I have it. Trying to get shot mentally but not working . 1 year relationship and this bitch plays me like a fiddle.

I never text her and leave her on read a fair bit then she’ll not text me for a day or 2 as some sort of mental revenge game. It makes things between us awkward. We’re exclusive but she constantly checks out other guys and is flirty as hell - in retrospect i’m sorry i promoted her. Shes happy to go a week or 2 without seeing me and is in total control of the relationship. Its a bad situation.

Covid makes the situation worse- theres nowhere to go- nothing to do - certainly nothing where i can meet more women easily.

I’m grinding daily by lifting and working on my skillset but don’t see any other way to cure my oneitis until the world reopens..

Is there nothing i can do to take back power or is it a mentality change? From a personal standpoint i consider myself a prize. I’m in great shape. Financially secure. Have skills and hobbies that i’m working on that 99% people don’t and i’m starting my own business, but still i feel like i am her fan.

Where do i start with changing this? Do i keep her at a distance and ride it out until i can get more options? Or do i simply next her which would be hard to do but better in the long run?