Should I be bothered when she talks about other guys?

alreadyredschool · 2014-10-16T13:08:15+00:00

Shit-test, she wanted to provoke a reaction from you and you deflected it perfectly.

tepper2 · 2014-10-16T13:04:03+00:00

She's doing it to get a rise out of you. Continue doing what you're doing and don't react.

But at the same time I don't wanna look like some desperate cuckhold thats saying it doesnt bother me because I wanna keep seeing her.

She's not LTR material if she's talking to you about other guys she wants to fuck, so don't go there. If you are trying to keep her as a plate, keep working on your SMV and fuck her correctly. She will be free to ride the carousel because you can't control that.

Advice?

Approach more women. Familiarize yourself with abundance mentality. Don't give this one more of your time than she deserves.

throwbp · 2014-10-16T12:50:35+00:00

No commitment = both of you can do whatever you want. She is fishing for a reaction and you did well by not giving in.

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shooter212 · 2014-10-17T06:49:23+00:00

I'm gonna go somewhat against the grain here... I would not tolerate this from a plate. If you guys really don't give a shit about behavior like this then fine, no problem, but to me it's rude and disrespectful and I don't stand for it.

It's happened a few times and I've said "Don't talk to me about other guys you wanna fuck, I don't want to hear that shit, at least pretend like you have some class." Then she'll ask if I'm jealous. "It's not about being jealous. Maybe you just took a massive shit when you went to the bathroom a few minutes ago. I'm not jealous of the toilet bowl but I don't wanna hear about that either. Have some manners and keep that shit to yourself."

Cue the little girl, pouty face, "I'm saaaaawwwwy daddy"...

This is with girls I've already fucked... Never ran into this from a girl I hadn't fucked. In OP's case, she blew him already, so close enough.

Edit: I think there may be two ways to pass this shit test... One, like you guys are saying, I'm unfazed and don't care. Or two, put her in her place like a misbehaving child, like I do. The way to fail is to come off as insecure.

Brocccooli · 2014-10-16T15:55:07+00:00

"does it annoy you when I speak about/get with other guys"

Idk I like to use some Amuse Mastery in these situations. "Yes, so much, it actually keeps me up at night." With a shit eating grin.

No, it shouldn't bother you though.

SkorchZang · 2014-10-16T15:13:26+00:00

"Naw, of course it doesn't bother me baby doll. Don't do it in front of any girls though, they'll think you're a fucking whore."

stillnoturday · 2014-10-16T12:50:39+00:00

Your answer was perfect more over if she is saying things you don't like why hang around to hear them.

MrEiffel · 2014-10-16T15:04:51+00:00

Been getting with a girl for a few weeks, some BJs and a date

"why should it? we're not together". I get with other girls too obviously.

I don't wanna look like some desperate cuckhold

What the fuck is this shit?

She is a plate who you simply fuck and you shouldn't care less if she just had a gangbang with the entire south part of town. Either crush those burgeoning oneitis feelings or cut her out of your life

caius_iulius_caesar · 2014-10-16T17:53:15+00:00

Not sure if you're joking, but this woman is trying to tease you and succeeding, and is clearly a sloot. Fuck (with a condom) and forget.

AlfaWolf · 2014-10-16T19:22:13+00:00

She is definitely not a LTR material if you're at all thinking about that. Other than that, maintain frame, and use that pussy and ass as well as you like to. Also, I would recommend flipping the tables and talking about a few bitches you have lined up that you are sure to do things she says she wont (Anal?)

Goldfulgore · 2014-10-16T20:47:52+00:00

Well done OP.

Well done

oldredder · 2014-10-17T02:02:57+00:00

You're not a cuckold if you're not together and if you can say to her you're not together - you're not.

The best way to keep a plate is to make sure she has reasons not to be glued to you so you can dump her / ignore her any time you want. She's probably establishing the same: her actions show she's fun for you & her words show she's not committed and you don't want her to be.

fnordsnord · 2014-10-17T18:25:11+00:00

It's disrespectful. She's trying to get a rise out of you. I wouldn't tolerate it.

Mind you, I don't care if my plates are getting extra dick elsewhere. I can't be everywhere at once, and it's not like they are LTR material.

But waving extra dick in front if me is like saying, "I find you inadequate," and it's disrespectful.

tombreck2 · 2014-10-16T14:17:21+00:00

does it annoy you when I speak about/get with other guys"

Advanced level shit test

"why should it? we're not together"

Failed it by answering her stupid question. Agree + Amplify is the way to go

Title	Should I be bothered when she talks about other guys?
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Date	October 16, 2014 12:38 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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