Text message hard man.

penguin_says_slide · 2015-03-18T02:07:11+00:00

I am sometimes a fox and sometime a lion.
Napoleon

Be a fox about this one.

You know how you prevent someone from fucking with you?
You let them know you have something on them that can fuck them up completely.

He explicitly threatened you and that's huge when lawyers and courts are involved. So you can send a message that goes like this :

Dear Sir, Your previous texts explicitly threatened me and I do not take kindly to that type of behavior. I want to inform you that I have contacted my lawyer and would like to urge you from refraining harming my person or my assets. Failure to do so will result in litigation which could result in your incarceration or severely cripple your finances. Have a good day!

(obviously consult a lawyer about the specific language)

However that was done over text, from his fiance's number...so not sure how much that holds up. Again, consult a lawyer or look up the law.

If you need to get more evidence, send him a text, saying you would like to meet to discuss things and put this behind you. Have a mate record the meeting or bring a bug or a recorder that can do that. During the meeting, keep calm and keep stating your position "you didn't know she had a fiance, hence you're not to blame". If he gets mad and threatens you...that's litigation heaven! Obviously meet somewhere public so he doesn't harm you physically.

UnluckyPenguin · 2015-03-18T03:18:18+00:00

I've been in this situation. In my case, the guy unscrewed my car antenna and put it in front of the house. He also turned in the side view mirrors.

No damage. He didn't want the police called on him. He was just a passive aggressive d-bag. No wonder the girl didn't respect him.

keep-it-dense · 2015-03-17T23:59:01+00:00

your 6'5 and built, he will not fuck with you, your english i assume because you met this bird in greggs. If he only texted you you are fine, if he was going to fuck you up he would of gone round there and done it by now without warning you before hand.

redpillexplainsit · 2015-03-17T23:27:40+00:00

Bro he knows you raped her. she told him EVERYTHING!

ConfidenceMatters · 2015-03-19T01:46:35+00:00

imagine it's her shit-testing you lowkey? lmfao

slater2j · 2015-03-18T04:43:34+00:00

Say "look man, if it wasn't me, it would have been someone else. Are you going to beat up every guy in town? Find a girl worth your time, this one isnt"

ErasmusOrgasmus · 2015-03-17T23:19:17+00:00

At the very least, keep the text messages in case anything does happen. How much info do you have on her; could you track her down if you needed to?

In any case I'd say it's probably just talk. You handled it pretty well and explained the situation very rationally so chances are he is angry as fuck but on some level he knows that what you said is bang on right so he isn't going to do shit.

gucciswahgg · 2015-03-18T04:53:55+00:00

don't worry about it.

Your demeanor diffused him.

King_of_Demons · 2015-03-18T03:36:23+00:00

dude, you're 6'5 and built.. call that cocksucker up the next time he texts you and tell him that if he doesn't stop harassing you then you will find him and beat the shit out of him (no texts, only vocal, no way he will record). You going to go to court and to police over some huffed up fuckboi?

I don't give the best advice but I don't like how you backed down so hard. Men are physical. Let him know this isn't a game. Get a baseball bat for insurance and some of your friends.. tell him you gonna be at the club or bar.. take it outside and beat the shit out of him. (not with the bat of course)

That's what this fuckboi needs, a reality check.

oh yeah, if you talk to that slut again, you need to rip into her about being a stupid bitch

Merwebb · 2015-03-18T04:20:57+00:00

Hard to ignore but do tell your friends in case something actually happens.

Maybe try to appeal to him as if you were some kind of knowledge source from the mystic manosphere? Some like "hey man lets meet and talk, bitches be cray and shit. She is to blame, she cant just make 2 good guys just fight because crap like that".

Thats what i would do, but im reckless / blind with curiosity sometimes.

OFF_THE_DEEP_END · 2015-03-18T07:06:27+00:00

Empty threats. She was probably offended that you pumped and dumped her. So she's using her "fiance" to get to you.

If he was really invested in harming you, he wouldn't have wasted time with BS texts. He would already have tried to put his fist down your throat.

My advice is to let it roll like water off a duck's back. Don't even bother with a reply. Just move on with your life. If he ever gets the guts to harm your stuff then it's time to sit up and take notice. But until then I'd completely ignore him.

If you must do something, then yes file a police report about the threats. That way if it escalates in the future you already have a case in your favor.

steelsoldat · 2015-03-18T11:42:50+00:00

Kind of off topic If he gets violent you could spin it off to the girl for revenge

Mustaka · 2015-03-18T12:29:10+00:00

Let the little beta bitch rage. If an LTR of mine cheated on me then told me she would be out the door with nay a word. The last thing I would do is contact some stranger and make threats.

Point him to this sub and tell him to red pill his bitch ass up.

Sepean · 2015-03-18T09:44:00+00:00

Text him: "Dude, outcome indepence. Google it. If you show your fiancé you worry what other men do to her, that just comes off as insecure to her and she'll fling herself at the next built guy she meets too. Stay alpha, bro."

Title	Text message hard man.
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Date	March 17, 2015 10:59 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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