I (28 M; 9/10 SMV) have been dating my girl (21 F; 7/10 SMV) for a bit over a year now, and I’m starting to feel like the sex is getting a bit boring. We both have a high sex drive. She was a virgin when we met (real talk). We fuck at least 1-2 times every time we see each other. She’s up my ass all the time, loves me a lot and obviously sees a future w me. We have a strong connection, and I definitely wear the pants. We rarely fight.

In the past 6-8 months, I’ve been admittedly beta on the self-care (fitness, nutrition, clean place) front. I spend most of my free time smoking weed, playing video games or watching tv series. Before this, I was crushing it on all fronts (95% productive with my free time). She’s def a homebody and never really worked out or anything.

Any of y’all ever got bored of sex w your LTR? How’d you deal with it?