What are some “crazy” red flags?

atticusfinch1973 · 2020-09-20T22:37:11+00:00

There are personality traits if you vet them a bit. A couple of big ones are being estranged from their family and having mainly male friends.

Oversharing right out of the gate, especially about trauma can be a big one as well.

MrNeverDryDick · 2020-09-20T22:14:27+00:00

Desperate for attention.

Dodechaedron · 2020-09-20T21:43:43+00:00

Mood swings

smgtn · 2020-09-21T00:18:08+00:00

Many years ago I dated this broad who started telling me she may be a lesbian (she wasn't). That was the craziest in my book. Dropped her like a hot potato.

elbananerozoy · 2020-09-20T22:57:26+00:00

High body count, constant need of attention, emotionaly unestable, cold-warm approach, contradictions...

2020-09-21T14:17:40+00:00

"I'm a bitch and proud of it!!!" "Can't handle me at my worst..."

There's two.

Also if she is adopting damaged shelter pets constantly.. she's trying to fix herself.. in broken animals.

Fukndapoon15 · 2020-09-20T22:50:58+00:00

Tattoos...some.guys will say none at all and I have no issue with that...I would give a little leeway if it is like one of those little ankle sorority tats, and she doesn't want any more.....but overall, using their body for tattoo art is a major red flag.

So are multiple ear piercings, ans nose/lip/belly button rings.

MakeSail · 2020-09-21T08:17:41+00:00

The classic question is: How did you last relationship end?

What you are looking for is the woman to admit that there was fault on both sides. If she just blames her ex for the relationship ending this is a red flag. Emotionally Mature people recognize that a healthy relationship requires understanding and commitment from both sides, and when it ends there is usually enough blame to go around.

2020-09-21T01:35:35+00:00

If she’s jealous before you guys even started dating.

JoesIcedTea · 2020-09-21T01:34:38+00:00

Do they take happy pills?

dontbeanasshole777 · 2020-09-21T07:01:59+00:00

Check npd, bipolar, bipolarsos redddits

2020-09-21T21:04:56+00:00

Neon dyed hair
More than 1 tattoo
Nipple piercings
Dick Magnet (tongue piercings)
Has "anxiety" or depression
Daddy issues (No dad, is no defense)
Single mother
Fat (Doesn't care about her body)
Fucked the village (N-count higher than 100)

denver_coder99 · 2020-09-21T03:38:36+00:00

Dating anyone who subs to FDS. Run!

OnlineBoii48 · 2020-09-20T23:01:41+00:00

Read my post.

clickherebaby · 2020-09-22T01:01:18+00:00

Upon moments of entering your home and meeting your parents, she's giving your dad a handjob.

Kinda a deal breaker for me.

xxx69harambe69xxx · 2020-09-20T20:58:02+00:00

it should be pretty obvious

Title	What are some “crazy” red flags?
Author	youtrain6969
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Date	September 20, 2020 8:50 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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