I've been seeing this girl for couple months, and I was no doubt giving more attention than warranted and get very little in return. Very noncommittal to plans. Tough nut to crack sexually. Realized my mistake, and have been distancing myself.

I knew she'd be off today from our last date, told her last night we should do something today. She tells me how it's her only off day this weekend. Cool. I let her know what time I'd be done working today.

Got a text about how now she does have to work today.

Old me would say something like, "ahh thats ok, another time" or would say something like "so when is your schedule free? We should get together"

But, I'm just not saying anything this time. That's the correct move right? I'm going out tonight and have plans, will run some game at a local concert. It feels weird not responding which is the only reason I ask......I always like putting the ball back in her court. But, the ball's already in her court, yeah? She knows she can hit me up if she wants to do something