TRP & Tattoos

fnordsnord · 2015-11-13T21:28:01+00:00

Despite HUGE efforts by the tattooed subculture and their trendiness i certain hip, urban circles, there remains a LARGE subset of Americans who view tattoos as only the legitimate province of soldiers, sailors, and Marines. On people other than soldiers, sailors, and Marines, they tattoos are considered by these people to be lowbrow.

Visible tattoos with hurt your chances of employment and advancement with this group, and many of them are in positions of power and influence. Unless you are in the creative trades (art, performance, design, and the like), consider very carefully before you get a tattoo that is not easily concealable.

Edit: I do not consider servicemen to be "lowbrow." I have fixed my wording to reflect this.

CisWhiteMaelstrom · 2015-11-13T18:17:56+00:00

I'd never get a tattoo. They hurt you professionally and can look like shit over time.

theguy227 · 2015-11-13T19:59:37+00:00

Tattoos visible while wearing standard "work" attire will hurt your chances of employment, depending on the job/employer.

Tattoos won't make you "cooler" or any more "edgy" than you already are without them.

I have tattoos because I like them and wanted to get them. Will they look worse over time? Most likely. I don't care.

If you are going to get a tattoo, put some thought into it and specifically consider the reasoning you have behind justifying getting a tattoo. Think of consequence, their permanence, and most importantly if they are really something you genuinely want.

Make your own decisions.

GoldenCocaine · 2015-11-13T23:37:30+00:00

I don't give a shit what anyone says. The vast majority of girls love tattoos. (Under 25, at least)

It's just one more thing about that bad boy, rough around the edges appeal. Now, as visible tattoos go; just don't. That's just dumb. Get something on you back, shoulder, or upper arm area if you want though. As long as you can cover it up with a polo on, go for it man. Do whatever the hell you want

I have a half sleeve on my left arm. From a little above my elbow to my shoulder. And a small tattoo on my back as well. It ties together well and girls love it. You gotta make it aesthetically pleasing and really think about the location of the tattoo make sure it will look good. Cause they can go oh so wrong...

Also I wouldn't suggest getting color -- just black & white. Doesn't fade half as quick, cheaper, looks better, and can always be removed if it that became an issue.

Tattoos definitely aren't for everyone. If you really want one then get it. I got mine because honestly my life has been one fucking hell of a ride. From drugs, gang related bullshit, just I've been through a hell of a lot. And I got them back when I was still hardcore. It's really just a sign of my past self. I'm professional and normal now, but it wasn't always that way. I like them still, reminds me of my past and how far I've come. Most people realize that when they see them, they can tell, damn, that kids done some shit. But it's hard to imagine if they meet me now because I look/act/am so different. Like you used to do WHAT?!

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secret_barber · 2015-11-13T19:07:15+00:00

No one cares if I do or don't have a tattoo, but I'm a creative...it's basically expected I have tats. In nearly every other field, tattoos are going to be perceived as negative. If you get one, get one you can easily cover with a dress shirt.

ConcealingFate · 2015-11-14T02:57:44+00:00

I have a full sleeve on my left arm. Fairly easy to conceal.

The importance is to get it and do it for yourself but be smart about it. No hands/necks/face/head tatts please.

kabylewolf · 2015-11-13T18:18:07+00:00

Meaningless. Tats or no tats hold no meaning on their own. Stop focusing on something artificial. You need a more complete picture to make a fair assessment.

alreadyredschool · 2015-11-13T18:15:56+00:00

This will shock you but if you want a tattoo then get one.

If you want a real answer give me a real question, here I made one for you: Are tattoos on guys attractive? Is it wise to get one? What should I consider before getting one?

I personally prefer elite circles and being successful, so no tattoos. I also met many women who don't like them. And most of the guys with tattoos that are hot are hot with or without them, not because of them. But if you want to come over as impulsive and dangerous get one.

If you goal is just to get laid but actually hate tattoos then it's not wise.

Before you get one remember that you will occupy a spot that you will probably want to use for a tattoo in about 5 years, and in that time you will have much better ideas. So wait for a long time and ponder. And then try to find the best tattoo artist you can find, best often correlates with expensive, then discuss it with him, when you are sure get it. Think about it, what was important to you 5 years ago, how much did you change? You will probably change in the future, so this should be a sure thing.

