act like a pussy. Repeated actions become habits. Habits become your identity. If you want to change your identity, change your actions. You won't believe it at first. You'll feel like a fake. That's your brain needing time to catch up. Push through it.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 06:43 PM
2

If you are barely pulling by each week, then you are living inefficiently. It is possible, at any level of income, to retire early after only 10 years of working. It all comes down to your spending habits. Check out Mr. Money Mustache.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 06:38 PM
2

And if women were upfront about their intentions 24/7, men wouldn't be friends with them lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 06:55 AM
5

You make Chad into a better boyfriend by incentivizing him. Do FuDS have any clue how to do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 11:58 PM
10

Indeed. Although for newbies in the beginning, even validation from fat or unattractive women can be vindicating. Most guys go their entire lives without being catcalled at all. But whether a man chooses to entertain those advances or not, it's still a clear indicator of progress, and that's always a good thing.
/r/askTRP12/04/20 12:01 AM
1

Nope. It looks like the original video is gone. It was also posted on the NatureIsMetal subreddit. When it was on YouTube is was titled "A Violent Death in Antarctica". You may still be able to find it on the internet, but my quick search turns up nothing.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 11:59 PM
42

So what does this mean? Does this mean I'm at their sweet spot where my smv is low enough that they think they can get with me? Precisely. Remember, women are a trailing indicator of success. If fat girls are hitting on you, then it means you're making progress. Eventually, you'll start getting "Signals of Opportunity" from more attractive girls. Keep it up.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 04:29 PM
12

Sounds like you have read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 04:27 PM
12

There's a video on YouTube. It may be NSFL for some people. It's a penguin being eaten alive by skuas and seagulls. It's visceral as fuck. Penguin is screeching for its life, getting its guts pulled out its ass as it tries to crawl away from its attackers. Whenever my motivation gets low, I watch that video. As a reminder never to let death catch up with me prematurely by being unprepared at the wrong moment.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 04:17 PM
3

Matter to whom? And for what? If I'm looking for a long-term relationship prospect, then a woman who has slept around in her twenties will be damaged and unlikely to pair-bond with me. Her fealty will be in question. If I'm just looking to sleep around, then a woman who slept around in her twenties is prime material, since she already has a track record of putting out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 04:14 PM
11

Listen to Uncle Vasya here, OP. The problem with chasing a revenge fantasy is that your happiness remains dependent on the state of other people. You need for them to be hurting or suffering to feel victorious. But how do you arrange that, especially if you are disempowered? The only solution is to make your own success the source of your happiness, because that it the one thing over which you have the greatest control.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 04:12 PM
1

You don't need emotional support. You need emotional distance from your abusive family. You don't need the help of a family that threatens to abandon you for lack of compliance, and you certainly don't need the company of a mother who uses you like a workhorse. If your finances are solid enough to support yourself, get the fuck out of there. Give yourself time and space to begin healing. Block numbers, delete social media, and keep your location a secret.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 01:32 AM
3

Either way thanks. If you need any workout plans or reading recommendations let me know. This isn't personal it's ideological. I'm a little confused. Could you explain what you mean by "ideology"?
/r/askTRP11/04/20 12:21 AM
1

Here's what you need to understand and accept: Women's wants are a pendulum. They want a strong jerkboy to impregnate them, and they want a dependable provider to look after them and their offspring. This applies to all women. If not with this bitch, then with the next one. Every woman has a beta orbiting her that you will inevitably hurt when you fuck her. You are not responsible for this man's failure to keep his wife attracted. You are only responsible for you. It's nice that you are capable …
/r/TheRedPill10/04/20 06:21 PM
1

AF/BB isn't good or bad. It just is. It is the terrain one must learn to navigate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 03:23 PM
-2

Everything is men's fault. Women don't do anything other than react to what men do around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 03:33 PM
5

You should already be getting before you provide your protection. Don't give before you have received. Test the compliance of women to determine which are amenable to your leadership.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/20 09:58 PM
33

Men are not chosen by women for the privilege of having sex. Women are chosen by men for the privilege of being fed, protected, and cared for. Never forget this, noobs.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/20 02:59 PM
2

If a man’s getting married for the sole purpose of sex, I have no sympathy when he loses his money to a nasty divorce. Of course you feel that way. No one wants to feel merely like an object, or a vessel to satisfy someone else's wants. They want to feel valued, loved, and appreciated. Sex with all but the most skilled and expensive prostitutes feels bland and objectifying. Sex with an enthusiastic partner feels value-giving and uplifting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 06:26 PM
2

It's more than an argument, it's the truth. We do it because it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 06:03 PM
7

Same old complaint: "But you being meeeeeeeean" Being mean is the point. A man's protective instinct towards women is powerful. Just as a woman's submissive instinct towards men is powerful. Feminists use extreme language (men are trash/rapists/not to be trusted) when speaking in opposition to the female instinct to submit. They have to in order to get through to their audience. TRP does the same thing towards it male audience. In order to speak past men's instinct to safeguard and preserve wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 04:25 PM
2

I love when horny women have casual sex with me. But I laugh when they expect me to give them commitment just because they've opened they're legs. What, do they think I'm a time slut or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 03:48 PM
1

Are you lifting, bro? Get your testosterone levels checked.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 07:45 AM
1

Women don’t initiate. That’s the biggest hurdle in dating for men, other than the fact they find most of us unattractive. It's not a hurdle any more than gravity is a hurdle. It's how the universe is. Deal with it. Most men will have to initiate 100% of the relationships they end up in. Aww, poor baby. It must be so hard drawing breath and saying literally anything. For a lot of men, initiating is hard. It’s especially difficult to be vulnerable and open yourself up to rejection when you’ve face…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 07:41 AM
1

Male friends are the only friends who can understand the challenge and struggle of being male. Of course you'll be lonely without them.
/r/askTRP26/03/20 06:57 PM
2

TRP doesn't blame women. I know this because I am TRP. TRP - that is, my friends and I who will created it and maintain it every day - blames the young men themselves. We challenge them to take responsibility for letting their own protective instincts and emotions get the better of them. As men, we are predisposed to look after women. So at TRP, we train men to ignore their instincts and look after themselves first.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 03:05 PM
2

There’s maternal love. And there’s romantic (sexual) love. Almost. Not quite. There are three kinds of love. Maternal love (to either an infant daughter or an infant son, paternal-to-male-child love, and paternal-to-female-child love. A woman loves her children and sacrifices for them. A man loves his woman and sacrifices for her, so that she may be free to sacrifice for their children. The love between a man and a woman most closely resembles the love between a father and his daughter. It is pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 05:14 PM
1

Do I just suck it up, as much as it pains me, until I can afford to say fuck you and move out? That depends: what kind of emotional injuries can your dignity sustain? One guy might move out at any cost, subjecting himself to hardship and a high-risk, low-paying job, setting himself back several years financially just for the sake of being free. For another guy, he might decide that his pride is not worth that much. He might be willing to hold his tongue for the sake of pragmatism, until he is in…
/r/askTRP25/03/20 05:08 PM
1

It's far less fun that getting laid by a woman who's attracted to you. Of course. But for guys who haven't yet developed the skills to attract, pickup, and entrance a woman, fucking a prostitute is a great way to take the mysticism out of sex and see it for the transaction that it is.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 11:17 PM
6

I actually bumped into a pickup artist who is well-known in PUA circles while I was out with friends one night. It looked like he was coaching because he occasionally went back to talk to a couple of guys who stared at him wide-eyed. The things is, I never once saw him instruct the guys to actually go forward and try shit themselves. It looked like he was just there showing off. Don't bother with pickup coaches. Do this shit yourself, in field, and report back here for feedback. This community i…
/r/askTRP24/03/20 06:19 AM
5

If you plan on making this girl into a FWB (and possibly an LTR beyond that), now is the time to start giving her instructions and bossing her around. It's your job to set the boundaries in the relationship. You're the one with the power to give or take away a relationship.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 06:17 AM
4

Congrats, you gonna be a daddy.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 06:14 AM
20

Nothing wrong with banging prostitutes.
/r/askTRP24/03/20 06:14 AM
10

When you move to LTR, you switch from indifference game to control game. You should have been reigning this bitch in, not ignoring her. It's likely too late now. Next her, and follow my Guide to Training Bitches next time.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 06:06 PM
6

They don't think. Shit-testing is not a conscious process.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/20 02:19 AM
5

There are no "cons" to TRP. That's like saying "The Cons of Reality". Accept it, buttercup. This is the way shit is.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 02:18 AM
2

They don't all settle. Some collect cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 03:13 PM
6

Why does there have to be something right with you? Do what the fuck you feel like doing, become the kind of person you admire, and forget the external validation signals, moron.
/r/askTRP21/03/20 12:31 AM
8

This purpose of this sub is to corral you idiots who can't read the side bar away from the main sub. Occasionally, we anointed will descend from Valhalla to provide real advice, or to laugh at you, depending on our mood that day.
/r/askTRP21/03/20 12:30 AM
1

Vain hope of getting pussy.
/r/askTRP21/03/20 12:28 AM
31

Conscious awareness of an evolved biological principle does not confer immunity to it. Knowing that your girl is on birth control and cannot have babies doesn't reduce your horniness. Knowing that the hormones leptin and ghrelin are responsible for managing hunger and satiety does not stop you from feeling hungry. Knowing about Game does not make Game any less effective, insofar as the woman is able to believe that your practice of it is "natural" rather than practiced.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/20 02:51 PM
3

I always demand women's numbers, and get them every time I do. Giving them your number is not a hard and fast rule.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/20 02:36 PM
1

Because eventually they hit 30 and start running out of options lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 03:11 AM
6

Women's wants are a pendulum. Romantic overtures (comfort) are only part of the swing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 07:42 AM
8

Women wouldn't want sexbots for themselves, because the essential function performed by men in their lives is not something that a robot can provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 07:37 AM
1

Lmao women are happy to be used as sexbots, I don't care if they oppose these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 07:35 AM
0

Persuade them to do what?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 07:11 AM
2

Women want men to chase sex so they'll keep giving away free time, free attention, free shit, etc. in the vain hope of getting laid. Asking women to accept sexbots is like expecting a government to collect no taxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 06:36 AM
5

Women want men to chase sex so they'll keep giving away free time, free attention, free shit, etc. in the vain hope of getting laid. Asking women to accept sexbots is like expecting a government to collect no taxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 06:36 AM
3

This is far from what I would designate as the One Immutable Rule Of The Red Pill. Lifting is good for your health and good for building discipline, therefore you should do it. That's about all that needs to be said on the subject.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/20 11:51 PM
31

Exactly. TRP didn't ruin your game. It was your autism and lack of experience. You went into the field, applied the theory, failed, learned your lessons, then went into the field again and applied the theory correctly. That's how it's supposed to be done. Pussies who want a life free of effort and failure will always be unhappy, and will always blame everything except themselves to shield their fragile egos.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/20 05:15 PM
1

You're dead wrong about "liberation". Women in the liberation eras (nineteen-aughts onwards) still let men do the lion's share of the work. Their calls for liberation had more to do with wanting a greater share of the cookies that men were baking. This trend has continued up until the modern day. And that's what feminism really is: complaining until men give you what you want, and calling them sexist for as long as they hold out on whatever you're demanding. There's nothing stopping a modern day…
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/20 02:47 PM
4

