Stuck in make out hell

FerociousOreos · 2016-04-18T18:50:52+00:00

I've got a very successful tinder strategy that routinely gets me dates with 7's and above. I usually meet them at a bar near my place, have one or two drinks then invite them over to meet my dog.

Good job. You know you are doing this right.

But when I try to pull off her pants, they usually pull my hand away. I'll stop then try again in a few minutes.

That's fine, until she denies you a second time.

Sometimes we make out for over an hour while making very slow escalation progress.

This is where you mess up.

Remember, your time is valuable. You have better things to do than rub your boner on your zipper and make out like you are still a freshman in high school.

At this point, you need to show her that you are not butt hurt that she won't go all the way or something, but you need to communicate that you have better things to do and it's put out or get out.

When she denies you the first time, don't act like it's a big deal, and just continue to make out for a while. On the second time, it's still not a big deal, but now you want to stop making out. Just tell her you think it's best that you guys stop there or tell her you have to return some videos or some shit. She knows what's really going on. It's put out or get out time and a lot of times they will jump your bones in this moment, and you need to escalate heavily.

When she finally decides to go, she'll give me a very passionate kiss

This usually indicates that you could have had them if you had gamed it better. Making out for a long long time is not gonna do it.

Lastly, there will be times when they just won't put out on the first date. That's fine. Just don't spend a lot of time with them after they have made that clear. It looks weak and it looks like your time is cheap.

Girl's won't spend money at a store that is giving away their goods for free. Sex is their money and the goods is your time.

Nodeal_reddit · 2016-04-19T00:14:55+00:00

I've got a cousin who slays. He's a great looking guy and has his own business, so that obviously helps. But he swears that the killer move is to be on a couch making out a while with music on. He stands up and puts his hand out like he wants them to get up and dance. Then when she puts her hand in his, he picks her up over his shoulder and physically carriers her to the bedroom. Sounds a little rapey to me, but he swears it's near 100% successful.

redpillbanana · 2016-04-18T20:00:56+00:00

I've noticed that many women have a particular area on their body that makes them melt. Usually it is the nipples (which is why I try to get to tit-sucking fairly quickly) but sometimes it is in other areas.

One woman I knew had some hard boundaries until I kissed her on the neck and then it was as if all her muscles turned to jelly. Another one was really turned on by dry humping. Another one liked the tongue-in-the-ear. In one strange case, simply taking her blouse off did the trick after all other strategies failed.

Sometimes it is something really simple like giving a light head massage or picking them up off the floor. Sometimes it is more complicated such as combinations of all of the above or a giant wrestling match or tickle fight. And sometimes getting them to do things for you does the trick (e.g. massage).

You can try some environmental tactics too. If you have a place with a nice view, take her out to see it and point things out while holding her from behind. Cooking sometimes works too especially if you're making some sort of chocolate dessert. A sexy movie (doesn't have to be porn) also helps get them in the mood. If you have a motorcycle, give her a quick ride on it. Finally, don't forget a bit of alcohol, or, if you're into it, you can try one of the greatest aphrodisiacs I've ever seen: weed.

idgaf- · 2016-04-18T19:12:47+00:00

When you're making out it's also a chance to show dominance. Maybe pull her hair, bite her neck, grab and scratch her a little, press your hard cock against her.

FrameWalker · 2016-04-19T01:02:56+00:00

How's your smv? I left make out he'll when I started reading trp. Turn down supplication, tease more and lots more push pull. The less impressed you are by them the farther you'll go.

Also a bit of kino when you first meet and then no more until the bedroom

Are you escalating properly? Check out Vin do Carlos escalation ladder. Odds are that you're starting to escalate too early and taking way too long to do it. I go making out to sex in 5-10 minutes, and almost no kino before that. The last three times I tried making out before getting home I didn't close. The last three times I waited I did

SoRedSuchAlpha · 2016-04-18T18:29:26+00:00

Sex is substantially riskier and more complicated than making out. You're never going to get 100% upgrades.

Title	Stuck in make out hell
Author	YDdraig
Upvotes	23
Comments	19
Date	April 18, 2016 5:46 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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