Firstly, this isn't a validation post so I don't really have a need for that. I have a need for strategies that don't revolve around cunnilingus as the great answer from on high.

I've rededicated myself towards self improvement and embracing the red pill. I have quite a long ways to go and will want to reenter the ''sexual market'' after roughly a year or so.

I'm not that attractive, 5'7'', and black. What I've noticed is that, to a degree, some or all of those qualities women have been able to look over BUT they really expect for me to be packing something above 7'' and I am less than that.

Not this subreddit but other subreddits would have men to believe that women, almost all of them, don't know how to measure or know the difference between a big dick and a little one. That just seems more like a convenient lie than some sort of massive and consistent truth. Especially with how many women have multiple partners these days, I'm sure they get a sense and feel for what they want; sexually at least.

The quandary that I know I will run into is that when re-emerging into the market I'll be met with this stereotype. Now, tbh, I could care less about the fairness of the stereotype. Stereotypes exist for a reason because, on some level, they're fundamentally true or can be perceived as such due to reoccurring phenomenon.

I'm very terrified, and I do not use that word lightly gentleman, of the response that I will receive from women when they view my dick. In the past, I've only had 1 woman return to want to have sex with me because, she liked me for who I was and how I made her feel.

That is fine and all but I've noticed for 1 night stands and the such, the few women I had propositioned and made it to the sex point were less than enthused and it's a mood killer for all involved. They DID NOT want a second go at it and I never heard from them again.

It's difficult getting women who aren't obese or hoodrats so the few visually appealing women I have been able to procure become even more difficult to retain due to lack of penile length.

So, what should I do and how should I approach?

Fyi: I don't really care to have comments about the women and how they're such horrible creatures for wanting big black dick, big white dick, etc etc. I could care less about that. That's a reality I can do nothing about. I'm more or less focused on strategies to deal with the situation. I don't hate women and from my understanding the red pill isn't about hating women. It's about understanding women and the world and acting accordingly.