So just be a woman. You're under no obligation to "make the sisterhood look good". Live your life how you want.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/20 02:39 PM
1

As men check out of a society, that society will crumble. Women won't be happy in those circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 05:53 AM
2

You don't seem to know what average means. No wonder women don't major in STEM and wind up with lower salaries lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 02:34 AM
12

A high value woman trusts in your masculinity. A low value woman does not. A high value woman is less combative of her submissive instincts, and of your gender-appropriate instincts to guide and control her. She might posture like a man because society has taught her to, but you can see the hesitation in her. A low value woman will posture like a man and try to make everyone around her believe it. She desperately needs it to be true, because she doesn't trust you or any other man to care for her…
/r/askTRP01/03/20 02:25 AM
24

Yep. Homeboy has to get hurt before he's ready for the lesson.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 02:20 AM
8

The difference is the amount of potential contact he will make with her. If contact is likely, he should ignore her pleas and apologies and put her shit out like a stone-cold sociopath. If contact is unlikely, he should simply block her, ignore her friends attempts at making contact, and begin his new life as if she were never there to begin with.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 02:19 AM
1

Send pictures of your penis.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 06:16 PM
4

What the fuck is a situationship. Don't make up words when you're asking a question. Or if you make up words, define them.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 06:15 PM
3

Debt is a slow-acting toxin, but which acts faster as it continues to grow. Kill it sooner rather than later, or it will kill you.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 06:14 PM
3

Or just be so focused on your workout you don't notice. Faggot.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 06:12 PM
7

Why are you even considering marriage, dumbass? You haven't been paying attention that's why. You're gonna be an object lesson for the rest of our readers.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 06:10 PM
4

Is she a live-in LTR? Does she have stuff at your place, or you at hers?
/r/askTRP29/02/20 06:09 PM
0

"Blame someone else for my problems". Why do I get the feeling that OP is a chick? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 02:50 PM
3

"Hanging out with you sounds boring, but better than being alone. I'll let you know if nothing more interesting comes along between now and then."
/r/askTRP28/02/20 02:29 AM
2

Women are devaluing masculinity in an attempt to "close the gap" with men. You are making the classic mistake of listening to women instead of observing their actions. I've had a feminist tell me about her leisure-time efforts to smash the Patriarchy. Later, I came in her ass, and she thanked me and asked me if calling me "daddy" would be a weird thing to do so soon after we'd met.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/20 02:56 PM
2

When we're horny, sex is all we care about. Once the we're free of the hinger for it, then we can assess a woman based on her long-term potential and decide if we plan on keeping her around.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 02:42 PM
1

Politeness, kindness, tact, a desire to please, and being just attractive enough not to provoke a gag reflex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 02:21 PM
1

Sounds like it's mostly a matter of emotional logistics, then. Let me ask you this: how attached are you to your current LTR? Apart from the lack of sexual attraction, does she have long term potential to be a partner and supporter of Your Mission?
/r/askTRP20/02/20 01:17 AM
38

From what I read, you haven't exactly described whatever conversation or such happens. I'd be interested to see how you navigate a 'I'm fucking other women, but you don't fuck other men' conversation. There are no step-by-step guides for anything in TRP. Even my own highly-comprehensive guides still require that you develop enough social agility to read a situation. In general, what you want to do is sit her down at some point and say "look baby, before things go any further, you should know tha…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/20 03:16 PM
40

Nobody needs a Crystal Ball to see what society would be under a matriarchal social order because we’re living in it right now. There is no matriarchy. Women lack the demeanour to rule. No one follows women. What you are actually seeing is women's complaints being legally and socially upheld by either weak men, or by self-interested men who have political careers. As a man, you have the power to simply say no. And that's what TRP does. We teach men to say no, so they can take back control of the…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/20 02:52 PM
63

As totalitarian as it sounds, women should not be allowed to raise children on their own. You don't want the government having this much say in private lives.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/20 02:34 PM
2

I will write a post on this, since it seems to get asked quite a bit. Thanks for your tag.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 06:50 AM
1

That's my point. My moral code is one of maximizing my happiness by expressing my sexual needs openly and allowing the girls to decide what they're okay with. Maybe such an arrangement would work for you. Do you think you might be morally okay with having side girls if your current LTR knew and was okay with it?
/r/askTRP19/02/20 06:39 AM
13

Women don't want to be equals. They want to feel dignified and respected the way men are, but they always buck and cry whenever they are subjected to real equal treatment. Playfully belittle your woman and make her feel protected and loved by being in charge. That's what makes women happiest.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 05:15 PM
10

"So go out and get married. Don't let me stop you."
/r/askTRP17/02/20 04:44 PM
12

I take deep personal offense at your suggestion that sockpuppets are somehow involved.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/20 03:15 PM
8

What indication were you given that she was speaking to adjust her own feelings rather than trying to have an effect on you? Any kind of Posture Talk, where the person is imitating a powerful stance with words, but without the non-verbal signals to back it up. Simple example: "I'm not afraid of you," spoken with a down-turned gaze.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/20 03:04 AM
28

Ding ding ding. Mods, a point for this guy.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/20 03:01 AM
7

Most modern girls aren't worthy of an LTR. Your ex is included in that list. Abide by the Bitch Management Guide, and you will be safe from promoting the wrong girl accidentally.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 02:43 PM
13

This is the correct answer. The technique to getting women to comply without forcing them is to hold them accountable for their decisions. Women are so terrified of consequences that they will abide by your preferences just to avoid the risk of losing you. And if she doesn't care about losing you and takes the risk anyways - well, then she was already losing attraction for you and the relationship was already over.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 08:41 PM
47

He's going to marry her before you. Be the first to propose and guarantee her love for yourself.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 05:46 PM
2

The quality of the attention varies with the quality of the man. Women love all attention, but crave the attention of a valuable man above all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 05:36 PM
3

Thank you, I'm glad to hear it. It's nice to know my work is helping guys out there.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 11:55 PM
1

How does he get through it? The same way the rest of us do - value your dignity and independence over the temporary satisfaction of nutting. And ironically enough, valuing your dignity over nutting produces precisely the attitude needed for you to seduce chicks more easily.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 09:13 PM
1

Good. Remember, you're in Control Game territory now. Your woman only knows how to please you if you give her instructions and feedback. If you're unhappy in the relationship, it's your fault.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 05:26 PM
4

It doesn't matter what she did for you in the past. It only matters what she's doing for you now. Briffault's Law teaches us that women engage the SMP on a cash basis. If you're not providing them with present benefit, they will not associate with you. Checks and credit cards for future benefit are not honoured. A corollary of this is that cash is the only basis by which women can understand an exchange. A woman will stop working for something the moment she sees it as an entitlement. So you mus…
/r/askTRP30/01/20 04:56 PM
1

TL;DR how do I stop getting oneitis for my plates Eat off of other plates.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 04:15 PM
3

I disagree. You say this chick was a FWB, meaning you were spending non-sexual quality time with her. I would simply downgrade her to a plate. Now, all she gets from you is sex time. She has lost the privilege of non-sexual time. Keep fucking her, but never promote her above a fuck buddy plate ever again, no matter how well she behaves from this point forward.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 04:12 PM
1

Snapchat is an inferior, disposable format. Get her number. If she gives you her snap, say you don't use it. If she won't give you her number, then you have failed to attract her sufficiently.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 03:55 PM
1

Bitch Management Guide: a bitch earns your quality time by providing quality time of her own first. Upfront cash only, no checks or credit cards. Tell your friend to soft next the bitch. She's a plate at best from this point forward.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 03:49 PM
2

First off, don't believe revelations you had while you were high. Everything seems more profound when you're stoned. Secondly, you're reaching the point in your life when role models are scarce. You will need to look to yourself for cues on what your personal mission is. What gives you the greatest life satisfaction?
/r/askTRP30/01/20 03:46 PM
2

Prime question: what does she do to earn your time? If all she provide you with is sex, then she's just a plate. She only earns non-sexual quality time if she is providing you with non-sexual benefits. Does she cook for you? Does she give you gifts? Massages? What is her contribution to the relationship beyond sex?
/r/askTRP30/01/20 03:43 PM
19

She's a plate, nigga. Her only purpose is sex. If she wants something more, she needs to earn it. Read my Bitch Management Guide in the main side bar.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 03:39 PM
14

LTRs are absolutely possible. Most of the ECs are involved in LTRs with women they have personally trained. In the case of /u/Whisper and myself, we are involved in two LTRs in addition to spinning plates on the side. The keys to sustaining this are: To take an active role in training your woman, so that she associates happiness with your direct intervention. To constantly be improving yourself, so that you are always her superior. See my Guides to Training Bitches and Managing Bitches for more …
/r/askTRP30/01/20 03:36 PM
14

Understand your sphere of control. You can impact only those things which are proximal. But fortunately, the things that are likely to affect your life are also proximal. Act to influence the elements within your sphere that will improve your quality of life. Remember, a society is not a single homogeneous thing. It is a collection of individuals. If your are interested in improving the prosperity of your society, then the best contribution you can make is to improve the small part within your s…
/r/askTRP30/01/20 03:31 PM
6

No. It's not malicious, it's a shit-test. It's a filter for confidence and intelligence. It's basically a class-based system where guys who aren't confident or emotionally intelligent enough, and take these things at face value, are filtered out of the competition. You have an excellent overview here. I want to add one thing to it. Remember the proper responses to a shit-test: agree and amplify, pressure-flip, or ignore. A man with sufficient influence and power can outright refuse to participat…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 02:42 PM
23

How do I convince people, especially liberal people that holding old values isn't a sign of "toxic masculinity" and that we're actually living in a gynocentric society? Simple. You abandon the goal of convincing them of anything. Just live your life in pursuit of your own happiness. And don't get married.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 02:27 PM
7

People do whatever is effective. We live in a sheltered world where temper tantrums are still effective at getting them what they want. People who come to TRP looking for answers only become self-aware because a lack of self-awareness stopped working for them.
/r/askTRP29/01/20 10:36 PM
2

Cool story bro. Looking forward to reading your guide to "Empowered Tindering in Your 40s" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 10:31 PM
3

RPW take responsibility for their happiness. FDS blame someone else for their unhappiness. That's all you need to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 09:52 PM
1

Your old perspective hasn't been ruined. Your old perspective was wrong. If you're lamenting your social circle, take up hobbies in places where your values are likely to be shared.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 05:46 PM
1

Reward the behaviours you wish to see more of. Rewards include attention, compliments, and kindness. Punish the behaviours you wish to see stopped. Punishments include brusqueness, dismissiveness, and outright ignoring her. State outloud what pleases you. Reward her when she complies, punish her when she defies.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 05:46 PM
1

Your old perspective hasn't been ruined. Your old perspective was wrong. If you're lamenting your social circle, take up hobbies in places where your values are likely to be shared.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:37 PM
1

Your old perspective hasn't been ruined. Your old perspective was wrong. If you're lamenting your social circle, take up hobbies in places where your values are likely to be shared.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:37 PM
1