And try if you are allergic to henna. You can get really nice scars with it, or you can get horrible looking ones, needs luck.

someboringdude · 2015-11-13T21:32:30+00:00

I'd say it depends on your body . I am tatted up. Both arms, chest, stomach and entire back. I work in a very professional environment. What matters OP is masculinity. Are you masculine? Do you work out? Or are you a little bitch? Because no amount of tattoos in the world will attract women if your'e soft.

All my co workers are a bunch of rich, snobby preppy beta losers. They all make fun of my tats , joke around calling me "thug life" and make prison jokes and what not, but guess what? When I take my shirt off , half their wives hit on me or flirt with me and seek me . My point is if your'e a masculine man, tattoos or not you will slay pussy.

someguyrunning · 2015-11-14T02:37:36+00:00

Don't get them anywhere regularly visible. Other than that, they are fine. Do what you want. I personally have one on my upper arm that I like having. I would not ever get one on my forearm or any other easily viewable place.

Getting a lot of tattoos is likely a bad idea. Don't get them on a whim. They are expensive and painful to remove.

[deleted] · 2015-11-13T19:15:54+00:00

Do what you do. If you like tattoos then get some. But if you dislike them or they would somehow hold you back, don't get them. That being said, I have tattoos, but they're easy to cover up and won't be visible unless I'm wearing a real short sleeve shirt or v neck.

throw_em_all · 2015-11-14T02:04:44+00:00

I like tattoos, but not enough to get one yet, it's been two years now since I had the idea to get one, and still thinking about it. I keep coming with better options to spend my money on, so probably I don't want it bad enough.

I respect whatever choice guys make regarding tattoos, whether it has a meaning or you just like em, it's your body, you walk around with it so do what you want. That being said, I think that, if you're not either a rockstar or your job is related to that sort of image, if you get a tattoo that can't be covered by a shirt, then you're a moron because it will definitely sooner or later affect your career in some way, maybe in ten years it will change, but not now.

Biggie_Smores · 2015-11-14T04:48:11+00:00

If tattoos are your thing go for it. No they don't affect employment, don't get any ink on your neck, or hands (TL;DR a suit can cover all ink) and enjoy. DO NOT. DO NOT get a tattoo for the sake of looks, youll feel silly later.

My personal experience, I love tattoos. I very much enjoy having permanent artwork on my body. I have shitty in-house tattoos, extremely well done professional ones that took years to finish. And years to meet the artist who I could flow with and bounce my ideas off of that he understands. Tattooing is a genuine journey for those who are genuinely into it.

All this other shit about fads, and looking cool, and regretting when you're older...personally I'm not sure where the fuck all that comes from. I've wanted tattoos since I had my first fake one at 5 and it hasn't changed 18 years later.

If you feel similar, go for it.

DevilMayCry · 2015-11-14T05:03:38+00:00

I understand why people get tattoos. They can be appealing if they are done well. However, I myself would never get one.

dabrah1 · 2015-11-14T19:32:47+00:00

Keep them hidden. Theres no definitive answer to this some girls like them, some girls don't. Some employers don't like them, some only c care about you doing a good job. Do what you want to do.

-Petulance · 2015-11-14T00:40:27+00:00

I have one and intend on getting more.

They definitely hinder you in a professional setting, so make sure you can always keep them hidden. Other than that it's all personal preference.

Luckyluke23 · 2015-11-14T02:52:20+00:00

totally gay as fuck.

I am like the antichrist for tattoos I fucking hate them.

especially one women ( on guys WTF why would i even look at them) I would NEVER get a tattoo i think they are stupid and not cool.

I don't need to see a pic of your granny on your leg while i'm fucking you ok.

edit: this is the first thread i have found ever where people hated tatttos... where i am from it's like futbol in the eu. if you ain't doing it GTFO it's horrible.

Title	TRP & Tattoos
Author	ThePhenomenal1
Upvotes	12
Comments	40
Date	November 13, 2015 5:57 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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