I've been spinning a plate for several months. A few months ago, one of her orbiters got drunk and started calling her a slut, etc. I intervened and told him I'd be happy to end his life if he's not happy with his relationship with my plate.

A few months have gone by and I've heard nothing about this orbiter. Then, out of the blue today, I get a text from my plate saying, "I'm going to lunch with the orbiter this Tuesday afternoon. It's not sketchy because it's a lunch in the middle of the day, we're not going back to anyone's house or anything."

I'm viewing this as a shit test. Why else would she tell me this? My logic is that she knows me and orbiter don't like each other and I think she's bringing this up now because I purchased a bunch of porno-style lingerie that she's going to have to wear tomorrow night (she's "never done anything like this before" and I'm assuming she's not entirely comfortable, but I didn't ask if she wanted to...).

How do you guys think I reply to this? Do I Agree & Amplify (example text would be nice)? As of right now I've been ignoring the text for the past 3.5 hours debating my best reply. Your input is appreciated.