Your old perspective hasn't been ruined. Your old perspective was wrong. If you're lamenting your social circle, take up hobbies in places where your values are likely to be shared.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:33 PM
1

Your old perspective hasn't been ruined. Your old perspective was wrong. If you're lamenting your social circle, take up hobbies in places where your values are likely to be shared.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:33 PM
1

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/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:32 PM
1

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/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:32 PM
1

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/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:32 PM
1

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/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:32 PM
1

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/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:32 PM
1

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/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:31 PM
1

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/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:30 PM
1

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/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:29 PM
1

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/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:29 PM
1

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/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:29 PM
1

Your old perspective hasn't been ruined. Your old perspective was wrong. If you're lamenting your social circle, take up hobbies in places where your values are likely to be shared.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:29 PM
1

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/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:29 PM
1

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/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:28 PM
1

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/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:28 PM
1

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/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:28 PM
1

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/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:28 PM
1

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/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:28 PM
1

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/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:27 PM
1

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/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:27 PM
1

Your old perspective hasn't been ruined. Your old perspective was wrong. If you're lamenting your social circle, take up hobbies in places where your values are likely to be shared.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:27 PM
1

Your old perspective hasn't been ruined. Your old perspective was wrong. If you're lamenting your social circle, take up hobbies in places where your values are likely to be shared.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:27 PM
1

Your old perspective hasn't been ruined. Your old perspective was wrong. If you're lamenting your social circle, take up hobbies in places where your values are likely to be shared.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:27 PM
1

Your old perspective hasn't been ruined. Your old perspective was wrong. If you're lamenting your social circle, take up hobbies in places where your values are likely to be shared.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:27 PM
1

Your old perspective hasn't been ruined. Your old perspective was wrong. If you're lamenting your social circle, take up hobbies in places where your values are likely to be shared.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:27 PM
1

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/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:26 PM
1

Your old perspective hasn't been ruined. Your old perspective was wrong. If you're lamenting your social circle, take up hobbies in places where your values are likely to be shared.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:26 PM
1

Your old perspective hasn't been ruined. Your old perspective was wrong. If you're lamenting your social circle, take up hobbies in places where your values are likely to be shared.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:26 PM
1

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/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:21 PM
1

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/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:20 PM
1

Your old perspective hasn't been ruined. Your old perspective was wrong. If you're lamenting your social circle, take up hobbies in places where your values are likely to be shared.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:20 PM
1

Your old perspective hasn't been ruined. Your old perspective was wrong. If you're lamenting your social circle, take up hobbies in places where your values are likely to be shared.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:20 PM
1

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/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:20 PM
5

Your old perspective hasn't been ruined. Your old perspective was wrong. If you're lamenting your social circle, take up hobbies in places where your values are likely to be shared.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:19 PM
1

Reward the behaviours you wish to see more of. Rewards include attention, compliments, and kindness. Punish the behaviours you wish to see stopped. Punishments include brusqueness, dismissiveness, and outright ignoring her. State outloud what pleases you. Reward her when she complies, punish her when she defies.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:13 PM
1

Reward the behaviours you wish to see more of. Rewards include attention, compliments, and kindness. Punish the behaviours you wish to see stopped. Punishments include brusqueness, dismissiveness, and outright ignoring her. State outloud what pleases you. Reward her when she complies, punish her when she defies.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:12 PM
1

Reward the behaviours you wish to see more of. Rewards include attention, compliments, and kindness. Punish the behaviours you wish to see stopped. Punishments include brusqueness, dismissiveness, and outright ignoring her. State outloud what pleases you. Reward her when she complies, punish her when she defies.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:12 PM
1

Reward the behaviours you wish to see more of. Rewards include attention, compliments, and kindness. Punish the behaviours you wish to see stopped. Punishments include brusqueness, dismissiveness, and outright ignoring her. State outloud what pleases you. Reward her when she complies, punish her when she defies.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:11 PM
1

Reward the behaviours you wish to see more of. Rewards include attention, compliments, and kindness. Punish the behaviours you wish to see stopped. Punishments include brusqueness, dismissiveness, and outright ignoring her. State outloud what pleases you. Reward her when she complies, punish her when she defies.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:11 PM
1

Reward the behaviours you wish to see more of. Rewards include attention, compliments, and kindness. Punish the behaviours you wish to see stopped. Punishments include brusqueness, dismissiveness, and outright ignoring her. State outloud what pleases you. Reward her when she complies, punish her when she defies.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:11 PM
1

Reward the behaviours you wish to see more of. Rewards include attention, compliments, and kindness. Punish the behaviours you wish to see stopped. Punishments include brusqueness, dismissiveness, and outright ignoring her. State outloud what pleases you. Reward her when she complies, punish her when she defies.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:11 PM
1

Reward the behaviours you wish to see more of. Rewards include attention, compliments, and kindness. Punish the behaviours you wish to see stopped. Punishments include brusqueness, dismissiveness, and outright ignoring her. State outloud what pleases you. Reward her when she complies, punish her when she defies.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:11 PM
1

Reward the behaviours you wish to see more of. Rewards include attention, compliments, and kindness. Punish the behaviours you wish to see stopped. Punishments include brusqueness, dismissiveness, and outright ignoring her. State outloud what pleases you. Reward her when she complies, punish her when she defies.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:11 PM
1

Reward the behaviours you wish to see more of. Rewards include attention, compliments, and kindness. Punish the behaviours you wish to see stopped. Punishments include brusqueness, dismissiveness, and outright ignoring her. State outloud what pleases you. Reward her when she complies, punish her when she defies.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:10 PM
1

Reward the behaviours you wish to see more of. Rewards include attention, compliments, and kindness. Punish the behaviours you wish to see stopped. Punishments include brusqueness, dismissiveness, and outright ignoring her. State outloud what pleases you. Reward her when she complies, punish her when she defies.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:10 PM
1

Reward the behaviours you wish to see more of. Rewards include attention, compliments, and kindness. Punish the behaviours you wish to see stopped. Punishments include brusqueness, dismissiveness, and outright ignoring her. State outloud what pleases you. Reward her when she complies, punish her when she defies.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:10 PM
1

Reward the behaviours you wish to see more of. Rewards include attention, compliments, and kindness. Punish the behaviours you wish to see stopped. Punishments include brusqueness, dismissiveness, and outright ignoring her. State outloud what pleases you. Reward her when she complies, punish her when she defies.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:10 PM
1

Reward the behaviours you wish to see more of. Rewards include attention, compliments, and kindness. Punish the behaviours you wish to see stopped. Punishments include brusqueness, dismissiveness, and outright ignoring her. State outloud what pleases you. Reward her when she complies, punish her when she defies.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:10 PM
1

Reward the behaviours you wish to see more of. Rewards include attention, compliments, and kindness. Punish the behaviours you wish to see stopped. Punishments include brusqueness, dismissiveness, and outright ignoring her. State outloud what pleases you. Reward her when she complies, punish her when she defies.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:09 PM
1

Reward the behaviours you wish to see more of. Rewards include attention, compliments, and kindness. Punish the behaviours you wish to see stopped. Punishments include brusqueness, dismissiveness, and outright ignoring her. State outloud what pleases you. Reward her when she complies, punish her when she defies.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:09 PM
1

Reward the behaviours you wish to see more of. Rewards include attention, compliments, and kindness. Punish the behaviours you wish to see stopped. Punishments include brusqueness, dismissiveness, and outright ignoring her. State outloud what pleases you. Reward her when she complies, punish her when she defies.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:09 PM
1

Reward the behaviours you wish to see more of. Rewards include attention, compliments, and kindness. Punish the behaviours you wish to see stopped. Punishments include brusqueness, dismissiveness, and outright ignoring her. State outloud what pleases you. Reward her when she complies, punish her when she defies.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:08 PM
1

Reward the behaviours you wish to see more of. Rewards include attention, compliments, and kindness. Punish the behaviours you wish to see stopped. Punishments include brusqueness, dismissiveness, and outright ignoring her. State outloud what pleases you. Reward her when she complies, punish her when she defies.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:08 PM
1

Reward the behaviours you wish to see more of. Rewards include attention, compliments, and kindness. Punish the behaviours you wish to see stopped. Punishments include brusqueness, dismissiveness, and outright ignoring her. State outloud what pleases you. Reward her when she complies, punish her when she defies.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:08 PM
1

Reward the behaviours you wish to see more of. Rewards include attention, compliments, and kindness. Punish the behaviours you wish to see stopped. Punishments include brusqueness, dismissiveness, and outright ignoring her. State outloud what pleases you. Reward her when she complies, punish her when she defies.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:08 PM
1

Reward the behaviours you wish to see more of. Rewards include attention, compliments, and kindness. Punish the behaviours you wish to see stopped. Punishments include brusqueness, dismissiveness, and outright ignoring her. State outloud what pleases you. Reward her when she complies, punish her when she defies.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:08 PM
1

Reward the behaviours you wish to see more of. Rewards include attention, compliments, and kindness. Punish the behaviours you wish to see stopped. Punishments include brusqueness, dismissiveness, and outright ignoring her. State outloud what pleases you. Reward her when she complies, punish her when she defies.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:07 PM
2

Ever feel bad though knowing that you will never be into that one (or multiple) women like they are into you? Of course not. I did not choose my sex. Why would I feel bad about something I had no part in choosing?
/r/askTRP27/01/20 05:10 PM
6

Indifference Game has got you the plate. Now you must use Control Game to teach her how to please you. Give her specific instructions and reward obedience. If she disobeys, it will be much easier to not feel sorry for her because she will be the one instigating. See my Guide to Training Bitches and my Guide to Managing Bitches in the main side bar.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 02:10 PM
2

It doesn't happen effortlessly. It takes maintenance and vigilance to care for your main girls and to seduce others. But it's nice to be able to get sex as readily as you can water from the faucet - to know that your primal thirst will never control you again.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 01:53 PM
4

Look up the Roth Conversion Ladder. You can access your funds well before 59.5.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 06:12 AM
2

think I'm looking to rewire my brain to actually be who I've become after TRP. Doing is being. Do and your brain will follow. My past is hard to overcome. Mental training, exercises stuff like that, because the the tangible stuff is sorted Remember, everyone who comes here has a past that is hard to overcome. The difference between a man who fails and a man who succeeds is his acceptance of as much personal responsibility as possible, so he can claim as much power as necessary to correct the par…
/r/askTRP27/01/20 02:25 AM
4

It's not asking per se. You're showing good social skills by winning over her friends, and then gaining their approval by gaining their trust. Remember, women are the protected and inherently-valuable members of a tribe. Your goal is to be considered a new member of their tribe. The alternative is trying to strong-arm her away from them, which never works. She's more loyal to them than she is to you, and they will cock-block you to protect her.
/r/askTRP26/01/20 07:49 PM
56

Is she calling you Daddy in bed yet?
/r/askTRP26/01/20 06:38 PM
33

Put as much of it as possible into an tax-advantaged investment account invested in index funds. Once your tax-advantaged accounts are maxed for the year, put the rest into a taxable account.
/r/askTRP26/01/20 06:37 PM
14

