Don't know what to do, Im in 11th grade in highschool and got accused falsely of rape in 10th grade, all of the evidence showed it was consensual and there were texts admitting it was consensual however, the girl went around and lied and made the whole scene 10x worse (after police considered it false) and went to all of my friends talking about it and ever since that my "friend group" and other friends around school have stopped talking to me and have left me alone so they can hang out with her (full of beta guys mostly). All the teachers know, and it seems like a lot of them look down upon me compared to before the claims WTF.
9th through 10th I felt like a chad, I felt confident, I was okay with girls, and had friends. But, I have recently been isolated and introverted as of now, focusing on myself, but every now and then I get caught up in how alone I am and it really fucks with me. She is now considered the artsy cool girl, while I am now considered the creep that is "dangerous." I work out religiously (im decently muscular and the gym is honestly a life saver literally) and okay looking (not sure anymore because now females do not approach me and I cannot tell if it is because of the false claims or I'm ugly) but generally I have been toughing it out and just trying to get out of this super liberal school. I would have switched schools already but this one is academically prestigious.
Anyways, I just want to know what to do, because my self esteem has generally been decreasing slowly, I cannot tell how bad the situation is, and sometimes feel like I am making it worse than it is and I have been stuck fighting my inner demons every now and then. I feel like women are just too much risk at this point and not worth it to approach or talk to, and I have figured out that men in this world are truly fucked.
P.S. I cant sue her because I do not have physical evidence of her spreading rumors, only verbally such as "I heard this" "I heard that" from other people and through actions (friends completely leaving me), and instances where people that I RARELY talk to/do not talk to at all refer to me as "dangerous" and a "rapist."
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