LTR is going off track

Gaidsbola · 2019-11-06T14:47:16+00:00

This gentlemen, is a true blue beta cock fag.

Op go read the goddamn side bar.

I don’t care that you’ve known her for 3 years. Two and a half months is not a ltr. You are insecure and needy. A man doesn’t complain about his problems to a woman and try to find solace in her. You are a fucking man, you are the rock of the relationship. You have issues discuss it with mentors or close guy friends. Never your woman. You have zero frame.

Again read the side bar then read it three more times before ever making another fucking post.

Metalgear222 · 2019-11-06T16:03:53+00:00

You LTRed a girl that didn’t deserve it. She doesn’t respect you cause you’re not respectable. Demote to plate TODAY or forever hold your dick.

KillaJewels · 2019-11-06T15:20:34+00:00

Seems like you haven't been communicating your boundaries effectively. Tell her what you like and don't like. Pepper them in convos here and there. Also, you shouldn't be complaining about your life to her, that's what girls do.

One more thing. You need to get her to invest more, and it sounds like you don't have a firm grip on your frame to begin with.

Her behavior doesn't sound submissive to me, so that's either a red flag (how she is naturally) or a response to your weak frame. But I'd say work on frame, communicate your boundaries, be more dominant.

If she doesn't become submissive after that, hard or soft next.

The1ndex · 2019-11-06T16:59:25+00:00

Is this a troll..

Yashugan00 · 2019-11-06T17:42:24+00:00

when she is not being very responsive when I have an aching trouble in my life and I try to find solace in her and I want her to feel me

> everything in the sidebar explains why this is. women are REPULSED by men "opening up" and being vulnerable.

_DinViesel_ · 2019-11-06T15:05:34+00:00

I understand that you have a hard time right now, but understand that women can't help themselves, let alone men. Like Don Corleone said, only women and children have the luxury to be careless so I recommend you read the sidebar, feel free to msg anything anxiety related, as I have beaten it long ago

sjswander94 · 2019-11-06T16:21:53+00:00

Your frame is made of glass and it shatters when you don’t get what you want. LTR will end soon. She’s not your mother. You’ll find out the hard way

Foolishoe · 2019-11-06T16:24:04+00:00

Sounds like you are getting needy like a little boy. Don't you have a mommy? She's not your mommy stop expecting her to hold you when you feel down. Take better care of yourself, your emotions are based on a ton of life factors. If the relationship is the only thing that has changed, you've become addicted, take more time for yourself and force discipline and space between yourself and this woman. Sure, she's yours and she's great, but seriously, do what's best for you and maintain frame by doing those things that make you a strong male.

Sylvester_Sterone · 2019-11-06T17:42:56+00:00

"started getting upset about many things such as her not answering my calls when we agree to meet and I'm about to go out and go to where we supposed to meet, also when she is not being very responsive when I have an aching trouble in my life and I try to find solace in her and I want her to feel me."

Dude. You lost this relationship. ~ Walk away

XT3M3 · 2019-11-06T21:25:33+00:00

you are far more invested in her than she is in you. you are the taking the role of the woman here.

UltimateCrypto · 2019-11-06T15:31:27+00:00

You sound like every girl I’ve met

AuberyBitoni · 2019-11-06T16:16:20+00:00

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Title	LTR is going off track
Author	Draconian000
Upvotes	2
Comments	29
Date	November 6, 2019 2:35 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/dsh4jo/ltr_is_going_off_track/
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