Vibe with the group. Win over the majority of them, particularly the people who you detect have the most social value in the group. Then, "ask their permission" by telling them you want to borrow her real fast, and that you'll bring her back in roughly the same condition. They'll give both you AND her the green light to isolate. With her social circle's "permission", your entry is just about guaranteed.
/r/askTRP26/01/20 06:35 PM
2

You're still externalizing your locus of confidence. You need to approach without an expectation of a specific outcome, that way you stop hanging your failures on yourself when they inevitably happen. You have to treat women like toys, not trophies. Play with them. If they play, enjoy it. If they give you the cold shoulder, shrug it off and realize that she was having a bad day and probably would have done that no matter who it was. You won't overcome this until you start getting rejected and re…
/r/askTRP26/01/20 06:33 PM
5

A person who has been starved all their life is more appreciative of a quality meal when they receive it. Of course, it all varies from person to person. But in general, the less male oversight and protection a woman has received in her life, the more it feels like nourishment when she receives it. Remember, she is hardwired to want it.
/r/askTRP26/01/20 06:31 PM
1

Both /u/Whisper and I have written guides on Control Game and Indifference Game. But nothing explicitly on how to turn your soft harem into a hard harem. Maybe I will write on that subject next, though there's really nothing to it.
/r/askTRP26/01/20 05:07 PM
4

I am openly poly. I require exclusivity from my LTRs in order for them to continue receiving the benefit of my non-sexual attention. They remain happily exclusive to me, and I fuck around. They get to enjoy the benefits of my investment in their lives and caring for their well-being. Everyone is happy.
/r/askTRP26/01/20 04:03 AM
1

Because we're evolved to think so.
/r/askTRP26/01/20 03:59 AM
3

My two LTRs both know that I fuck other girls. Are you more moral than I am?
/r/askTRP26/01/20 03:57 AM
4

Wrong. I have 2 LTRs and I spin plates. So does /u/Whisper. Time for OP to lay the groundwork.
/r/askTRP26/01/20 03:56 AM
16

the seduction subreddit basically considers it to be emotional manipulation.. here's a reply i got there. "Because negging, not flirting, is emotional manipulation. Its an attempt to get a woman to sleep with you by making her feel bad and making her seek your approval. It’s a shitty mind-game for insecure losers who don’t know how to keep a woman authentically insterested in them." That's hilarious. I remember the early days of seduction, before the invasion of women and their inclusion fanfare…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/20 03:44 AM
2

It's not a function of time, but a function of her behaviour. If she's not chasing you, she's not into you as much as one of her alternatives.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 03:07 PM
7

Of course game seems like bullshit. You're listening to the pickup community. TRP split apart from that shit because it was getting too feminized and too commercialized. Learn game from the men in this community with the tags next to their names who don't charge you for anything.
/r/askTRP20/01/20 06:52 PM
5

Because it's still a nice little field report about not assuming the worst. Exactly so. When a woman's mind runs to the worst case immediately, it provokes her into thinking and saying things that will cause only more tension and make the situation truly awful. Holding your tongue and holding the line are critically important. OP did well.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/20 04:53 PM
11

First, they said TRP doesn't work. Then, when people discovered that it works, they said that it's bad for you. Keep trying lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 02:49 PM
5

Really, I pity women. They have to figure everything out early and put it together, all while being told that they can be "Sexy at any age! Fit at any weight!" It's gotta be tough to fight through that for them, when it's more comfortable to believe it. This is precisely why a woman is happier when she's controlled by a dominant man who can lead and instruct her. First her father, then her lover.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/20 03:04 AM
5

Around here, you get dunked in the toilet for shit like that.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 03:08 PM
2

Them: "We have a boyfriend." You (with a shit-eating grin): "What, the same one? Well, then this upgrade opportunity is for the both of you."
/r/askTRP06/01/20 03:06 PM
1

Women weren't any better or different 50 years ago. There were simply more social risks to appearing unchaste, unfaithful, and unappreciative. The zeitgeist determines what attitudes can be publicly expressed. All you're seeing in modern day is women as they truly are. Luckily for you, the solution is simple. Follow TRP principles and you can have a loyal woman. Just not in the lazy, half-assed way most men fantasize about.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/20 02:58 PM
42

It's why the original ECs left seduction in the first place and founded TRP.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/20 02:41 PM
16

The seduction community is full of people with the right tools and the wrong attitude. Unfortunately for them, attitude is the most important tool.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/20 02:40 PM
3

Seems unfair. They're surrounded by fluid right up until birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 06:13 PM
1

TRP is a strategic adaptation to a world created by women's application of The Rules. FDS is just women doubling down on a strategy which is now becoming obsolete in the social arena as more men become aware of it. And because women are petty, small-minded, and vindictive, they're adding a little of TRP's own harsh overtones thinking that it's hurting the feelings TRP awakened men. It's quite funny to watch, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 06:18 PM
1

Couldn't the same thing be said about TRP strategies? No. Because TRP strategies involve going into the field and applying theory. You are taking direct responsibility (and therefore accountability) for your own success or failure. On our sub, we actively mock the pussies who read and criticize but don't act.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 06:14 PM
14

FDS is dumb women thinking that using TRP tactics will work on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 03:15 AM
3

FDS doesn't work at all lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 03:14 AM
1

To the above list I would add Mr. Money Mustache and the Mad Fientist. Both have very simple, clear articles outlining strategies for achieving financial independence. Just ignore MMM's crybaby whining about your responsibility to the planet and focus on his observations on hedonic adaptation and you'll be set.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/19 07:38 PM
1

Man saves himself from a life of indentured servitude. I love a happy ending.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 02:49 PM
2

Well thank god you found out she was a whore BEFORE you married her! Now keep improving and get train a higher quality woman. Slight fix.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 02:45 PM
40

Because unattractive people can't lock down a quality partner. They can only hold the attention of a mediocre partner temporarily. So they accept their part-time status (as an alternative to loneliness) and call themselves "open-minded" to cope with the cognitive dissonance.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 03:03 PM
7

A single man and woman with the same intelligence should theoretically perform at the same level. However, if we're talking about populations, then the number of very smart men (and also the number of very dumb men) easily outnumbers the number of women. Women do not have the evolutionary pressure to stand out, so they do not trend toward the extremes the way men do.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/19 03:05 PM
4

Then why didn't he marry one?
/r/TheRedPill17/12/19 02:55 PM
8

Every time I post in askTRP I get someone telling me (dickishly) to read the sidebar. What is the goddamn point of the sub if everything pertaining to any situation ever is contained in the sidebar? Because most guys think they're special cases with a unique roadblock. In reality, they're too lazy and too cowardly to put the theory into practice.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/19 03:02 PM
5

Check out my Guide to Teasing Bitches for help with flirty banter.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/19 06:46 AM
19

Field work is far more valuable, both in terms of practice and in terms of end results. You are now seeing this in action.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/19 06:45 AM
38

I'm making this the title of my next post.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 11:21 PM
1

Gradually escalating compliance testing.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 03:10 PM
36

You have to lift heavy shit yourself before you can be strong enough to lift someone else.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/19 02:49 PM
3

I've written several guides on how to train women to be suitable long-term relationship partners. You girls just need a choke chain and some doggy treats to learn the right tricks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 07:34 AM
1

Lol "threatened". Women are tiny and smell like flowers. They're not threatening.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 08:11 PM
3

The 7 hour rule is a good rule of thumb. These things aren't immutable like gravity, but they're good reference points. Again, it's just a rule of thumb. It's one strategy among many in your whole arsenal. This is why we don't have many hard and fast rules in TRP. A lot of it comes from spending enough time in the field to develop an intuition about women in general, and then using that intuition to judge a specific woman when you're out with her. This is why being in the field and playing every…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/19 02:57 PM
21

I don't understand why people shame sluts. They're great for a quick NSA fuck, day or night.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 12:45 AM
1

Teasing pillow talk is good. It establishes the right dynamic. The other thing you should do is compliance testing. Use her elevated investment in you as an opportunity to issue her instructions and orders. Test her compliance levels, and give her small rewards for obedience. This is how you turn her into a long-term plate, and possibly a girlfriend (if she earns that honour).
/r/askTRP04/12/19 03:24 PM
9

What is the point in creating an alpha widow? What is the point of a cat playing with a ball of string?
/r/TheRedPill29/11/19 05:52 AM
3

I will challenge your argument that women are the only ones complaining about these very basic expectations. OP made no such argument. OP said "women do this", not "only women do this". Bitches can't put in the minimal effort to not be fat slobs, and their defense is saying "everyone else is fat too!" As usual, women have no volition.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 01:32 PM
6

Many don't realize the red pill is about improving oneself, not just "lusting" after women like betas do. They're a nice commodity, as you mentioned, but that's it. No, it isn't. The Red Pill isn't about anything. The fact that many of our suggestions involve self-improvement is just a coincidence. We also teach men how to lie and manipulate to achieve their own goals. Nothing about that involves self-improvement. If TRP had to be about anything, then it would be about learning to recognise when…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 03:38 PM
6

No, It’s lack of repercussions for their behaviour. And it is invested men (first patriarchal fathers, then dominant men raised by patriarchal fathers) who create those repercussions. Remember, women take cues from authority figures on what is and isn't permissible. Men are nature's authority figures as far as homo sapiens are concerned. Also guess who splits up families and leads to fatherless daughters? Sluts. Sluts feed back into the cycle, yes. But the process begins with a lack of patriarch…
/r/TheRedPill21/11/19 04:55 PM
3

My advice has helped many men and women improve their happiness. If that makes me a misogynist, I gladly accept the title. I prefer that to being a useless, virtue-signaling, platitude-regurgitating snowflake lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 04:48 PM
3

Just how do you go about "training" another human being? The same way you train any other animal. Provide incentives for the behaviours you wish to see repeated. Provide disincentives for the behaviours you wish to see stopped.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 01:29 AM
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If you're a guy, you won't find a girl prepackaged just for you. As a guy, your job is to find a woman with the potential to be molded, and to train her to please you. Be a formative influence in her life. Teach her things, be her guide, and she will love and cherish you. A good woman is made - first by her father, and then by her man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 06:56 PM
4

How's the crime and tourist predation in the places you recommended?
/r/askTRP20/11/19 06:52 PM
12

Read into it all you want. The lesson is still correct. He did the right thing.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 02:55 PM
10

No. It was just her turn. Now her turn is over.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 02:54 PM
2

LTRs aren't "Red Pill on hard mode." We have guides on how you can train a woman to be submissive and transform her into LTR material. It's just Red Pill, another tool in the box. And the process is surprisingly easy once you have your own life in order.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/19 02:46 PM
12

Don't try to save the world. Just save yourself, and the men you call your closest friends.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/19 06:16 AM
5

That's why the ECs are tagged. It helps you keep an eye out for good content.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/19 06:08 AM
85

No it isn't. Sluts aren't caused by a preponderance of Chads in the current generation. It's a lack of fathers from the previous one.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/19 08:19 PM
2

