Oneitis won't leave me be?

VasiliyZaitzev · 2019-10-09T16:32:00+00:00

So here are some red pill truths.

A. Girls are retarded.

B. She wants you to be the nice, well-mannered beta orbiter that you were before.

C. Losing your attention has hurt her feels.

D. If she engages you again, you need to tell her to put out or get out (but more nicely.)

E. Ofc, she's a nutter with a drinking problem, so you should not stick your dick in her at all, ever.

Onidramon · 2019-10-09T16:04:53+00:00

She wants your attention. It’s the female version of the nice guy who doesn’t get why he’s not entitled to sex. Don’t bend the knee

plumo123 · 2019-10-09T16:07:46+00:00

She wanted to finish the explanation because you didn't want to listen. You took the rejection like a man and it became clear to her that if it won't be her, it will be another girl that you'll be banging. She wanted to keep you as an orbiter.

I assume you stopped giving her attention after the rejection. She saw she is losing the orbiter so she became "upset". More like she got trashed drunk because she wanted you to see it, come to her and give her the attention she wants. Now she is acting jealous to stop you from pursuing other girls, giving you an appearance of false hope and potential for something more. All of this is done to keep you orbiting around her.

Keep slaying other bitches, preferably right in front of her nose. Good luck and godspeed brother!

BeeBopJoe · 2019-10-09T16:05:49+00:00

She gave me some long speech which included alot of red pill truths. I interrupted her basically saying. I don't need an explanation...because I don't rejection is a rejection I will live. She literally begged me to listen to her explanation. I listened mainly to shut her up.

You left out the actual explanation. But anyways, just continue to ignore her. You did your job as a man to ask her out and show interest in her, she rejected you so now if she wants you she has to overtly communicate it.

Whatever u do, please do not chase. She will use u for attention/validation.

MattyAnon · 2019-10-09T17:22:14+00:00

Now she has started being really flirty with me, Getting jealous when I talk to other girls etc. I don't understand what is going on?

You handled rejection so well she became attracted as well as the fact that you clearly like her is a positive point too.

My theory is she wants to keep my attention. I had oneitis honestly. Still do in a way. But I need it confirmed from an outside perspective. And maybe some advice on what to do?

Keep it cool man. Oneitis is awful and fucks you up and makes you unattractive. Play along with her if you like, but do be bettering the rest of your life and looking at other options.

This isn't one to take seriously. She rejected you, now she's getting blackout drunk because of you (which may or may not be true). You might get a lay out of it, but it's a terrible start to a LTR.

effyouasshole · 2019-10-09T17:46:14+00:00

She only drinks to a blackout level when upset.

She sounds like a winner.

Now she has started being really flirty with me, Getting jealous when I talk to other girls etc. I don't understand what is going on?

She wants her orbiter back.

If you were at the intermediate or advanced level of RP theory, you could eventually plate her by pulling other women in front of her. But given this post, you are solidly in the beginner level. Any attempt at plating her will likely blow up in your face in an avalanche of cringey drama.

Just ignore her and move on.

Vermillion_Rx · 2019-10-09T18:54:51+00:00

She is trying to rope you back in because she needs validation again. Flirting and presenting the possibility of sex is the easiest female manipulation tactic to mind-controll men.

She's not jealous that a guy she 'wanted to fuck' is talking to other girls now, she is jealous that a guy who feeds her ego is talking to other girls, otherwise she would not have LJBF'd you

She sounds like an neurotic, entitled girl who is actually so insecure that she has to get blackout drunk to keep an orbiter. That's pathetic of her. And the fact that she has to put on a spectacle of drama and desperation should be reason enough to view her as a low-value female

Hard next because even if she puts out and gives you sex it will be nothing but drama afterward

You can do better than this chick

6paths_luds · 2019-10-09T21:18:54+00:00

Typical case of a crackhead without her crack: attention. Don’t go back to being her orbiter

i-am-the-prize · 2019-10-09T17:40:29+00:00

maintain Frame. her attraction for you will provide social proof to the other women. that's her only (safe) utility for you at this point. do not stick your dick in crazy. right now you have the best position, roll with it. find other more attractive women to game and move on.

this is the kind of chick who a guy will post every now and then... "so my buddy fucked this drunk ho and the condom broke, he's awaiting a paternity test, what should he do?" <<< don't be that guy.

alikebabay · 2019-10-09T19:46:01+00:00

Honestly, wtf? This same shit happens to me too. I dont get it. Girl rejects me, then she hooks up with a chad and wants me to know about it and get jealous. So much effort over the orbiter. As you guys said, they should be getting orbiters like nothing, without any effort.

Wtf, to what extent they are ready to pull the orbiters and put actual effort into getting attention. It is almost like a nice guy trying to get sex, as was mentioned here. But I still dont get it. Why not put as much effort into getting Chad's attention.

Sidebar has very little information about to which extent girls make effort into trying to pull orbiters. It certainly does not say, that if a girl hits you with LJBF and you reject the offer, then she will go malicious on your ass, without any sex offer, trying her best to humiliate you. Search here also did not help at all. I just don't get it.

Is it a scarcity mentality? From my observation girla have absolutely no problem cultivating orbiters. But yes, they are not used to rejection of LJBF and they do become crazy. Is it anger? I don't really think she would do the same shit to Chad in a fear of losing chances with him. Please help me put this perspective. I was looking for this paricular answer for the long time.

[deleted] · 2019-10-09T20:00:23+00:00

Dont. Stick. Your. Dick. In. Crazy.

[deleted] · 2019-10-09T20:04:33+00:00

How did you treat her before you asked her out compared to how you treat her now?

PolesWithGoals · 2019-10-10T03:38:46+00:00

She sounds crazy, NEVER put your dick in crazy

PhaedrusHunt · 2019-10-10T06:43:54+00:00

She's a sloppy black out drunk. Can't do better than that?

Do you drink a lot?

amphix339 · 2019-10-10T09:47:07+00:00

Bro just wear tight pants to the gym she'll be right back

Title	Oneitis won't leave me be?
Author	Elephant_777
Upvotes	24
Comments	23
Date	October 9, 2019 4:00 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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