LTR won't send nudes because it's not exciting anymore

pjordanx · 2020-04-26T18:08:50+00:00

You know the answer

cfbovernfl · 2020-04-26T19:10:33+00:00

Not only do you ask for nudes but you're in a LDR. Mate, please read the sidebar.

alphaonthecomeup · 2020-04-26T18:12:07+00:00

Just withdraw attention.

There is a problem though, she is too comfortable and feels likes she has you by the balls and you aren’t going to go any where. Gotta also apply a little dread. In quarantine the best way to do that is to just be busy and not engage her.

trunksshortsman · 2020-04-26T18:31:06+00:00

Tell her the nudes are for the boys not for you.That should spice it up

Kabuki431 · 2020-04-26T20:05:13+00:00

If you have to ask for nudes or anything from her. You have already lost. She's supposed to come over and fuck your brains out, not dangle the carrot of nudes and i love you's.

McLovinReturns · 2020-04-26T19:44:20+00:00

Stay Mysterious, women will just get wet off the thought of a mysterious guy. You have stopped being that high SMV male that his mysteries to him. Start doing random shit like waking up early and hiking without telling her. Say something at night just saying "waking up early, goodnight" do not text back after this no matter what. Let her hamster wheel start turning and don't tell her what you're doing in the morning until you're done. Keep doing things like this and improving yourself. Don't get complacent just cause you're fucking her. The goal is to make her as wet as a rainforest and trust me you won't have an issue getting nudes after that. Even than Fuck nudes unless if she sends them first. Do not initiate that shit. Stay mysterious and when the time comes you go full primate and tear that ass up like you haven't before

TheProfitMotive · 2020-04-26T19:36:25+00:00

OP she's letting you know that #SheBelongToTheStreets

2020-04-26T18:27:35+00:00

Honestly, the relationship is probably in its death throes and the quarantine isn't helping the situation.

linkinway · 2020-04-26T19:23:47+00:00

women act on whims of excitement and not of commitment. I am now understanding why 33 secrets said women cannot love men.

Whisper · 2020-04-26T21:14:29+00:00

she didn't want to because she knows I am going to say she looks hot

So what shouldn't you do next time?

VasiliyZaitzev · 2020-04-26T22:48:51+00:00

Tell her that you will tell her she looks chubby.

Yeah, she's not feeling that loving feeling. Or maybe she's put on the WuFlu 15 and is self conscious. But if she's not being compliant, that's a problem in the larger sense.

NabroleonBonaparte · 2020-04-26T19:04:18+00:00

she knows I’m going to say she looks hot..

That’s where you messed up big time. The frame is entirely fucked up. Because you’ve been overly complimenting her, she’s in the frame that the pics are for her validation.

You might be able to save it by re-establishing the frame. You have to “put her in her place.”

Tell her the pics aren’t to let her know if she’s hot, the pics are to let YOU know she’s worthy. Tell her you’re going to get nudes one way or the other, she needs to make sure it’s from her.

She said it’s boring, tell her the relationship is getting boring without nudes.

/END

bert_cj · 2020-04-27T00:43:16+00:00

What’s more important is how you responded to her declining this.

The answer is to just withdraw attention. Not completely withdraw but drawback on how much attention you give her and how often you respond to her texts etc.

She’ll start acting right when you do this.

Snowboard18 · 2020-04-26T18:54:49+00:00

Other girls will.

sebastianconcept · 2020-04-26T21:15:12+00:00

Sexting until she wants to fuck you really bad and at that moment ask for it again.

But... the fact that she said “is not hot anymore” means she is not caring about pleasing you. That’s a complete turn down kind of thin. Breaks the bonner test and an attempt to put the frame on you: make me hot again. Hence, do sexting. If you like her a lot, try sexting really really dirty and see how she responds, if isn’t making her wild, then I suggest nexting.

throwaway11042000 · 2020-04-26T22:15:26+00:00

Dread is the answer. Shes too comfortable

Whitefarmer · 2020-04-27T03:53:30+00:00

Go to the mirror and flex your shit and send it

Manuel_S · 2020-04-27T06:43:14+00:00

I understand nudes as a way that she shows her compliance and commitment.

Otherwise I just can't see the fun in it. There's so much professional stuff online...

BusterVadge · 2020-04-27T14:15:50+00:00

Sending nudes in a 1.5 year LTR can get boring. What you need to do is to take the bull by the horns and give her some tasks to do. Have her wear a butt plug and take pics. Get her to do some very slutty things for you that are out of the ordinary.

Yes she is losing interest.... But also, yes, she is telling you why she's losing interest and giving you an opportunity to make it up to her.

So.... If you want to keep your LTR, Make it interesting.

PepinoSF · 2020-04-27T16:12:56+00:00

She is still sending nudes, just to somebody else

ay-fuh-q · 2020-04-28T14:37:31+00:00

This is an LDR, not an LTR.

She doesn't want to send YOU nudes anymore.

Just installed Snapchat.

lol

hombredelmurir · 2020-05-04T02:52:29+00:00

Hahahah my man

lolomotif12 · 2020-04-26T21:20:34+00:00

Dread, if it don't work, next her. If you don't, she will eventually send them to someone that will excite her instead. Don't wait for that.

Title	LTR won't send nudes because it's not exciting anymore
Author	wherearetheavacados
Upvotes	20
Comments	40
Date	April 26, 2020 6:06 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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