A little tragic appreciation for his misfortune is also appropriate. Even though this kind of experience hurts, it's precisely the catalyst he needs to wake up and take his life back.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 03:27 PM
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A man can be taught to take responsibility. And given the right demeanour, he will. A woman never will take responsibility, even after being taught. It is a threat to her survival to become liable for blame. Why do you think women make choices as a group? So that no single one of them can be blamed.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/19 02:08 PM
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Undisciplined women invariably vote socialists into office. They opt to protect themselves by having the state infringe on individual liberties one at a time until none remain. It all starts with giving women the right to vote.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/19 07:39 AM
1

I would enjoy a return to the times when women were openly mocked to keep their egos in check. I exercise that right every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 02:50 PM
1

Whether or not a degree means anything or is "worth it" is subjective No it isn't. Whether someone is willing to pay you for the skills you paid to learn is the measure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 05:50 AM
0

I love it. Our current dating culture has been a consequence-free fuckfest ever since my friends and I devised Red Pill strategies. And the best part is, every other man can have the same, if he's willing to put in the sweat.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 05:48 AM
3

No. Shut your mouth and keep this shit to yourself.
/r/askTRP06/11/19 02:28 AM
4

Can someone help me find the clitoris on a girl?
/r/askTRP06/11/19 02:23 AM
17

It doesn't matter if they're horrifying. It only matters if they're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 09:28 PM
6

In most cases, you're right. And that's why you are seeing our civilization slowly circle the drain. We're not the first society to succumb by over-indulging our women. It seems to occur in cycles, and no one yet has engineered a social solution viral enough to reverse the process once it has begun. For now, it is an inevitable consequence of being too successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 01:43 AM
8

J-Lo speaking her solipsism into the mic.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 01:22 AM
3

Easy. You just don't contact them.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 01:21 AM
1

At the same time “feminists” don’t make men voluntarily walk away from their kids. Sure they do. They don't provide incentives for men to stick around. This is where "pump and dump" comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 01:19 AM
2

A thing is toxic if it has adverse effects on the body when coming into contact with it. Masculine men are men who exhibit: Stoicism Determination Dominance Competitiveness Aggression against their enemies So "toxic masculinity" is usually defined as masculine behaviours that cause, in the perception of a culture, harm on undeserving recipients of it. Some commonly cited examples of toxic masculinity analogous to the traits above are: Extreme stoicism bordering on psychopathy or callousness Stub…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 01:17 AM
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It's not just trad women who want masculine men. All women want a masculine man. Even the most stark-raving purple-haired BBW feminist wants to be bent over and spanked by a Daddy who knows what's best for her (she just knows she can't attract one). Attraction triggers are hardwired into females. And as for "trad women" themselves, they are a dying breed. There aren't enough fathers keeping their households in order. Mostly because there isn't enough incentive to do so anymore. If you want a kin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 12:42 AM
3

Men don't need a perfect body from you - "not a horrendous slob" is about the most you really need. And a perfect body is hardly the rarest or most valuable commodity in the female dating pool. Femininity, social grace, and expressions of appreciation. These are highly valuable to men, and they are things that a sexbots won't be able to provide until we're already on the threshold of artificial intelligence. But it's up to you if you want to set your own bar so low.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 12:32 AM
2

A sexbot would only be preferred over you if the sexbot provided a better relationship experience. Are you saying that you can't even muster a better personality than an inanimate object?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 10:10 PM
5

Replacement by sex robots lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 04:30 PM
3

It's not a subject for investigative reporting. Because each man's story would be completely different. Just live your live using the strategies that get the best results for you.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 04:18 PM
7

Re-read the sidebar, snowflake. You're asking stupid questions that have been answered long before.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 04:15 PM
1

Women will complain about something else that they want, and wait around for men to provide it. Because they're strong like that. You know, the same way that they've "achieved" everything else LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 04:08 PM
2

You don't start by approaching chicks that you want to bang. You start by talking to any chick. The little old lady standing in line next to you at the grocery. The fat chick operating the till at the book store. The weird pseudo goth girl with the lame tattoos and ugly metal in her face at the coffee shop. The aging, bebe-wearing has-been shopping for teenager clothes at the mall. You practice on girls in whom you have no stake for success, and this removes your anxiety about talking with them.…
/r/askTRP31/10/19 01:29 PM
1

You'll listen to anyone boss you around, cupcake. Your obedience to external authority is inevitable. The real question is, "why should I be the one to grab hold of your leash?" In the end, only good girls can attract good caretakers.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 01:23 PM
2

Only out of necessity.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 01:15 PM
1

Next time, be your own biggest fan.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 01:12 PM
1

Too bad, bro. Women are children. Let us count the ways: They habitually avoid blame. They make decisions in groups, because groups help disperse blame. They habitually avoid responsibility, because with responsibility comes the possibility of blame. When they don't get what they want, they throw a tantrum until Daddy Patriarchy gives it to them (they call this "Feminism" lol). They are more concerned with feelings than facts. They are easily manipulated with appeals to emotion. They have diffic…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 03:16 AM
11

Now, for the next step: Learn how to be the branch she swings to. Learn how to bend and drop her if she tries to put any weight on you.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 01:33 PM
15

I didn’t come to came in Vietnam to get and got a girl pregnant ftfy
/r/askTRP30/10/19 01:32 PM
9

It's still there, but it's quarantined. Quarantined subs are not visible by default on mobile. Get on a desktop computer and subscribe there.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 01:27 PM
11

You haven't understood the purpose of this subreddit.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 01:26 PM
1

All I know for certain is that we're talking about the girl who made an uninspired amateur porn video recreating her "rape" and then called the video "performance art".
/r/TheRedPill30/10/19 04:40 AM
10

It's not a compromise, junior. Crazy bitches are bad for your health and wealth. The outcome of this tryst will tell you definitively if she can go the distance. The important thing is to play the encounter cool and manage the whole thing correctly. Set all the standards and expectations, and be the guide for both girls. They will look to you for cues on what's okay. If you play it all correctly, then you will be able to see where your main falls on the crazy scale.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 02:05 PM
10

You already know the answer here. It's not our job to give you absolution or forgiveness. Ghost this chick, and next time don't give boyfriend benefits without making the bitch earn them first. You're a man. Your time is the most valuable thing on this planet.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 02:00 PM
127

Man Law goes like this: if you and your bruh are into the same chick, then the one who knew her first gets priority, and the second wingmans him. If he misses or flubs his shot, or if the chick is clearly more interested in #2 during the attempt, then #2 becomes the primary and #1 wingmans him. What you don't do ever is cockblock a bro for the sake of a bitch. They're not worth it. If your bro(s) are blocking you, sit down and have a talk about priorities. If they're not on the same page, part w…
/r/askTRP29/10/19 01:57 PM
5

You are her safety relationship. She said that to see how you would carry it, and to use her reaction as an excuse to eject. She's already shopping for fresh dick.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 01:47 PM
3

I mean it's rude af Only if you say it to an adult. Women aren't adults.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 01:46 PM
2

Lol that encompasses pretty much every female on the internet who isn't lurking in a feminazi forum or concealing her sex altogether. I wouldn't say that eThots have upfront pricing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 09:16 PM
10

Yeah, seems like we have as many genders as Baskin Robbins has flavours.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/19 12:10 AM
2

No one cares if men are hurt by anything, unfortunately. I prefer, instead, to openly mock shit like this. Grab that Overton Window and give it a good yank.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/19 12:09 AM
8

What's an eThot? Is that those "Venmo me $10 and see what happens" bitches?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 11:09 PM
1

That's because TRP is a toolbox for getting what you want, and that's all it is. You have to develop goals of your own. A toolbox is useless if you don't have a project in mind. However, you can get some ideas by seeing what tools are available to you.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/19 02:09 PM
15

Yes, but it's okay for men to sleep around. Women keep showing us that it is. The more promiscuous a man is, the more it angers a woman and turns her on.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/19 01:52 PM
0

You were making it sound like every other person you encounter in America is obese, that’s just not ~the~ my experience. Fixed that for you. I'm surrounded by fat fuckers where I live. And a bigger proportion of them are women. Women lack internal discipline and impulse control (from evolutionary factors). This is exacerbated by the fact that western society indulges (and even celebrates) impulsive decision-making on the part of females. It's fat bitches all the way down.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 06:00 PM
1

So fatasses are clustering together and eating at the same buffets. Who cares? Their asses are still lop-siding our national bell curve.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 01:54 PM
44

I’d be curious to know just how obnoxious you can be in game while still pulling. Go out into the field and find out. Here's a quick tip: how far a man can go with being obnoxious depends on his SMV.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 01:25 PM
2

No. The rule zero of TRP is stay on message. It's right there, Ace >>>
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 01:23 PM
17

And impulse control also has a root: discipline provided by a male.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 01:21 PM
88

She would do it just to prove herself that she stil had it, that she could still get a man to fuck her whenever she wanted... That's like a power lifter picking up a pink rubber dumbell, doing a single curl, and saying "Yep, still got it."
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 01:19 PM
8

Exactly. OP's success was likely the result of numerous trials and unseen failures. Success in seduction does not come effortlessly. If it did, this subreddit would not exist.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 04:53 AM
2

She's only dead weight if you fail to train her. Teach her to be useful to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 01:03 AM
0

So bitches think its okay if everyone else is doing it. Thanks for confirming what we already know LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 12:11 AM
26

Lol @ the diversity remark. If this is the average weight of women, it means that more than half of all US women are disgusting fatasses. But you're right, a heart attack is about the least prejudiced thing out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 01:53 PM
3

America has let its women off the leash. You were always going to have to train the woman you ended up with. Find a fat chick with a decent personality, teach her to lift, and make her yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 01:43 PM
10

You bring a bitch home to fuck her, not to play house.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 05:15 AM
6

Women are powerless, remember? Nothing is ever their fault, and they are therefore perpetual victims. Of course, this also means we need to start treating them like they children they demand to be. So that means no voting, no driving, no home ownership or property rights of any kind, and definitely no going anywhere unattended. Let's do everything in our power to protect them from the hostile forces of the universe - including themselves. It's what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 09:34 PM
1

The personality does not have concrete physical existence, but is it true? So what we are really asking is, "does the abstraction of habitual behaviours into archetypes called 'personality' have predictive power?" My answer would be, "most of the time". Humans tend to believe in the concept of personalities because, for so much of the time, abstracting a set of habits into an archetype does predict the behaviour of others. People are not being duplicitous for most of the time, so we can take the…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/19 09:25 PM
4

Men should have the right to a "financial abortion," and equal footing when it comes to fighting for child custody. Funny how you don't see the "equal rights" activists mentioning any of this, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 01:10 PM
2

Quantities like the number "2" may be invented, but their effects are not when we apply them consistently according to a system of rules (which we call mathematics). Mathematics has predictive power that is consistent and not up to interpretation. It's ability to begin with truth and then preserve that truth over a series of logical steps can be verified. The concept of "personality" does not stand up to this kind of rigour. Personality can only be inferred from behaviour, but it cannot be verif…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/19 05:44 PM
2

This is the correct attitude. You did well.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 08:47 AM
3

From each according to his ability, to each according to his contribution. Boom. Suck it, Marx.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 05:56 AM
2

