Is it just me or everyone feels afraid in this new world?

I’m in my 20s and I’m terrified to even try anything with girls these days. I was fine plating till now because I was a student (nothing to loose).

But now I’m very successful financially and is it worth it to get laid (plates) and risk losing all of your accomplishments and life over a girll.

All it takes is one occasion of regret. I’m thinking now to just ltr a good girl and chill.

What yall think?