How do you detect and measure personality? By electromagnetic emissions? Or is it seismic? Or by particle emission detection?
/r/TheRedPill14/10/19 05:52 AM
9

Flirting for the fuck of it and fuck expectation or fear of expressing sexuality Exactly, nigga. If you flirt with a female you don't intend on banging, you are automatically at the minimum level of fucks it is possible to give. You are therefore free to say whatever you want. In this kind of test environment, you can examine the outcomes of different strategies. Do this with any and every chick, and the entire world becomes your laboratory.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 05:47 AM
5

Here's a fun tip: women are shit liars. When a woman lies to save her own ass, she will instinctively try to harness your protective instinct to prevent you from digging deeper into her story - things like "I can't believe you thiiiiiink that" or "I've always been gooooood to you and now you're accuuuusing meeeeeee". But once you've been Red Pill for long enough, you consciously stop giving a shit about taking a woman at her word. When you are no longer under the influence of this power, you can…
/r/askTRP14/10/19 05:40 AM
6

Feel free to continue arguing technicalities like a robot. I'll be here trying to impart my experience on the rest of our readers here. I'll let you know when my slaves step out of line and fuck another guy. But for now, both are going on two years (and numerous opportunities to cheat), and so far no bites. Or ask /u/Whisper, he has owned his slave longer than I have owned mine. How long has Funsize been running for bro, six years now? Seven?
/r/askTRP14/10/19 04:51 AM
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Dude, talk to every chick. Flirt with fat chicks, flirt with fugly chicks, flirt with little old ladies standing in line at the grocery store. Flirting is both harmless and it's free practice. You only have to escalate and seal the deal with the ones you intend on banging. Every chick is an opportunity to practice and get out of your head. Play with all of them.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 04:46 AM
11

Sounds like you've got some latent Oneitis, and it's tying you to the idea of having a single woman forever. You're afraid of losing what you have, and not focusing on what you have the potential to grasp. In time, you will understand why I don't worry about the uncertain loyalty of females, and why my lack of worry is precisely what makes them loyal.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 04:36 AM
12

Nothing is absolute. We speak in generalities for convenience, because we're not autistic robots. Become attractive enough and you will have women queuing up to have a chance at a relationship with you. The quality of your company, combined with the ever-present competition posed by that queue, will motivate the girl who presently has your attention to do everything in her power to keep it. The principle of loss aversion even comes into effect.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 04:29 AM
11

So we've thrown all pretense out the window about this being a "debate sub". I mean, it never was a debate sub, but now we're not even pretending anymore, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 03:42 AM
6

I have never met this person. anyone can post anything online, doesnt mean shit You're saying that your time is so worthless that you can spend it listening to a bunch of online blowhards jerking themselves off, and the world won't be affected in the least. Lmao thanks for letting us know.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 03:31 AM
33

Wait until you become so attractive that you can enrapture a woman and never worry about her fidelity.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 12:09 AM
10

Women are liquid. They take the shape of the men in their lives. Fathers, bosses, influential past boyfriends, etc. If a woman has no "personality" that you can infer from her actions, then she has learned nothing that was influential enough to alter her habits. Remember, there's no such thing as personality.
/r/askTRP11/10/19 02:06 PM
6

Men aren't taught about female sexuality because a man's attractiveness hinges on his seductive abilities appearing innate, rather than learned. If a loser can learn to appear more attractive that he "really is", he can mate with women out of his league. This idea scares women, and it accounts for why TRP receives so much hate and opposition.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 02:01 PM
1

They don't get your jokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 02:09 PM
28

This isn't a Ponzi scheme or a cult. There are no brownie points or cash payouts. No one cares how many warm bodies you bring here. Bring a man only when he is ready, and only when he asks first.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/19 01:53 PM
28

Alpha and beta are behaviours, not personality archetypes. There is no such thing as personality.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/19 01:48 PM
50

It's not up to you to fix anything but your own life.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/19 01:43 PM
0

Yep. And just think, we let them vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 05:30 AM
2

Exactly. If you're dumb enough to give away your money for something that's available for free, you need to experience some pain in order to learn the lesson.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 05:28 AM
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Giving her orders and clear expectations, as per my Guide to Training Bitches. Women crave for structure. If a man doesn't provide it for her, she will seek it in stupid groupthink movements and government intervention.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/19 12:20 AM
2

No. This is projecting. A woman's attraction triggers are based in behaviour and not appearance, except insofar as his appearance signals good health.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/19 04:39 AM
1

Let voices of reason debate the other side without silencing them. If the other side had reasoning people, there wouldn't be an other side.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/19 04:03 AM
6

Sounds like the perfect time to post HumanSockPuppet's Guide To Corporeally Punishing Bitches.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 12:17 AM
3

You're nobody til somebody hates you.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 02:10 PM
11

Sex isn't all I want, unless it's all she's got.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/19 06:21 PM
3

I take men who are ripe for exploitation by the feminine imperative and lead them astray. I teach them that their lives are valuable for their own sake, and I show them how to demand respect and appreciation for their precious time and effort. I'm a monster.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 05:34 AM
2

Tactfully deflecting the advances of uggos without humiliating or hurting their feelings raises your SMV (this generally involves flirting back, but never sealing the deal). Actually fucking them lowers your SMV.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 05:32 AM
21

leaving the men who listened to feminism in the dark. Pain is a necessary component of learning.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/19 05:11 PM
17

It's not that she fucked on the first date. It's that she had less long term potential than girl number two. Don't think for a second that her replacement didn't ALSO fuck within the first two dates.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 11:19 AM
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Happened to me once before with a girl who turned out to have absolutely no relationship experience. Never kissed a guy, let alone had sex. There are anomalies, though they are rare. Soft next, and wait for her to reach out to you. If she does, she is interested, and you can escalate on a second date. If she doesn't, then she's saving your time, and you can move on.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 09:11 PM
11

Feminism did not destroy marriage. The inevitable advancement of technology is what destroyed marriage.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/19 05:06 PM
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The important lesson to take away here is that people do what they are incentivized to do. Women were incentivized (by feminism and the loosening of sexual mores) to indulge their animal instincts, rather than to develop strategies for securing happiness and companionship later in life. The older generations of women were disincentivized from advising women about the truth of sexual dynamics. Self-indulgence and a general lack of wisdom about the consequences of sleeping around became the norm. …
/r/TheRedPill14/09/19 05:03 PM
9

If you're not dead, then it's not too late.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 01:57 PM
19

This is exactly correct. Sex is a very small component of what we teach, although it occupies a great deal of men's mental real estate because of how pressing (and lacking) it is.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/19 01:40 PM
1

A socially inept person living at home playing World of Warcraft or whatever the kids are playing these days isn’t useful Sure he is. He's useful to Blizzard.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/19 01:54 PM
11

No, don't tell him. They're fun when they're innocent.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/19 07:38 AM
48

Always asked me for rides, which i never gave. Damn son, nothing wrong with letting a bitch ride from time to time.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/19 08:12 PM
9

This is the correct answer.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 08:29 PM
5

Plate her, but say nothing. Only put enough effort in her to continue extracting sex. She has lost the privilege of your emotional investment. Get into the habit of moving in the direction of things that fulfill your needs and goals. Don't over-invest in lost causes. This bitch is now one of those.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 03:43 PM
20

Perfectly phrased. Thanks for the LOL.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 07:18 PM
22

Telling a girl "I love you" is a bonding gesture. You reward her with bonding gestures as a reward for good behaviour on her part, in order to reinforce continued good behaviour. Refer to my Guides to Managing Bitches and Training Bitches for more information.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 07:17 PM
5

Don't hail me. I'm just some asshole on the internet. What you should do, for your own sake, is verify the things I say by testing them in the field.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/19 07:05 PM
5

If there's one bitch who always deserves your committment and attention, it's yourself.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 07:01 PM
6

Why do you feel the need to use conversational tricks? There's a purpose to everything that I do and say. Never take the words of an EC at face value.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/19 06:52 PM
10

You're arguing that men and women are the same. Are you sure you want to die on that hill?
/r/TheRedPill29/08/19 06:45 PM
11

You are providing a single, questionable point of data. Hardly a convincing case. Every test we have conducted this past decade indicates that, while attractiveness acts as a force multiplier in initial attraction, it is insufficient in sustaining that attraction. This is why, on a long-enough timeline, even Chads often get bitchified by their hot girlfriends and wives. They have the looks to draw a woman in, but they lack the game necessary to control and direct her. Eventually, she bucks his a…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/19 04:37 PM
14

Work on your game, junior.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/19 03:19 PM
15

The tradeoff of looks and game is not one-to-one. Game is the bigger factor.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/19 02:05 PM
0

Yes I learn by listening. I don't learn a thing listening to you. So work on your reading comprehension. I don't know why you are so threatened And now you move straight to the shaming tactics. Looks like feminism is affecting you. Why do you resort to an authoritarian attitude Because that's how teaching works. That's why when someone is knowledgeable in a subject, they're called an authority. At this point, it's not my goal to persuade you of anything. I've openly and vehemently contradicted a…
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/19 12:45 AM
12

You are free from a thing precisely to the degree that you do not need it.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/19 03:48 PM
12

Constant practice is the way to naturalize RP behaviour.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/19 03:22 PM
4

You're feeling anxiety over your attraction to him. This is normal. You want to make sure he's going to stick around after sex. But you're not going to increase your odds of keeping him by holding back or holding out. In order to keep him, you have to be better than all his other options. That means treating him better, and giving him better experiences, than any of the other girls.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/19 03:16 PM
2

that does not give you justification to rant My friends and I created and maintain this place. Consider this maintenence. and remind us when we are only discussing the many variations of feminism. There's nothing to discuss. There are no "variations of feminism". Feminism isn't ice cream, it doesn't have flavours. It's a recipe for getting free ice cream by hijacking men's protective instinct, all to your long-term detriment. How do we learn if we do not talk about it? You don't learn by talking…
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/19 04:37 AM
2

Most guys aren't ready to hear what we have to say until they've been hurt, badly.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/19 01:55 AM
4

Feminism is not about empowerment. It's not even a movement. It's a procedure for manipulating men into giving you free shit. RedPillWomen is diametrically opposed to feminism, because it's about inspiring devotion in men, not demanding it.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/19 01:51 AM
5

Who cares if it's accurate or not? Worrying too much what another catty bitch thinks is what gives most women problems. Caring about the opinions of some internet rando is just more of the same. Point is, you're here now. Read the articles, share ideas and stories, learn something, and give back so that the community continues to thrive.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/19 12:08 AM
8

Sticky your own comment. This is the comment that needs to be read.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/19 04:15 AM
5

what should be the role of fathers to their children in today's world? I don't think the role of fathers has changed. Their value has increased due to increased demand and decreased supply. What important roles do fathers fill that mothers cannot? Successful fathers ("successful" here defined as rearing a family that thrives emotionally) function as role models for their children: to give their sons something to aspire to, and to give their daughters a model for what to look for in a future mate…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/19 04:14 AM
1

So find ten other thots to chat with.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 01:17 PM
2

Step one, never end your messages with fucking hearts. Step two, go out and do challenging shit that has nothing to do with bitches. Be humble, focus on getting good, and don't bother looking up to see if people are watching you become badass. You build confidence by having victories in life. So work towards small victories and let them build bit by bit. Women come later.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 01:15 PM
3

Dude. Fuck all that. Just text with "Hey". And have that same detached conversation with about ten other girls simultaneously. If you don't already have ten other girls on the hook, spend the time you're wasting on bitch #1 finding the other nine instead.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 01:10 PM
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If money is your distinguishing feature, and she makes more than you, then yes. It matters, and she'll think you're a chump because she makes more. If your distinguishing feature is masculinity, the esteem of your peers, the respect of your community, and the admiration of other women, she could be the granddaughter of Warren Buffet and it wouldn't matter. Be more than a money-providing beta simp.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 01:07 PM
21

"I love how you're making me feel."
/r/askTRP21/08/19 01:02 PM
4

My attitude has not kept pace with my gains. That's all right, as long as you're aware now. Add it to your regimen.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/19 02:52 AM
9

New rules. I am the prize. TRP 501. This is graduate level shit, from my undergrad level position. So easy to say, so hard to be. The funny thing is, this all begins with attitude. If you act like you're the shit, your mind will eventually follow. Sure it takes a little reference experience to really believe it, but in many cases just acting "the way that a badass would" turns you into that very badass. Approaching life with this strategy will result in you facing challenges you might not have i…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/19 07:35 PM
33

Boundaries are like borders of a country. They must be actively enforced at all times. If a woman cannot see the line in the dirt where shit starts to get bad, it's because you're slacking on enforcement.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/19 12:11 PM
10

The rewards are incremental, and hard to notice at first. Persistence in spite of seemingly low rewards is key to breaking past the first challenges.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/19 11:24 PM
7

Don't ask. Tell.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 07:21 PM
1

Flaking isn't a decision. It's a feeling.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 02:12 AM
2

He should critique his abilities as they have evolved over time, like he's a sports commentator. "You can see here my undeveloped thrusting technique. In the years which followed, I took up yoga and it really improved my entry."
/r/askTRP18/08/19 02:11 AM
14

Her email sounds half like a farewell and I know she had clinical depression during the marriage. Part of me feels guilty of this for being such a beta chump at the time and dumping the leadership on her. Not your bitch. Not your problem.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 02:09 AM
2

Consider this: the world you live in hasn't changed. Only your awareness of what;s going on in it has changed. Other men have not become weaker. You have become stronger because of your RP awareness. Use your newfound insight to gain advantage, and build the world the way you want, and to find the kinds of friends who will help you build it.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 02:06 AM
5

Talk to every girl you meet, and make your only goal to have a conversation about bullshit. Don't worry about attraction, signals, or any of that. Just focus on filling the few seconds or minutes with small talk. Once you realize that all women are pretty boring, you won't have any problem treating them like toys and extracting your own fun from them.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 02:03 AM
2

If you're training for fitness, do whatever you like best. The fun factor will make it easier for you to stick with it. If you're training for self-defence, pick one and stick to it. Once you begin to develop proficiency and can appreciate the differences between styles, pick up another style. Also, if you're doing it for self-defence, learn to use a firearm, if you have access to them in your country.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 02:01 AM
5

The ultimate goal is to get yourself unhooked from easy dopamine rewards so you can get yourself into the habit of doing things that reward sustained effort in the long run.
/r/askTRP18/08/19 01:58 AM
8

"Ooooh she's afraid of commitment."
/r/TheRedPill16/08/19 05:32 AM
1

You've boned enough dudes to have a significant sample, and most of them didn't seem concerned about birth control. Consider the possibility that you are low-hanging fruit, and you've been a cum dumpster for a sample of losers LMAO. Edit: You might want to get yourself screened.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 01:18 PM
1

You suck at abstract thinking too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/19 12:25 AM
12

Fear is a component of respect, and female love is grounded deeply in respect - for your power and presence. If she's not at least a little afraid of you, you're not attractive enough. This is why egotistical females always accuse guys of being "intimidated" for not approaching her. All she's doing is projecting her own behaviours.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/19 12:32 AM
2

If you're concerned about how your husband will respond to changes in your appearance, try doing them one small piece at a time. First change your hair. Then one article of clothing. Then another. Do it cumulatively, and see if he responds (positively or negatively) to each change. If he appears to be happier or more interested, then you know it's having a positive effect. If he seems indifferent, then you can continue doing it for your own sake if it pleases you. If he seems off-put by it, then…
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/19 02:07 PM
3

There are a lot of good financial blogs out there. Check out Mr. Money Mustache, he has a lot of excellent lifestyle articles around clearing debt and improving your quality of life through self-reliance and reduction of frivolous luxuries. He even lets his wife do guest postings, so you can get a woman's perspective on financial issues.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/19 02:03 PM
1

It's a very guy instinct to bring other guys in on something you like, and he's extending it to you assuming that you'll take to it the way a guy would. It's a compliment when you really think about it. As a few others have said, the best way to approach it is without confrontation, but by addressing it as something you wish you could please him with. One possible approach might be: "I don't feel like I'm as into games as you are, but I don't want to upset you by not playing. It's hard for me." …
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/19 02:00 PM
1

Women can't even do math or pick a restaurant, so yeah. Definitely women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/19 12:41 PM
7

Some women, when confronted with a man of exceedingly high status and merit, will become so insecure that they feel the need to try and knock him down a peg. They do this by attacking his sexual status. Women attack his sexual status because they have a natural advantage over men in sexual negotiations (for two reasons): Because women have more suitors than men. Because men are required by the seduction process to be the initiators and pursuers, which makes them appear wanting. So by baiting him…
/r/askTRP10/08/19 04:41 PM
5

We prefer the term Mother Hen. "Alpha female" makes them think they're formidable. Bonus: amusedly calling a Mother Hen by that term to her face will blow her out of the water.
/r/askTRP10/08/19 02:30 AM
163

This. Do not fall into the trap of assuming that beta behaviours have no purpose. They are a tool. The problem is that most guys use only beta tools their whole lives. And once they switch to the Red Pill, they want to only use alpha tools. The correct tool varies based on the situation and what you want to get out of it.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/19 02:25 PM
3

A woman can reach 30 gracefully. In fact, with the right attitude, a 30+ year old woman can be more attractive and a better long-term prospect than a younger competitor. It just doesn't happen that often because people are rarely introspective and willing to change, even for their own sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 01:29 PM
1

"Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?" Because milk isn't the only dairy product men are buying.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 06:20 AM
2

Because if you're dumb enough to let a woman convince you to give up your leverage, you're dumb enough to let a woman to convince you to do anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 06:19 AM
1

If you look around the world, there does appear to be a correlation between feminization and peace and prosperity. Femininity is a product of safe environments, not the cause of it. Feminine attitudes can only flourish in an environment where masculinity has established borders and stands guard.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 06:18 AM
2

Cuz socially maladjusted harpies who missed the boat need to have their eggs fertilized too. Be a man and do your duty.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/19 06:12 AM
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Watch some documentaries about baboon troup migration. They move in large bands, with males leading and owning a harem of females. When these troups go to war with each other, the males attempt to kill the rival males and steal females. Pragmatically speaking, it doesn't make sense to kill the females since they are not formidable enough to be combatants, and since they can be used for breeding once they are brought to heel. So you dominate your opponent and take his women, and the women will qu…
/r/askTRP07/08/19 12:53 PM
0

If you care about society and about the fate of future generations I don't. I care about my family and friends, and that's all. And don't for a second try to pretend like you care either, because no one is buying it. You would be more hurt by the loss of a pet than by the death or suffering of unknown hypothetical strangers.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 12:36 PM
4

I always ask for the number, and I've tended to not ask, but tell. Exactly. Over the years, I have built up a series of compliance tests that become increasingly complex as the girl invests more and more in me. Demanding her phone number once I have successfully attracted her and made her laugh is one of the first compliance tests.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 02:34 AM
1

Who cares? Women's happiness is no longer your problem. The only women whose happiness you need concern yourself with are those who submit to you and work to please you. They have earned the benefit of your interest. The rest can go figure out life on their own.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 01:28 AM
14

This right here. Enjoy the highs when they happen, but don't depend on them. Discipline matters most when everything around you sucks.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 12:16 AM
5

I use EVERY girl for practice.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 12:00 AM
1

In my opinion, cold approaching is for low SMV guys that get no IOIs. Why would she want to talk to me? There's no point talking to a random girl without getting signals from her before. I think it's creepy, slimy & I'd feel watched when I do it with multiple girls at the same venue. You're letting bitches do all the initiation?
/r/askTRP04/08/19 11:09 PM
4

Good. It should feel like shit. That sensation is the feeling of compromising your masculinity in the hopes of having a bitch pat you on the head. You don't learn without pain to reinforce the lesson. Let it make you stronger and more resolute next time.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 03:35 AM
2

It could be that. But when most others girls respond enthusiastically, and then one comes along who's as responsive as a week-old caught tuna, you start to suspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 04:18 PM
1

If she's traumatized then I definitely don't want to date her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 04:15 PM
0

A woman's sexual past can be inferred from her behaviour. Specifically, from the state of her capacity to pair bond. If she's playful, eager, and enraptured with a guy, then odds are she's not too damaged. If on the other hand her affect is flat, or she seems generally unimpressed or unexpressive, then she has likely seen more hotdogs than a baseball stadium.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/19 03:09 PM
1

Change your fucking phone number.
/r/askTRP03/08/19 03:05 PM
43

Shitlib feminists will call you daddy when given the proper dicking. It's all a facade.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/19 03:36 AM
7

Mark Rippetoe
/r/TheRedPill31/07/19 04:03 AM
1

Go ahead and knock her self-esteem. Women need to have it knocked down if they're doing something wrong. Just be sure to prop it back up somewhere else when you're talking to her about something she does well.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 01:08 PM
3

She made this easy for you. The answer is clear cut, and you've handled it already. Now it's time for YOU to go out and ragefuck some rando girl. And yes, that is what will help you get over her faster. Just don't let yourself get attached to the new one too soon. Make her go through the same fierce vetting process.
/r/askTRP29/07/19 01:07 PM
1

How's your kino game?
/r/askTRP28/07/19 03:51 PM
9

You're phrasing your dissatisfaction like threats and ultimatums. "I'm gonna leave unless..." / "Do this or else..." You need to lead, not give directions from the back seat.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 03:50 PM
6

This is the correct answer.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 03:45 PM
3

Learn LMR strategies, and these worries evaporate.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/19 03:37 PM
3

Express humble gratitude whenever girls gift you with stuff What does this look like? I come from an upbringing where gift giving was transactional and only happened on birthdays/holidays. "Hey, cool/I like it/Nice. Thanks babe." pull her in close by the waist for a kiss or a butt slap, give her a smile with eye contact, then set it aside and go on with whatever you were gonna do next
/r/askTRP26/07/19 09:57 PM
6

Read my Guide to Managing Bitches. This is an indicator that these girls really like you and want to impress you. Proceed now with the understanding that these girls regard you as leagues above them. Be cool about it, and let that mellow, superior confidence show in your attitude. Express humble gratitude whenever girls gift you with stuff, as though it happens all the time (because apparently, it does). You're making progress.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 06:17 PM
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Whenever I don’t fap for too many days (>4) I become too energetic and end up doing stupid stuff That's supposed to happen. Evolution built that into you so you would take the kind of risks that get you laid. Channel that energy into doing something stupid and amazing in your leisure time. Try timing your abstinence so that your most energetic days fall on the weekend (or whenever you're free). Otherwise, channel that energy into your work - although that can be hard to do depending on what you …
/r/askTRP26/07/19 06:15 PM
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Women make shit friends, because even female friends need to be told what to do, instructed explicitly, etc. If you're going to put in that much effort, you may as well instruct her to sit on your dick too.
/r/askTRP26/07/19 05:18 PM
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I'm guessing that's because only one picture fills the mind and when that plate is smashed, it's essentially chaos? Correct. There are two principles at work here: The mind is influenced by the state of the body and sensory input. If you only ever interact with one woman, your mind is convinced that she's the only one around. Your brain cannot tell the difference between reality and fantasy. They're all just electrical impulses. So if you spend all your time thinking about one girl, then that's …
/r/askTRP26/07/19 05:17 PM
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I prefer the term benevolent misogyny. More succinct. Just playfully smack talk women and their bullshit when they are are around, laugh, absorb all the outraged, giggly, tingle-reflex punches that bitches send your way, and then behold as they jockey for a position on your harem.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/19 04:51 PM
3

I accepted things long ago for what they are. Good. The next step is to make things into what you want them to be.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/19 12:58 PM
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You're not the first female to attempt this. During your experiment, be very careful to note which techniques you are using, the type of man you are using them on (attractive, unattractive, he has options, he doesn't have options), and what effects they have. Techniques which are effective on women will often repulse men. This has been verified in the past.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/19 02:03 PM
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u/girlwithabike and I were talking about it last night and we both are of the opinion that the reaction of u/Whisper is one of his rare displays of genuine emotion - in this case, most likely disgust at Dylan. /u/Whisper could give a fig for what Dylan says or does. The only time Whisper would become involved or care is if Dylan came to TRP asking for advice about his masquerading strategy. But men will respond much more negatively, and in a visceral fashion. Dylan breaks the implicitly agreed-u…
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/19 01:59 PM
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There's no way to classify guys or techniques on a single, monolithic scale. We say that TRP is a toolbox, and the metaphor holds in numerous ways. Think of a real toolbox. You don't have to learn how to use a hammer before learning how to use a screwdriver. You can learn either depending on when and where you need to use them. And learning either might impart other lessons in the process, such as the importance of taking measurements and of keeping fastened objects level. TRP is a giant box of …
/r/TheRedPill23/07/19 06:45 PM
3

Use your high school's weight room. Flirt with all the attractive girls at school. Develop a reputation for it. Start thinking about what you want to major in or pursue vocationally. Make sure it's something that will give you sellable skills. No liberal arts, psychology, or other useless shit. Either STEM, or take up a trade like plumbing, welding, electrics, etc. Get into trouble now that you're a minor and your record can be forgiven or expunged. Don't get into criminal shit, but get some goo…
/r/askTRP23/07/19 05:27 AM
1

It's not bi-girls who are trouble. It's girls who openly advertise themselves as bi. Doing so is attention-seeking behaviour, and indicative of a deeper addiction to validation.
/r/askTRP23/07/19 04:57 AM
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Let's get you thinking about this. Why do you think you only behave alpha when you're drunk?
/r/askTRP23/07/19 04:55 AM
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Good work. Most guys don't even go as far as getting a number from the girl in the park. Next time, try a pressure flip. If she brings up MeToo shit, agree about the danger suggesting that, for all you know, she could be a serial killer trying to lure you back to her place so she can add you to her collection.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/19 04:34 AM
5

Start with my Guide to Training Bitches. Side bar.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/19 05:45 AM
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Every girl has a boyfriend, even when she doesn't. The "boyfriend" will impede the weak and unphase the strong.
/r/askTRP20/07/19 04:12 PM
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Stop interacting with women with the expectation of respecting them. They are not worthy of it. Instead, you need to adopt the attitude that you are running a day care service. That's right, your job is to look after bitches for a living: making sure they stay focused, don't eat sugar or crayons, exercise, dress in a way that pleases you, and other essential life functions. And at your daycare service business, you only accept obedience and good-treatment as payment. Start having expectations of…
/r/askTRP20/07/19 04:10 PM
2

So its a you dont know for sure you have to test it and if it strikes out dont worry Exactly. I'm nothing special, just some guy who practiced cold approaches and learned to get good. And I still fail. Don't make a big thing of it.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 02:08 PM
2

What are signs of you have build enough rapport in the minute you have talked? Compliance. Test her compliance gradually and see how she responds. If she follows your lead, she is interested.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 01:57 PM
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Don't wait around for her. This is your time, you should be using it to do fun shit or develop yourself. If she really wanted to be a part of it, she would make time and stay in touch. Because she flaked on "very specific plans", she's not into you anymore. Next.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 01:53 PM
8

An open bag of Skittles that you've dipped into already. Just kidding. Don't eat that shit, it'll kill you.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 01:48 PM
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Invite her to your place and cook together. If she accepts, she's still into you. Escalate and take what's yours. If she doesn't accept, move on.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 01:47 PM
4

Depends on how easily you can get pussy, and when the last time you had pussy was. 65 miles ain't so far to drive, especially to experience something new. But if you can experience something else new and not miss your lifting, do that then.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 01:45 PM
1

Have you been Training Your Bitch like you should have all this time? Have you been Managing Your Bitch? It doesn't sound like you have. Read the side bar.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 01:44 PM
2

I want to become a merchant marine, but I'd have to save up like 6k-7k to get me through the school. Go read Mr Money Mustache.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 01:38 PM
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When you handle your crap and don't need your girlfriend to be your friend or your mommy or your secretary, and she has literally nothing to do except be a good girlfriend because all she's facing is your very reasonable, understood expectations of frequent sex and not being a bitch, that are so obvious you don't even have to say them, that's your chance to see what kind of girlfriend she really is. Indeed. You can evaluate her knowing that any shortcomings you observe will be hers, rather than …
/r/TheRedPill18/07/19 11:48 PM
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In reality, she wants to the douchebag bro the choose her and treat her right. The problem is that she has no idea how to make him stay. At TRP, we teach men how to project the right qualities to seduce women and, if you are so inclined, how to make a long-term prospect of any girl you seduce provided she demonstrates long-term worthiness.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/19 01:26 PM
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Part of being a man is handling your shit. When all of the shit is handled and your life is in order and you don't need any more friends or social outlets or secretaries or mommies, your pretty little girlfriend has nothing to worry about except sucking your dick. She has all the time and all the space in the world to be who she is and be a good girlfriend (or a bad one). She's not burdened by your unrealistic expectations, which gives her the space and freedom to actually be feminine. I would a…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/19 01:23 PM
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No, there isn't. The traits which make for a good husband (courage, determination, protectiveness) are not homogeneously producible. They are either products of the man's upbringing, products of the man's life experience, or products of your feminine ability to inspire them. There are no good-husband shortcuts.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/19 10:39 PM
2

You're in the awkward transition phase between conscious understanding and unconscious understanding. Newbies get stuck here because when they learn about the Red Pill, they immediately want to start using it to influence outcomes. But you're not ready for that yet. You complete the transition to unconscious understanding by observing. Just live your life from day to day, observe the outcomes of words and actions, and then try to understand them with a Red Pill perspective. With time, outcomes w…
/r/askTRP10/07/19 11:23 PM
2

The body adapts to greatest stress that it chronically experiences, and nothing more - because anything more would be wasteful and unsustainable. So, how strong do you want to be?
/r/askTRP10/07/19 11:17 PM
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The main idea behind STFU is this: Don't let your emotions get the better of you. Yeah, it feels good to give in to an emotion and express it on the spot. But you may not have all of the information, or know everything that is going on. If you speak or act before you really understand the situation, you will definitely look foolish, and you'll probably upset your man and embarrass yourself. Always create the appearance of unity, don't air your dirty laundry in public. How you behave in front of …
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/19 07:34 AM
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Women are not deep tacticians. They never had to be. The male protective instinct for females is so strong that a shotglass full of crocodile tears is usually enough to recruit nearby men to whatever private agenda she may have. Luckily, we have learned that men actually have a breaking point - that there comes a point when a woman becomes so selfishly repulsive that men's protective instincts no longer identify her as female and vulnerable, and we become capable of evaluating her needs rational…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/19 03:37 AM
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IF you’re top 20%. Otherwise you’re worthless. No, wrong. Men are an exploited resource. We are the sex that produces value. We are the skilled and unskilled labourers that keep society humming day and night. Every Blue Pill lie that is weaved into the fabric of our society is designed to keep men working for the benefit of the lie's promoters. As long as Blue Pill men believe that they will one day be appreciated, loved, and respected for the effort and sacrifices they make now, they will conti…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/19 03:21 AM
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Exactly. They're doing you a favour and filtering themselves.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/19 07:16 PM
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Whenever a woman says anything, you can safely assume that the primary purpose of that statement is to make herself feel better.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/19 07:15 PM
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What does “fuckboy” even mean? Are women rebranding Alpha Males in order to make themselves feel better about hitting the Wall? Yes. They use the term to imply that they used the men purposefully for sex. It takes the edge off the realization that she herself was used for sex, and has nothing to show for it.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/19 06:29 PM
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To those of you who are just beginning to wake up: don't be discouraged by what you read here. Women are doing you a favour when they advertise their dual mating strategy so blatantly. Now is the time for you to begin seeing this shit for what it is. You are prey. It's time you realize just how valuable you are as a man, and to take steps to safeguarding your valuable attention.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/19 06:19 PM
2

Yeah, I'm running into that issue now. I want my nicknames for my girls to be both illustrative AND feminine. But sometimes that results in crossover, or just a lack of specificity.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/19 03:31 AM
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Guys coming in here thinking "TRP is about self-improvement" is the most common misconception. It's only a coincidence that many of the qualities and habits TRP promotes for the purpose of SMV improvement fall under what most people consider to be self-improvement. And those same people who cling to the self-improvement aspects of TRP conveniently ignore the SMV-improving strategies which are based on more "ignoble" tactics.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/19 06:27 AM
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Make sure to bookmark our offsite backup, TRP.red
/r/TheRedPill04/07/19 06:23 AM
2

Give her the full on "man treatment" experience. Don't help her with anything that isn't immediately life threatening. Take a hands-off tough love approach to giving advice, and let her solve shit on her own. Scold her when she cries, tell her to "stop bitching like a woman" when she complains about anything and to "handle it like a man should". Be unironic through all of this. Seriously pretend she's your son. If she's really destined to lead a masculine life, she will rise to the challenge, an…
/r/askTRP01/07/19 12:37 PM
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So post good shit of your own. Field report, theory post, anything.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/19 04:21 AM
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Dominance has to be inferred from behaviours. Luckily, judging character with your intuition is what you're evolved to do. Learn what dominance behaviours are and look for them whenever you are socializing with men present.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/19 06:34 PM
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